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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know she thinks I'm boring. Should I keep trying or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - A while back (about a month or so now) I met a girl who seemed pretty interseted in me. We would text back and forth basically every day. Only issues was that it would get more and more boring each day. I asked her if she wanted to do something the weekind after I met her. She ... (213 words)

I'd like to be exclusive, not FWB. Should I just stop sleeping with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I have many mutual friends. For months we kept running into each other at parties and finally about 7 months later I kissed him out of nowhere. He explained to me how he had been trying to find out more about me for months and try to talk to me but he just got ... (271 words)

My Bf is becoming a workaholic. So I feel neglected. How can I broach this subject with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I broach this situation with my boyfriend? He is getting more hours at his job, which means he is working every single night except for friday, saturday and sunday. Saturday and sunday he works during the day and gets off around 4ish. I work 40 hours a week full tim... (281 words)

Almost 30. Is it ridiculous that I'm still waiting for 'Mr Right?'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 29, single for almost three years, I meet nice men through internet or when I go out, but I keep turning them down. It's not that I'm looking for someone "better" or think I deserve the richest or smartest. It's just that I want to meet someone and develop a feeling that... (317 words)

Can or have men been able to stop using Porn once they meet the woman who is the 'ONE'?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any men here who stopped using porn once they found a girlfriend who they thought was the one? Am I just dreaming here or can this happen? I have read about this happening as soon as they started the relationship. ... (44 words)

One of my husband's employees kissed me at a party at a party. Could I be sending the wrong signals to this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I run a small tour company...we have 10 employees. One of our employees lives pretty far away so when he has to work weekends he sometimes stays at our house. Last night we had a party and he agreed to help out with the cleaning up and being the barman etc. ... (253 words)

All my close friends are about to move away and I'm feeling depressed. Any advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I´m going to have this strange period..because all my close friends are leaving abroad this month, to study, to work..Actually, it happened that all of them are leaving even the same week which is extremely depressing for me..I´m not used to loneliness, we used ... (217 words)

Why do I get so angry with my boyfriend and say things I don't mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do I get so mad at my boyfriend for no reason and say such hurtful things to him that I dont mean? I love him with all my heart I dont want to push him away from me. I can't seem to control my mouth when I get mad. He's really getting fed up with it and I dont want us t... (80 words)

How should I greet her? First date with a girl I met online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been speaking to this girl on a dating site now for a week and we are going on a date tomorrow. Any tips? When I greet her is it just a casual hello,? Any advise or tips will be muchly appreciated !... (48 words)

Since I split from my boyfriend, I feel I have no one who loves me. Finding it hard to cope.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone Me and my boyfriend decided to split up because we barely see each other and my guardian won't let me go to his house, but he can come over, and sometime we go to the movies. I don't have a Job and he don't have a job neither so it's kinda hard to go out and... (257 words)

I really like a guy. How do I approach him/ what should I put in a text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I text him? I really like him:(? There's guy that constantly stares at me but looks away when I catch him in the act.p /> •goes out of his way to open doors for me •Is really friendly and talks to everyone but NEVER talks to me:( •he asked me to sign ... (122 words)

My BF's ex still has feelings for him. Is she a potential threat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. Something has been annoying me, as a... potential threat. A girl gets feelings for my BF. She often posts on her Facebook page with heart broken words, and says missing "someone" for a few months till now, since me and my BF have been together. Last month I was so a... (276 words)

My GF doesn't want to lose her virginity until we're married, but that won't be for 10 years! What can we do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

12 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been together with my girlfriend for nearly a year. We both never had sex, we only experimented with foreplay etc.(Basically everything but just the most vital part, sex) She told me she will only be willing to do that once we get married, using fear of pregnancy... (164 words)

Deception.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am presently in a relationship for past three years and five months. Here's the problem, we both have each others facebook accounts passwords, so I went on his account without his knoweledge recently, not that this is regular thing cause we both trust each other but i just... (171 words)

My boyfriend flirts with other girls without realising he's doing it - need some help, please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend has been flirting with some of my mates without realising it. I'm his first girlfriend but I don't really know what to do about this. He says he's sorry and keeps asking how he can make it up to me but I don't know that either, could really use the a... (59 words)

Need help reading situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - so i met this very cute french girl (and i mean damn beautiful) at a uni pub crawl we met at the 3rd of 5 bars we spent most of the night together talking (about 4 hours) the first hour or so her friend was with us but when we got to the last bar she left us to talk alone. ... (492 words)

I told my friend I have strong feelings for him and his reaction was of shock and confusion. Did I misread the signals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So-- it has finally come to the point in my life where I must go to the Internet for advice. My situation is just too confusing for me to deal with-- and I just need some help. Here's the story as short as it can be put: My friend and I have been friends for 9 years--and been ... (1425 words)

Should I talk to her in the mornings or look like a loner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Ok basically every morning before school I wait for my bf (C) and his older bro (S) who is in 6th form to be dropped off and his bro's gf (K) who is in the year above but is the same age as me waits for them as well. The thing is we wait in different places, I wait... (244 words)

My Bf will be so hurt. I cheated over Christmas with a work colleague. What should I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some advice,I understand if you judge me, I hate myself for it..... Me and my boyfriend of 2 years went through a miserable period over Christmas, felt really down about it. I had my works Christmas party where I found myself really drunk, which was my first mistake. A... (211 words)

Would guys be put off because, at my age, I still rent, live with friends and don't earn a high salary?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can i have some advice/feedback from the guys on this. I need to know if these things would put you off a girl, or if you actually do not care about these things and it wouldn't even be a factor in anything. i am 32 single, female and worry that i just don't have ... (582 words)

Despite our disagreement, our relationship is not over. But should I have tried to sort it out? Instead of walking away at the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years and I have just had a huge fight and I don't know if I overreacted a bit. Basically, we ended up talking about the law and it became clear we have totally different opinions about it (in a nutshell, I do as I am told and he doesn't see why he should ... (402 words)

Truly, should I forgive her? She claims she still loves me despite all her actions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

12 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my fiancee for 5 yrs. She moved into my apartment 2 years ago. l love her deeply and she means the world to me but am beginning to wonder if my love is not being reciprocated. August 2011,she asked some boy out on facebook,they even arrange a t... (339 words)

How do I get over a guy, one who's also a best friend? He feels nothing romantic for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How does one get over a guy? I am in love with my best friend yet sometimes it just really hurts me to think that he doesn't want me - he ignored my love confession - and is probably out with others. Yet, i love our friendship. I just don't know how to be in it without tort... (72 words)

Is he still my guy? Or is the new girl in his sights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy and I were doing nicely. he is 4 years older than me. we work at same office, travel by the same bus. i met him 6 months ago. Soon we were so close(went for shopping,movie, beach and restaurant together even made love). He had even told me about his previous relat... (396 words)

Who? My controlling Bf? Or this sweet man who's my tutor, but he also has a Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a problem concerning two guys for the past two and a half years. One of them is controlling, hates my friends, and puts me down a heck of a lot. We used to be great but things have just gone downhill since I started having a (in my opinion, small) drinking problem ... (391 words)

Should people accept me as I am? Or should I change my ways and start letting people in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a very private person and rarely tell people the things that go on in my life. I've been called cold and even fake. I don't feel comfortable talking to people, but I also don't want them to think i am a cold person. Should i change my ways and start letting people in? O... (66 words)

Online comments from girls: should I take notice? Does a guy's personality change girl's opinion or perceptions about a guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - When I asked girls (online) to rate me, the majority of them said I was okay but I wasn't their type of guy. One girl said I was okay but no panty dropper (kinda hurt my feelings). and a couple said I wasn't good looking. I wanted to hear the truth but now I don't feel good... (163 words)

My Bf has gone on a vacation to Hawaii without me! When he returns should I make demands and set out my expectations?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Dear Cupiders, I really wanted to get some unbiased input from you all. I'll really try to make a long story short. There is a lot of history between my bf and I. We were together for 1.5 years, broke up because he cheated and left me for another woman, and about 5 mont... (464 words)

Was he trying to get closer to me? What’s going on with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

12 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been having a casual sexual relationship with a guy for a while now. He said he wasn’t looking for a relationship and neither was I. We have been enjoying really great sex but the last time we met up he really confused me. Straight after we had sex, he suggested to ... (232 words)