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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend's former friend-with-benefits talked to him. Should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend used to have a friend with benefits. My boyfriend and I live together now. She broke it off with him. It's been about 5 years from the break up. The town is not large. So far they have kept their distance from each other. This woman occasionally tak... (310 words)

What to do when girlfriend doesn't want anything intimate with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ill keep this as simple a possible, just a little lost. My girlfriends sex drive, passion, affection is dimming to damn near nothing. She is a few years older than me. I'm 24 she is 27. We do not live together but she does stay with me at my house most of the time. ( I have m... (374 words)

Unwanted pregnancy and being called psycho.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just need an opinion on something that's bothering me. I was with my ex for two years, we broke up in April, he finished with me because I informed him of my pregnancy. He repeatedly told me I'm a psycho.. And tonight I find myself asking "am I really!?" I've been doing ok ... (596 words)

Am I being unreasonable feeling unwanted?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been living with my boyfriend for 4 months i thought i'd feel closer to him but i feel even more so like i am second best to his friends/activities. He goes out every friday, watches football every other saturday and plays alot of golf - we both go to our parents houses ... (178 words)

My boyfriend's brother has been texting me really inappropriate stuff after I had a fight with my boyfriend. not sure how to proceed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with a guy for the pass 7 months we get along well and we like each other. He has been abroad working back home for the pass 3 months he will be gone for 7 months. We are in contact daily and I am going to see him in November. When he went away he gav... (246 words)

He is a good father but always turns down sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my guy for over 5 years. Together we have two kids (2 and 4). We haven't had a regular sex life since I fell pregnant with #2 in Oct 2010. This year alone we have had sex about 4 times. I have tried to talk to him about it but he gets defensive and really angry ... (241 words)

How do I relieve my loneliness? Many guys just want one thing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and a single mum of 2 kids. They are 11 and 7. I have been single for 5 years. I recently graduated from university and have a good job. I live in a nice part of town. I have a good circle of friends many are settled down with partners and husbands. So we ... (195 words)

Things were fine with my LDR boyfriend on Friday but he hasn't responded to my texts or calls since then

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in long distance relationship for 6 months. We talk on the phone and text everyday. We spoke on Friday night as usual and nothing was wrong we made each laugh and spoke like we usually do. We said goodbye and hung up. He did not call me Saturday or Sunday t... (170 words)

I've made out with him a couple of times and he wants to see me again, but I've realised I don't have any romantic feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in a bit of a tight spot here. My friend met this guy at a party we went to a couple of days ago, and somehow he ended up at our place afterwards. Apparantly he didn't fancy my friend after all, and neither did she, so she went to bed, leaving the two of us on the ... (321 words)

Is it OK for me to ask a girl to dress the way I like girls to dress when we go out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I would appreciate opinions on how to approach this, or indeed if to say anything at all. I seem to have some type of "fetish" where if a girl is dressed in a certain kind of way, she becomes irresistable to me. Not sluttish, certain types of knee length skirts can do it... (158 words)

My husband blames me for all the damage caused to our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello this is going to be a long question but I need advice. Me and my husband have been together for 5 years now. Married for 6 months. We have a three year old son together. He is my first everything and we've had a lot of ups and downs throughout our relationship. We both ... (190 words)

His behaviour has changed and he insults me now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm really hoping someone can shed some light on this for me. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now and at first he seemed like such a gent, hence the reason I wanted to be with him! Anyway, there's been a few peculiar happenings, which is making me t... (431 words)

My wife came back to me after an affair but she's pregnant and I don't know if it's mine

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

26 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife left me for another man last year, she was carrying this hidden affair for a while. I was clueless or chose to be blind about it. She broke my heart because I really do love her, I tried really hard to get her to come back and she did. She came back to me and I was ... (238 words)

He contacts me after a year -- what's going through his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so I met this great guy just about a year ago at a summer music intensive. We got along well and I found him extremely attractive. A lot of us exchanged numbers at the end of the camp so it wasn't very meaningful that I ended up with his phone number but I decided to try to ... (428 words)

He gets aroused when I'm upset and crying??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for 4 years. We had an argument the other day at our daughters birthday party. He raised his voice at me and swore at me in front of some of our guests which was humiliating. Not wanting to cause a scene at our daughters party I let it go for the ... (322 words)

How soon is too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid! I've been dating my best friend for a two weeks now. We have been friends over a 6 years and now it finally became real relationship. He's 23, I'm 21 and we are crazy about each other. The thing is, I'm a virgin and he is not. In fact, he slept with 6 girls so... (287 words)

Should I just not talk to random girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am the type of guy who can easily have a friendly chat with strangers, both male and female. Once in a while, after it, I may ask a female out. The other day, I was waiting for a bus, and there was an older lady and a young girl there. As I was from out of town, I asked th... (267 words)

Attraction: a one-time thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - If a guy has a 'red hot' desire for a woman and for whatever reason it can't be met - maybe she moves away it just isn't available - can it ever come back again after fading? Can it come back even stronger? Or is it only ever a 'once in a lifetime ' thing?... (55 words)

Disrespectful daughter is on the streets now she wants to come home should I let her come back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I am a very blessed single parent of two girls and one boy my son is the baby .All of my children are grown .But my second oldest daughter we have been at each other throats everyday since she got her period we have been in to it every since. She is very ... (269 words)

I think my partner is selfish and unfair. How do I get him to see things from my point of view?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, I am so lost and unsure of things and need advice. I am 34 a mother of 2 teenangers, my daughter lives with me and my partner and my son lives 6 hours away with his dad. His dad and I get along for the best part. The problem is I am unsure I want to stay wi... (544 words)

My boyfriend just doesn't have the urge to have sex often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as I'd like. We average about once a week. W both work full time, and he tends to work long shift, with few breaks. Work stresses him out. I've been going through some medical problems the past 6 months, and the treatment forces ... (265 words)

I can see potential in this guy but my mom thinks he's bad news. How should I proceed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved with my family into a house next door to a guy around April. We started talking late May. We got along great and were hanging out heaps. We were staying at each others places watching movies or having drinks. We did give each other hugs and back tickles but never ... (1041 words)

Normal to miss my ex so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4136 days ago

26 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am feeling so terribly empty in my life and wondering if this is normal. I was in a marriage for almost two decades and went through a divorce that I did not want. For some years after the divorce I felt free of the problems that led to the divorce. in fact I recently ... (127 words)