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Archived questions from: 17 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My daughter was cheating on her fiance with her best friend's father. How do I contain this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age - My 27 yr old daughter has recently admitted to me she's been cheating on her fiance with her best friend's dad, and she's thinking about ditching her fiance and marrying her best friend's dad. She admitted she was discreet about the affair. I am horrified with the whole t... (376 words)

G/f broke up with me and wants to be friends. I'm not sure if this is a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few months now and I can safely say I really do love her and she told me everytime we were together that she loved me too. However ever since she started this new job she's been a bit depressed. She hates it; she hates it in pretty ... (338 words)

Married and having feelings for someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a senior executive in a company but I have a problem: I feel that I am falling in love with my administrative assistant. I am married with children and she lives with her boyfriend. She is much younger, very beautiful and reports directly to me. We have worked together for ... (209 words)

My boyfriend's personality changes and he behaves like a loser in front of his friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Been dating this really sweet guy since a few months and have been meeting his friends etc. When we are just the two of us, he is so sweet, caring, gentle, funny: I basically enjoy spending time with him. However, when we are in a social gathering: I feel like he changes his ... (297 words)

Could it be that sure wants to get back together with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So my ex and I have broken up for over two months. However, we work for the same company. Last week I saw her at a meeting and before the meeting started she approached me and kiss me on the cheek hello. She was like "I saved you a seat next to me". I am trying to stay calm ... (208 words)

G/f broke up with me and I had to cancel our plans to get a house. I'm not sure what to do now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. I need some help here. I'm 26 and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend, 23, for over six years. It had a wobble or two when we first started but its been pretty plain sailing no problems ever since, we were very happy. We planned to get a house. We starte... (235 words)

I don't know if I'm in the right relationship. How do you know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

17 August 2013 (F) age 30-35 - How do you know if you're in the right relationship? Is there really a "right" relationship, or is it all about finding someone who is "mostly" what you want and then working really hard at the relationship to make it last? I'm not trying to change him, and I don't have expec... (556 words)

He wished his ex a happy birthday on facebook yet has never even referred to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, its another silly facebook question but just curious all the same. would you be annoyed if your boyfriend of 8 months dedicated his facebook status wishing his ex happy birthday yet he has never once even referred to/mentioned yourself on his status, even on your bir... (174 words)

Troubled situation with girlfriend and her family coming here. I'm afraid I'll come home to nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I posted last week about my girlfriend being entitled to her privacy.. since then it has been a roller coaster of me having hope and thinking things will change and utter despair. I do not know how to cope with this situation that she has/I have put myself in. I live with ... (359 words)

Why do low-income families tend to have more kids per family unit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Just curious, as I see tons of family's that have sometimes 3 or more children, yet have an extremely small income. You'd think it'd be the opposite, because the low-income families have neither the time nor the money to properly care for these children. Im sure some of the... (133 words)

Why do I still feel sad, miss him and think about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (F) age 41-50 - After three months of breakup, my ex contacted me saying he misses me and still loves me. He dumped me without giving me any explanation. A month after we broke up, i asked him for closure and he told me i was clingy, insecure and controlling (we were in LDR and the reason why ... (239 words)

I want my needs met, even if he can't do it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been ttogether for ten months. Ii love him but we haver never had intercourse yet. He cant maintain an erection. He does other things but its not cutting it anymore! I need the feeling that only a penis can provide. I have found a few cute and sexy guys ... (111 words)

Is there something wrong with me because I've been single for over a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know whats wrong with me! Im 22 My last serious relationship was over a year ago. My friends and family are pressuring me to get a new boyfriend and its really stressful.Even after all this time Im still not ready to commit to anyone again.My last relationship ended ... (207 words)

Do I just leave it and hope he texts me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My past relationship was 8 years, we've only been broken up 3 months but i started seeing someone new a few backs. Its been amazing so far. We have amazing chemistry, the best sex ever and get along so well. However i think hes losing interest already. I've realised the past ... (167 words)

Is there a way you can sucessfully date a player?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there a way you can sucessfully date a player? The guy who is super attractive,The kind of guy who is after one thing (sex).This guy is single and has alot of women chasing after him but he doesnt pay them attention, which is what attracted me to him.I see past that though ... (179 words)

I know he loves me, BUT.. Is it when he's feeling tired and weak or something that he looks at the Facebook pages for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've noticed that when my boyfriend is feeling down about something, or bored, he looks up his ex girlfriends facebook page. For example, he injured himself training before a competition at the weekend and was quite angry about it, and he looked up his ex's page a couple o... (194 words)

Am I wasting my time with this 'second chance' stuff if he can't even honor the date we arranged that was due to happen on Sunday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years and I almost split up last week. It was me who initiated the break up conversation as I feel he puts too much emphasis on his friends and going out with them rather than spending time with me. He got really upset and told me he didn't want us to split... (317 words)

What are some proven successful ways to overcome premature ejaculation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - For anyone who can help but mostly to those who had premature ejaculation and has overcame it. I have sexually intimate with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. My first time with her was my first time and also my most embarassing moment. I got it in and pulled right back o... (164 words)

I lied about being pregnant, how do I fix this with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with a man for a year and he left mefor an ex. The ex did not want him, she just did not want him with anyone else. That fact is confirmed. She said I had to be completely gone. So i did something i am not very proud of, so please do not put me down. He left at a low ... (336 words)

Could he have another girl over ? Could he be out with her, or worse, in his house with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been lied to and cheated on in the past by men. My current boyfriend (of 8 months) fully admits he cheated and lied in his 20's(he's now in his 40's). He once told a GF he was visiting family when in fact he had flown across country to see an ex. He says he loves no... (210 words)

I'm in love with my classmate! Should I ask her out on a date then confess my feelings? Or text her my feelings right after exams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help... I think I've fallen in love with my classmate after a texting her a month ago. At first, everything started fine and normal, I always treated her as a classmate and friend. But my feelings builds up when we texting each other more frequently. In school, we ... (242 words)

Am I gay, bisexual or just confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

17 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I need advice from the gay community. I have always been fascinated by the female body, their anatomy, their ability of being able to multiple and intense orgasms and being capable to be stimulated by their clit or vagina. I think I would have liked to be a girl instead of a ... (207 words)

Bad boy broke my heart and now I'm wary ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4114 days ago

17 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I thought that I needed a thug, a bad boy, a guy who would love me and keep it g at the same time. Stupid little me, I decided to fall inlove with a guy who didn't even feel the same way back. It's hard, it's real hard, when someone doesnt feel the same way as you do after ... (209 words)