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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why don't any girls pay attention to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ever since I hit 15 my teenage hormones kicked in and my personality took a complete 360. Before I hit 15 girls thought I was really cute because of how happy, playful, and funny guy I was, not to mention I had a tough personality. But then I noticed I became constantly ... (171 words)

He was in an open relationship previously and my friends don't approve of our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I started seeing each other a year ago. He was in an open relationship at the time but that ended last May and we have been exclusive since so officially we've been together about 8 months. My problem is my friends are still so skeptical about the relation... (212 words)

He doesn't look at me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, everyone. first thing is that I am married, but someone has come to my life and has me all confused. My husband and me are having to many problems. OK getting to the point. I met this guy about a year ago, he works at his father store just a couple feet away from my home. ... (306 words)

Another does he like me type question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell for a younger and local guy (I'm late 20's and he's 18) while I was on holiday, he seems to like me to but he's never asked me out. He seemed shy at first as he’d always smile and look over but avoided talking to me even though he was chatty with everyone else. Ther... (360 words)

Should I marry my long term bf despite lack of physical attraction & chemistry? please help.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i am in emotional dilemma right now. to be honest that is an understatement. i am in hell because everything that is going on with my life is in turmoil. i don't know if i should marry my bf for 10 years. i don't know what to do? i only have 1 bf all my life and i am ... (672 words)

Why do involved men ask for a girl's phone number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - why do men ask for women's cell number even if he/she is already in a relati0nship?basically,i want to know men's m0tive in the first place... (25 words)

My girlfriend has a male friend who keeps hitting on her. How am I supposed to act?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try and be brief. My girlfriend met this guy (I'll say Matt) at a house party a couple of months ago - introduced to her through a friend (I'll say Chris). They met up as a group, since Chris began to take an interest with her friend. Whilst this was happening, Matt began ... (241 words)

Am I too small to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) age 26-29 - I know this is gonna sound weird but me and my friend got into this really weird conversation about sex (we're both virgins which would explain the constant giggles and blushes) which led to me wondering about how deep my vagina was inside. I actually took the time to measure ... (89 words)

I experimented with my male friend, but decided to go back to females. Why is he so upset?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

24 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I’m a young man and I’ve trouble with a friend. I’m very outgoing person, I like to try new things and everything new. My friend is gay and although I’m straight, I thought that I’m living only once and decided I want to try something with another man. I told my friend about ... (233 words)

Suddenly can't do bjs any more??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so i have a problem. I have been marrried for 11 yrs and all 1 of those yrs i was able to give great messy blow jobs no problem, but lately i just cant as soon as it gets too wet i start to panic and feel like i cant breathe? it upsets my husband and it upsets me as well, ... (105 words)

I feel threatened by my emotionally abusive ex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I broke up with an emotionally abusive ex half a year ago. On top of that, he owed me a few hundred dollars. The breakup was not pleasant. He threatened to commit suicide if I wouldn't get back with him. He has also left voice messages saying he was around my block ju... (167 words)

14 and confused about my sexuality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - Im 14 and in the Past few months I have been masturbating and suddenly feel an attraction towards gays and orgasm more quickly. Yet at the same time I have never had a crush on a boy and have had many over girls and regularly get erections thinking about kissing girls. Also ... (95 words)

What is wrong with my libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. This is thus far the longest relationship I've been. I am 24 and he is 27. We love each other but the sex has taken a weird turn in the last few months. We were that couple that you couldn't get away from the bedroom.... (251 words)

How can I get through this bitter breakup? I don't know how to cope.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and things are disturbingly bitter, so much so that I don't know how to get over this whole experience. I had to break it off, I didn't trust him at all and I felt taken for granted. We are currently not in touch at all in any w... (109 words)

Boyfriends sex drive has dwindled, but then I found out he's been watching porn. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years but we don't live together. When we first got together, our sex life was amazing and we were having sex every day, which naturally has dwindled over time... however recently, it has become roughly twice a week, he always ... (142 words)

Can I fix this job interview mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i went for job interview today for a guest room co ordicator and they asked me about my goal in five years and i said it would be to open my own salon. now that was really stupid and not realistic as i should have said it would be to excel in the position and learn more in ... (81 words)

I really like this girl but it doesn't seem right to ask her out. I'm 4 years older. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently a girl joined my college..she is 4 years younger than me..we know each other because her brother was my school buddy. From the first day of her college, I really liked her. Now here comes the problem.. I don't want to tell her that I like her because I think it would... (192 words)

My girlfriend overheard her parents conversation and found out she was not wanted and now she's freaked out and its ruining our relationship!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and I are having a serious crisis!!! We've been going out for over 2 years now and for the most part it's been great. of course we have our little moments but we always have seen it through together. Well now she just found something out that's totally tur... (889 words)

Is a man wearing a women's swimsuit really a 'sexual offense' especially as the man did it drunk at a party?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age - I have recently found out my 24-year-old daughter is dating a convicted sex offender, she had inadvertently mentioned it when talking about her new boyfriend (he's 32). I feel sick and disgusted but at the sametime am powerless to stop her. She told us this man was done ... (246 words)

My boyfriend looks at other women and makes me feel horrid!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and have been together for three years now. He cheated on his ex wife and has made me feel uncomfortable when other women are around us. The first time this happened was when we invited a friend to lunch and she held his gaze for a moment over lunch. He tilted his ... (320 words)

Some of my husband's actions are making me uncomfortable. He says there's nothing to it. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm four months pregnant with my first child. Overall, things have been going well in my relationship with my husband. My sex life isn't quite what it used to be, but it's not like we don't have sex at all. (And not because I don't want to!) Over the last week, I've been ... (347 words)

Why does my husband watch one particular part of my body during sex?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am really embarrassed but here it goes: sex with my husband is over the top. I mean, since I've been with him I finally understood what "to make love" means: he's caring and sentimental in the bedroom and outside the bedroom too. When he is about to climax, though, I ... (138 words)

Unexpected death of an acquaintance has got me thinking--whats the point?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just found out that a colleague of mine with whom I used to work a some 4 years ago had a mortal car accident this morning while he was driving to work: the road was icy, he lost control of his car and crashed against a tree- he died. We weren't close friends or anything... (287 words)

A virgin dating a player. I'm scared about having sex with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm dating a well known business man of my city,and even before I knew him I'd read about how he's a player and is not really looking for a relationship,I never ever thought for the life of me I'd date him some day!so when I got into this relationship all my frien... (175 words)

My relationships end so terribly that I really get affected. I am done with love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - In all the relationships ive had not one has ended without me being affected i become so depressed i even stop eating and eventually lose weight,the problem is i love too much without even leaving room for dissappointment.i dont think i will ever love again all men are the ... (93 words)

Why is all this negative thinking taking over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I just got done with my final year of university,gave my final exams abt 4 days ago,and now I'm waiting for my results which wouldn't be out in another 3 weeks,I'v been sooo anxious,I get nightmares about it,I can't think straight,its very important that I pass,and I'v put ... (90 words)

I'm worried that I'm leaning too much on my boyfriend and he should be out having fun

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years following a long friendship and we are very much in love and looking into moving in together after in finish uni (he is currentrly in a graduate position). I haven't had it easy in the last year or so, my family has suffered 2 b... (348 words)

I can't commit to someone else because I'm in love with a married man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in contact with a married man with two older children since 2009 . We chatted for about 6 months before i let him in my life. We got serious and within 3 weeks his wife found out . He called if off. I was gutted , he would avoid me at work. We did start talking but ... (238 words)

How do I help someone get better at their hobby without being perceived as critical?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a friend who is just starting (a year ago) to get into a hobby that I have practiced since I was a kid. I am 39 now so it's been over 30 years since I started. A lot of things are not going right for her and she asks me for advice. When I tell her what she might b... (341 words)

My father is a hoarder and has poor hygiene refusing to bathe or wash his hands!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start out by saying I know this is a relationahip forum but this is one of the better sites that gives advice so please answer this question about a family member. This question is more for my mother to ask but the entire family is being affected. My father has terri... (841 words)

My boyfriend refuses or is incapable of loving me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, But he doesn't know. He doesn't believe in being in love or falling in love, he actually hates the phrase "Falling in love", he doesn't think its real. We say all the time we like each other. But its killing me because I love someone who is incapable of ... (202 words)

My bf always talks about his married female boss

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years always talks about his boss (female, 3 yrs older ho him) even in bed. I feel this totally irritating, told him lot of times not to talk to her when he is in bed with me, he says ok, but always switches the topic back to her. Sometimes he sa... (172 words)

I'm almost sure b/f cheated but he's saying I did and gave him a STD!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'll try to make this short, I have been dating this guy for about a year and a half and we have had a tough time, there hasn't been any cheating as far as I know, except the one time about six months ago I caught him exchanging naked pics with girls. This was a shock to me ... (660 words)

Am I being a good boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - As of spring of this year me and my girlfriend will have been dating one year. Throughout this year we have had our fair share of troubles like most young couples and I am interested in knowing if I am doing anything wrong and if I am what I can do to correct it. Late last... (544 words)

He's confusing me. Not sure what he's signalling. Is he thinking about popping THE question?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he thinking marriage? He's constantly is talk our future hes slipped and called me wife he refers to my daughter as his he's called my mom MIL and said he might as well call her that. We've talked about it a few times and no i didn't bring it up, he did. My daughter... (182 words)

He knows I've had a tubal ligation. Yes I've put on a little weight. But does he need to keep on asking me if I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My SO keeps asking.me.if im pregnant? ive had tubal ligation done 6 years ago after having my one and only daughter who he claim has his ... hes never been married or has had a baby or has never really thought about having a baby until i came along...we were talking about it... (104 words)

Do I need to get over him? It wasn't meant to be something serious

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4319 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I know this will sound a little pathetic considering my age, but here it goes. Last year I went to a sort of convention, and I met a nice guy. He was kind of cute, but I knew I'd only see him on those two days or so, and I didn't think anything of it, despite the fact that he ... (749 words)

What do you think? Does he like me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people he trusts. *It was cold outsi... (347 words)

My girlfriend lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for months now, she is my first proper girlfriend and the first person I have sex with, I am 22 and she is 20 , she lost her virginity at 16 and it makes me extremely jealous of her , I cant stop picturing her with her previous boyfriends ... (105 words)

If she would go behind his back, she would mine too, Correct? Or should I wait for her to choose me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a messed up one. I finally found my soulmate. She has a child. We were together for a year. She hated her child's daddy. We have been apart for 4 months now. She has started texting me, wanting me to come see her. Here is the exciting stuff, she is back with the da... (180 words)

Why cant my boyfriend tell me that he loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been going out with my boyfriend for 21 months hes 45 I'm 44 I'm divorced, he never married no kids. Last year after a scuffle and a very emotional deep conversation he mentioned that the only reason he never said I love you is because he isn't there yet... the ... (212 words)

I've regained all my feelings for him again. How do I tell him this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So , When I Was 15 I Was In A Relationship With This Guy Who Was Also The Same Age As Me . After Three Months Of Being Together , We Broke Up . But After Several Months Of Not Talking He Decided To Text Me . So We Been Texting For About A Year . Then At 17 We Both Dec... (220 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years chooses facebook over me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for almost 3 and a half years and I'm having some issues with him not responding to my texts in favor of facebook. I'm aware that this seems petty but let me explain. I will notice a lot of times that I'll text him and he doesn't get back to me for a... (242 words)

Why is this guy telling people that we had a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - About five years ago I had a casual fling with a guy I met at a work do. By 'casual fling' I mean we met up, went on a few dates, had dinner together, etc. over a period of about three months. We were both working away a lot, so we must have seen each other about eight times in ... (339 words)

I really don't know what to do about my boyfriend: depression, year abroad etc.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

24 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i'm in a massive dilemma about what to do about my boyfriend. We've been together for just over two years now. We've had ups and downs, had two brief breakups in the past but we're back together and we're as happy as ever. We've always had a fantastic relati... (495 words)