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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you think he wants to break up or work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Let's start with saying I am gay. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 6years he llived 60 miles away so we would meet up or I would go see him yes you would call it a long distance relationship . He got a job closer to we're I live and we both got a house ... (287 words)

What do I wear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I'm going out for a get together with this boy for what I know it's not a date it's just close friends getting together but I quite like him more than a friend. So I'm over thinking on how to dress and how to do my make up choice? Do I go casual so he doesn't think I'... (84 words)

I want to get married but my partner's been married twice before and doesn't think he wants to marry me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for going on 2 years. He recently told me that he loved me but wasn't in love with me. But he wanted to be. He said that he wanted to work on things. He stayed. Now he says that he loves me. And he is glad that he stayed. He has been married 2 ... (91 words)

Are these the signs of an abusive relationship or am I being paranoid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a little worried about the relationship I have with my boyfriend, but I don’t know if I am being paranoid or not. A few years ago I was in an abusive relationship. My instinct at the time told me to get out, but I didn’t and I got hurt. I am now currently in a r... (364 words)

Do these questions sound ok to ask a musician?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to write to two musicians who are members of the same band. Do these questions sound ok ? I want to ask both of them if they have favourite songs by the previous bands that the drummer was in ( he's one of the members that i am writing to ), do they have favourite songs ... (156 words)

How important is oral sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - The basic question here is how important is oral sex to you? I'm aiming this at both genders just to get an overview from both sides. I've been with some people who absolutely love oral and others who aren't really that interested in it and i'd like to know what you all thi... (86 words)

Can anyone give me any hot make out advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I'm a 17 year old girl. I have a party coming up and my crush is going to be there and something tells me there's going to be some action. Does anyone have any hot make out advice that guys like, but nothing too dirty cause it's a party after all. Guys, what... (62 words)

Do men like the feeling of coming inside a woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I have a question for you guys.. Do men like the feeling when they ejaculate inside of a female? I'm just curious... (23 words)

There's a rumour that my boyfriend slept with his aunt (uncle's ex wife) - who should I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's been a rumor that years ago my boyfriend of 2 years has slept with his aunt multiple times. His aunt is divorced from his uncle, she was only related by marriage. He tells me this is just a rumor, that he would never sleep with his aunt. I guess she cheated on his uncl... (189 words)

Husband went to a massage parlour but said there was no sexual activity. I can't believe him and I'm a wreck.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Here it goes. I have two children. One that is 2 and one that is 2 months. I just found out 3 weeks ago that my Husband went to three massage parlors through the past year. The first time he went was a month before I got pregnant. I confronted him about it and we have bee... (311 words)

Boyfriend is cold and distant, and goes quiet for weeks at a time! How can I let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of two years is distant, cold, doesn't call or text for 3 weeks now because of something I said but I apologised. I think he's always finding faults in me, even the tiniest. I think its rather childish, he always does this, he goes quiet then comes back again ju... (77 words)

Me and this guy have been in contact for 5 months but haven't yet met up. We arranged a meet up and he's gone silent. What should I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this boy for about 5 months by text/phone calls.. we've been asking to meet up and that but it hasn't happened yet.. So yesterday we decided to meet up today and we was not really keen and I texted him this morning asking if we're still on and he hasn'... (98 words)

Why does my guy keep on his shirt and boxers during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and we have always been sexually compatible. However he always wears his shirt and boxers while we have sex. He will take his shirt off if I do it for Him, but it is never something he does on his own. We Will shower together... (109 words)

Did I mean nothing to him the whole 7 months we were dating? He broke up with me because of his ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - 5 weeks ago my boyfriend dumped me because he said he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend that he was with for 3.5 years. They broke up about 1 year ago. He was really honest about it, he cried too and said it will be hard for him letting me go. I was his first girlfr... (563 words)

How do I find out if this older guy is interested without really asking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm an 18 year old female and I am lusting over a 26 year old guy. He is so sweet and good looking. But how do I tell if he's interested without fully asking? I've never been interested in an older guy before so I'm sure it might be a little different from guys my age. ... (59 words)

My fiance admitted that he was sexually assaulted as a child. He has been with a man twice. Can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been dating a man for 9 months now and became engaged a month ago, i found out he has been with a man once or twice and was currently talking sex stuff to multiple people women and men. i adressed him with this and he said he has stopped. i have all pass words to all ... (178 words)

Does this kiss between my wife and friend mean anything?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Weve known a married couple 10+ years, they are a great couple and really close friends.I feel there is an attachment, not sure whether its emotional, physical-just different to previous friendships.We see each other almost every week, always a laugh and we love their company. ... (377 words)

Gf sending dirty texts to another man

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my gf for nearly 3 years, it's had it's ups and downs but we've got through them, between us we have 4 children, she has 3 girls I have one boy. The two youngest girls dad left when the youngest was born, and hasn't been around for nearly 5 years, but he ... (117 words)

I regret my transsexual surgery. What to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Im having some troubles now. I went through a transsexual surgery some time ago and turned from a male into a female. However, recently I start to see some identity crisis in myself. The main objective of the surgery was so that I could be a female openly an... (177 words)

My ex keeps texting me wanting an explanation for why I broke up with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up October last year, but it was a long drawn out process of being off and on since April. He cheated on me back then and I still loved him but couldn't trust him, realised I needed some space. Eventually when we done nothing but argue and I had lost ... (250 words)

How can I get rid of my boyfriend's lying trouble making ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends ex lied about being pregnant and the baby being his as she cheated on him on 5 occasions with a friend of his. (Some people even disbelieve she was even pregnant as she was drinking and smoking the night after she apparently had blood tests which 'proved' that she ... (467 words)

We are married but separated and husband has signed up for dating site. What steps do I take now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I've had problems since I married and moved in together (been married 2 years. We have taken a 'break' where he has moved out. I find im a happier on my own, no stress of arguing about how much he drinks each evening, him not going to bed at reasonable time sitting up ... (246 words)

I found proof that he was cheating on me for 3 years but he's still contacting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We ve bin dating for 9mtnhs nw, and suddenly a lady called me, giving me evidences that they ave bin dating for 3yrs, showing me the picture they both took together on her bday, he called me the following day I made him he has broken my heart and thanked him for cheating on me ... (91 words)

Whats a fair amount for boyfriend to pay if he moves in?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years. We are both late 20s. Lately we have been talking about moving in together. i have my own place and he still lives at home. Its not the best time to try and sell my house with out loosing money (he has been pressuring me to do ... (299 words)

Why am I thought of as being a weirdo when other guys say much more sexually charged things but the girl is ok with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not currently actively looking to date right now, but I'm still feeling pretty confused and frustrated being unable to "woo" a girl, especially when I try to watch and see what the more "successful" guys are doing to attract women. And honestly, I just don't get it. I've... (314 words)

Women--how would you feel if your male partner turned you down for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't had any experience with this kind of thing myself but I'm just curious to hear opinions. You sometimes hear from men that their partners are always too tired for sex or are stressed etc. I know that obviously some men are going to get annoyed from that and feel in... (147 words)

Should my friend tell her husband that she used to have a crush on his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend used to have a pshychological crush on a person and a few people knew it. and then an arranged marriage landed her with his brother.. she really loves her husband and his brother means nothing to her now... but should she tell this to her husband who doesnot know a ... (100 words)

Is my fiancé acting up? Has she been too spoilt in the past? Not sure what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's my story. My fiancé and I are supposed to be getting married in July but we have been having problems. We have been engaged since March 2012. To give some quick background we have dated for 4 years and lived together for 3. We live in New York City in an expensiv... (1044 words)

Is this fair? I do so much for him and he does so little for me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and lets just say I'm getting tired of being taken advantage of. He doesn't have a car so yes I drive him around and I pay for dates and I helped him get a job and yes he still asks me for money for gas and I lend h... (138 words)

Is it normal to still feel some pain whenever I see photos of her and her ex together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a girlfriend and she has an ex. During our time of being together, I have already gotten over her relationship with her ex. Now here's my question: Is it normal to still feel some pain whenever I see photos of her and her ex together? I love her and everyth... (81 words)

My boyfriend has no endurance to be on top during sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend can't be on top during sex. He's about 220 lbs and he's around 6 feet tall, so he's a little overweight but not obese or anything, anyways he gets tired really easily and can't last on top at all. Like 5 to 10 minutes and he either has to stop because he's ... (145 words)

How important is a "spark" on the first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This afternoon I went on my first date with this guy I met online about a week ago. He seems like a really good person, we have some important things in common and physically I think he's good-looking (though the latter is least important to me.) I could tell he was into me a... (222 words)

Why doesn't sex "feel" good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what it is but sex just does not feel enjoyable to me. I am beginning to think it is just my age. I am only 20 and I hear a lot of the time women do not hit their sexual peak until they are well into their 30s and 40s. Ladies, is that true? With my experience, I ... (190 words)

My ex-boyfriend is moving away and I'm heartbroken because I still love him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 1.5 months ago and we weren't really in much contact. However, we decided to meet up and today he told me that he is going to be moving back home in a month, which is halfway across the country. I was already heartbroken but now I'm just ... (132 words)

How to break completely free of an ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4320 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really lost and confused. I have dated this guy for 1.5 years( 4 years ago!) We broke up because I gave him an ultimatum. We have talked maybe a total of 5 times after that. We were both dating other people and he sent me messages. (Small things like I should check out ... (596 words)

Shall I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a wonderful man for almost a year now, I stay in his home about 5 days a week, sometimes 6. Everything is going so well. He has hinted about me officially moving in but today I asked him if we could talk about it (seriously) he seemed as if he may be having ... (97 words)

I feel embarassed that I'm still a virgin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 January 2013 (?) age 36-40 - I'm a senior in college and still a virgin. It's not for religious reasons so much (although I am a faithful person), but I've always felt you should lose your virginity to someone you really love and have a future with. I've had several serious relationships but none that I've ... (164 words)

Married to a man 20 years older than I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

23 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a letter I am sending to my husband.. I have no idea how he is going to respond.. So if your a guy.. Please feel free to reply.. That way I can prepare myself.. For whatever transpires. Thanks "Since I spoke to you about us.. You made it very clear that you don... (392 words)