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anonymous
writes:Hello, my bf and I are together more than 2 years. We love each other very much (at least I think so), but what bugs me that he "likes" strange girls on facebook from time to time, the pages like Pretty girls etc. I don´t know why he does that, it humiliates me. And I think those girls aren´t that good looking, one of them was really ugly. I asked him why he does that because it hurts me and he told that he doesn´t know,he just liked that girl. Ok, he can think it, but why does he has to press that button and like it, so everyone can see. It´s really humiliating for me. He told me he won´t do it again when I´m so angry about that. But I don´t really understand why he needs to do it. Why does he tell me how beautiful and great I am all the time, when his acts tell something different? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2013): I call my bf a fb whore lol...I'm in my mid 40's let me tell you, men are visual they look at porn, they look at girls, anywhere and everywhere . A good man will not do it in any disrespectful way...but liking these pages or females is very common if he stops doing it at least on fb as to not humiliate you then, great. it doesn't bother me..,what bothers me is when my bf likes pics of his female friends that were ex's or flings he doesn't do that anymore. ...men and women are different to this respect unless its really rude and others are commenting about it i would chalk it up to maleness lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2013): i don´t know..the thing that he press the like button on some cheap photo of another girl is humiliating to me. i´m supposed to be the only girl he likes now. and even when he thinks some other girl is pretty, why doesn´t he just think it. no, he press the "like" button, so all the world can see that he likes the girl. like i don´t exist.
i wonder how would he feel if I start to visit pages like "Sexy men" that are really muscled etc and like their picutes. I bet he would be humiliated as well. But he just can´t understand.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 August 2013):
 how does your boyfriend clicking the like button on another girl's page humiliate you?
my husband can easily like and appreciate a pretty girl. it's not threatening to me... it's not disrespecting me.
he's not saying "You are prettier or better than my wife." He's allowed to have his own taste and his own friends.
I'm beautiful and great.. that doesn't mean your not too.
why do the two things (you being beautiful and great and other girls being liked by him) have to be mutually exclusive?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 August 2013):
 You "B/F" does this because - deep down inside - de doesn't think that you are entitled to REAL respect... such as would be exhibited by a "B/F" who DIDN'T do this sort of thing.....
There's really only ONE question involved: Do you want a "boyfriend" who has no respect for you? If "yes," (or, "oui") in your lingo, then stay with him.... If "no" (or, "non") then dump him and find a REAL "boyfriend"...
Good luck...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (29 August 2013):
Your logic is a little confusing here. He tells you that you're "beautiful and great" but you're suggesting that liking other girls on Facebook means he doesn't?
So if my favorite food is Mexican, but I also like Chinese does that mean I don't actually love Mexican food?
I'm not defending him, I actually don't understand why he'd do it. I'm just trying to point out that him liking these Facebook pages doesn't mean he doesn't think you're "beautiful and great".
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