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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think I have a physical sexual problem but don't want to tell my mom! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know if I should be asking for this kind of advice on here or not but I don't know where to go with it. I'm shy and don't want to speak to/show my mum, but I have a problem with my vagina, i don't know how to explain the problem and i am not going to go into detail, but ... (115 words)

Boyfriend of 3 months has lost his home. Should I let him sink or try to help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating someone for three months. He has three children whom he pays child support for as well as paying his own mortgage. Things have been going well between us and he has talked about me meeting his kids, which I am hoping to do eventually when he thinks the ti... (395 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend just propose to me already? Is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I are in our mid to late 40's. Each married and divorced once and we each have 2 children at home. We have been together for more than 2 1/2 years. At the beginning of the relationship during a casual discussion, I told him that I was not the type that would ... (746 words)

My girlfriend has cheated on me several times. Is it acceptable for me to have an affair of my own to show her that there are consequences to her behaviour?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

31 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My 28yo GF has been with me for 5 years. This is the best relationship either of us have ever had. Its not perfect but we enjoy each other and we are good for each other most of the time. My GF openly says she used to be a huge cheater. Then she got with me and stopped ... (856 words)

Why do the men orgasm so quickly with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Almost every man I've been with reaches orgasm quickly. Anywhere from one to five minutes. They say it's because I feel so good. My natural secretions are plentiful and have been described as slick and hot. I've also been told I'm tight although I can accommodate ... (182 words)

Sister in law wants sex and my wife wants me to give it to her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

31 August 2013 (M)

age - I'm not a young man anymore. I've had a good marriage so far, at least I though we did. First, my wife and my sister in law were both victims of being raped by their father as teens, it was kept a deep family secret. I'm not sure about this situation my wife and her sister ... (325 words)

I have a HUGE crush on a co worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

31 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a great relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for many years. My girlfriend is bisexual but I cannot admit to her that I am as well. At work, I really like this guy. He makes me laugh and makes me feel good when I see him. I try to talk myself out ... (233 words)

Fell for my FWB -- should I try to be just friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So i've been seeing someone from work for the past few months now. We've both just came out of long term relationships so decided on a no strings attached/friends with benefits situation. The thing is I've totally fell for him! So when i last saw him on Thursday I told him that ... (244 words)

My best friend is hanging out with my ex and lying to me about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend broke up three months ago and right after this he moved away to another town where my "best" friend lives. He and I stayed in touch at first but were arguing a lot so have been in touch on and off for the past three months. We still love each other...Anyway ... (620 words)

Troubled Relationship with Fiance full of Serious arguments, at least Weekly..Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

31 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been together for 5 years and have a 3 year old son. I have other children outside our relationship. She had a rough past, eg loosing parents etc. I have my past but when I saw her I decided to stop everything and focus on her and that is what I did. My major issues i... (428 words)

No matter what I do, girls still don"t like me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

31 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - What am i doing wrong , girls still dont like me ? Im a junior in hs and alot of girls dont like me . Idk y though , i tried be confident, an asshole, ect. pretty much everything Nothing works !!!! And all my female friends say im real attractive and wear my style very w... (88 words)

My boyfriend is convinced he is not "BIG" enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear internet, I have nowhere else to turn and thus I find myself here requesting your genial and honest advice. This is mostly an appeal to men, personally as a woman I don't understand it but anyone who can offer advice I will be very grateful towards. I don't really ... (239 words)

I snooped on her computer and don't like what I found!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

31 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - a couple of months ago i was visiting my LD girlfriend and i had lots of time alone at her place while she was at school. i snooped into her computer historial out of couriosity and i found she had visited some hook up site afew times for the last months. when i clicked on the ... (167 words)

He can't respect that I'm sensitive

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

31 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm posting here because I would appreciate someone's input on this. My boyfriend and I have been dating for several months now. I noticed this before but recently it's been bugging me a lot more. I'm pretty sensitive and emotional at times and I want a man who is understan... (236 words)

How do men feel about dominating women during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I was just wondering about submissive/dominant sexual relationships. Over the last few years I've gotten really into the idea of being completely dominated during sex; tied up, handcuffed, spanked, etc. I don't think I'm a masochist though, because I don't ... (193 words)

Is this just his communication style, or if he's really pulling back from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a well-educated, successful, fun-loving, adventurous, and attractive woman and have had no problem finding dates, when I want them. The problem has been finding guys who are emotionally available and ready for a relationship. The last relationship I had, I was burned pretty ... (735 words)

He's been the perfect boyfriend so why do I dread hearing from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for six years, in the beginning we had huge problems, he cheated a number of times and because he was my first love i forgave him. however for the last four years hes been the perfect boyfriend we've gotten on great! No issues at all. ... (261 words)

Confused about ex girlfriend's behaviour

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

30 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I knew her for about a year and I would describe it as off and on. We would talk continually online, email and text. Meeting up as friends, with her eventually coming onto me by making suggestive comments and texts leading to sex. We would last for a few weeks then whe... (861 words)

I feel I am too intimidating .....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like i am too intimidating to guys and therefore they dont talk/approach me. I have a general 'don't mess with me/i am my own person' attitude that lets boys know that if the try to mess me around like they do to other girls i just wont stand for it, and this is some... (119 words)

I hate being part of a list,but all the boys of my age don't want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys. I have an issue i need some advice on! Over the weekend i was at a festival and kissed this guy. We spent e whole night together and he was really sweet. I kind of knew it would be a 'one night thing' (we didnt do anything more than kiss) but now i cant stop t... (248 words)

Can I make this work or should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having relationship troubles. My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We were fine until a few months ago. I bought a house and we started doing it up together. That was stressful. Then my dad got diagnosed with prostate cancer and my brother became very very sick ... (411 words)

I said I was confused, he said he was too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - This boy really confuses me... Please help. I said I still really like you he says he still really likes me, yet he broke up with me. How does that work? When I said I was confused he said he was too. What is going on? ... (46 words)

I'm curious about what my girlfriend meant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend told me that she will always love me for who I am no matter what comes or happens in between....From a female perspective, what does that mean? I'm just curious as hell. Please help............ (37 words)

It feels like she is trying to play psychological warfare with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

30 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently my gf broke up with me for no real reason at all. But anyways aside from that I have been trying to move on with my life but it’s been really hard. It really feels like she is trying to play psychological warfare with me. She’s flat out ignoring me at social events ... (171 words)

Secretive girlfriend! How do I approach this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

30 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Been reading through articles on here and they are very useful. However I need some advice still. My g/f has become extremely secretive with texts and calls over the past month or so. There's a guy she's been speaking to and she has become quite secretive with her phone. For ... (380 words)

What are the signs that would show if it is just casual with my coworker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I've found myself in a difficult situation with a guy I like. We work together and have been good friends since I started there about 3 months ago. We had flirted a lot but never let that come in the way at work. One night we ended up sleeping together after a ... (313 words)

Is it childish to ignore someone who rejected you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a male acquaintance from home, I've never really known him very well but as we both go to the same riding club I see him quite often and am good friends with a lot of his good friends. It's a big riding club with many people from my old school, and I've been there for ... (394 words)

What do guys do to have clear skin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This a question mostly for guys who take care of their skin. What do you guys use or do to have a beautiful smooth skin? Everytime I see a guy with smooth skin I get jealous. I'm 21 and I sport nice and well groomed beard but I do look a bit older. But with my skin I look eve... (147 words)

My long distance is into role playing and its startin to really get to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I start, I'm going to say that I know part of my worries come from jealousy and maybe even insecurity, but I really just have to ask others to because I know there's more to it than that. Also, it may be hard to read because I'm venting a bit. I met my long distance... (652 words)

I really want to talk to him but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

30 August 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Ok well it's sophomore year and my friend J(first letter of his name, not gonna reveal his full name) finally is a high schooler but he's older than me by a month. Ok back to the story, we've been talking since I was in the 8th grade and he was in the 7th. Not a lot just ... (304 words)

What's a mature way to handle casual sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is more a request.for guidance. I especially would like answers from men, and from women with experience in casual sex. I lost my casual-sexginity! This week! It was AMAZING. Here I was all cynical about the crappy hand life had dealt me, and being "above" casual s... (617 words)

I am afraid I am wearing out my older boyfriend with too much sex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hello all. I have a situation I need advice on. I am not sure if it is a problem or I am making it into something that it isn't. I am 45 and my boyfriend is 15 years older than I am. He is very sexual and passionate and there are times he can get another erection within ... (398 words)

After 10 years of marriage my husband has no interest in sex. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Just asking. Is it really happening,when the husband and wife is living together for nearly 10 years the sex life is gone? i mean, my husband and me are nearly 10 years now. i dont know but its already 8 months now that he dont even think about sex, even i tried to speak to ... (219 words)

Why can't I get over guys quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am "friends" with this guy my problem is he hasn't been texting me or talking to me...I've done something bad, as in texting him multiple times, each day. (I know that is really bad and clingy!) I'm not like this with every guy honestly. It's been 3weeks since we've hung out. ... (271 words)

I hate this job but don't want to be seen as a quitter

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you quit a job you've been at 4 months if you hated it? I know it hasn't been long but I feel myself wanting to give up and walk out the door some days. I work with infants who are very demanding at a daycare. The crying babies, high maintenance parents and ridiculous ... (250 words)

Went on a group date and I'm afraid it blew my chance with the girl I'm interested in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't understand my date.My date last night keep sending me messages 3 times in a row after the date. From morning, lunch and just now. I am not attracted to her the way she is into me. I can easily tell she is too much attracted to me. I want her to stop contacti... (147 words)

After I quit my job because my boss was furious, I have lost interest in my career choice! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys!! So this really isn't a relationship question, but i don't have anyone else to turn too, so i'm just gonna ask you guys! Last july I passed my last year in college (studying culinary arts) with flying colours, and will be graduating next december. As soon as i finished... (278 words)

Now that school has started that spark is gone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I started talking at the end of last school year (3-4 months ago.) over the summer we didn't get to see each other a lot because of our schedules but we texted constantly and when we hung out there was definitely that connection there. Now that school has ... (210 words)

She forgot that I'd booked a trip for us and made other plans

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - In March I booked a weekend away for me and my girlfriend, as a gift for her birthday. Now, she knew about it when I booked and apparently wrote it in her diary, the weekend away is next weekend...she's just told me she is now going out that weekend with her friends for the ... (86 words)

He couldn't wait for me to get back, then he wants to be alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for three long years! We were absolutely crazy about each other and have so many memories and were each other's firsts for so much! However, a year ago I had to move a few states away to go to a school my family and I could afford for the time being. It was ... (386 words)

Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing everything together - going... (522 words)

Why do people assume it's just for a green card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is that a foreign guy leaves his family , his country , where he has spend his childhood, his friends and everything for American wife and relocate to US but still he will get this taunt of getting married for green card? Why American girls don't appreciate this sacrifice ... (67 words)

I think I'm dating an alcoholic. What can I do to help him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I believe I'm dating an alcoholic. Is there any hope? He's so great when he's sober. We both like to dance and have a few drinks, so for the last 6 months I've been in a bit of denial I guess. Where as I can stop at 3 drinks all night at a night club, he will have 6 and ... (276 words)

Am I overreacting or being unrealistic? Am I wrong to distrust her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This will be a long question, thanks to anybody who reads it and tries to help me! I have been dating my girlfriend for about two and half years. We're both strong-willed people but I guess she's probably a little more hard-headed than I am. We both lied a lot in our marri... (1091 words)

This guy wreaks havoc on my emotions, but I can't avoid him. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I'm kinda-sorta friends with and I don't know if I like him anymore or not. We used to be closer a couple of years ago, and I had the most horrible, humiliating crush on him. Long story short, he gave me mixed signals for a long time, finally rejected me, and ... (186 words)

Why does my boyfriend "like" girls on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, my bf and I are together more than 2 years. We love each other very much (at least I think so), but what bugs me that he "likes" strange girls on facebook from time to time, the pages like Pretty girls etc. I don´t know why he does that, it humiliates me. And I think ... (164 words)

He is begging for us to get counselling but I think he's lying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost two years and we have had our share of ups and downs. Lately, we have been fighting because he cannot understand the concept of me telling him no when it comes to the bedroom activities. I don't say no all the time. It's just those moments ... (176 words)

My husband is choosing a caregiver over me?? I think he's lost his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age - I don't know what to make of my life sometime. My husband's mom is in an assisted living facility. She had a particular care giver who tried to get my husband to hire her under the table. So I go to visit his mom because he asked me to check this woman out and this caregiver ... (389 words)

Holiday with ex-girlfriend in attendance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently been asked if I would like to go to Florida next year with a group of friends and my god children. The only problem is that my ex-girlfriend will be in attendance as she is god mother to the same children. My ex's attitude towards me is what's putting me off. ... (149 words)

My girlfriend has body-image issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 months now and everything is great i couldn't be happier. now two things id like advice on number one when im not with her for a few days which has been regular as I go to my mums who lives an hour away for a few d... (376 words)