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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

A weird thing just happen to our house and freaked out now should I call??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in the living room just standing there when I notice these people that stoped out in front of are house taking pictures of are house what should I do call the police in report it because I guess there has been some peoples houses being robbed around town now I'm freaking ... (89 words)

Does a man get attached to a virgin when he is her first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I would love to hear some opinions. We all know that females tend to get attached to the man they lose their virginity to. BUT on the flip side.... Do men get attached to a virgin when she loses her virginity to HIM? I have been wondering about... (67 words)

I ended the relationship because she wasn't ready to have sex, now I feel that I was an idiot.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago. The reason for it was that she was a virgin and did not feel ready for sex. At first I did not think this was a problem but after four months I was starting to get frustrated, although I did not show it. Eventually one night we ... (186 words)

Why didn't he know what he had until it was gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Hope someone can give me a bit of advice, as I have totally lost my mind. I have been through so much rubbish recently and I decided enough was enough so ended things. Here is my story and hope others can learn from it to some extent! I met the most wonderful man 2 yea... (554 words)

Girls seem to be able to cope with every emotion except anger ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My every relationship got off to a good start and girls seems to fall for me quickly. They like my laugh and jokes. As soon, they see my other emotion: Being angry, they just start looking for reason to end things and that has already resulted in a two failed relationship. Why ... (113 words)

I met a guy on Facebook, I really liked him and told him I missed him. He hasn't spoken to me for several days now. Will he contact me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on Facebook two weeks ago. I sent him friend request and he accepted me. after that he messaged me saying he wanted to say hi and saying I am beautiful. after wards we kept chatting and he gave me his number and he says I can call him whenever I can. after that we ... (262 words)

How do I get over caring what others think and gain some self confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi how i have very low confidence, although it has improved and it some times really gets me down, or i cant reach my abilitys with it and i think it hampers my life, for example going clubbing i dont ever look forward to it i always dread it, i dont really chat to girls unless ... (228 words)

Boyfriend can't get hard..is it because he is ill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, so. My boyfriend and I are extremely close and open with each other. And recently we engaged-- or tried to -- in sex. He couldn't get hard enough. Now. I wasn't mad or anything, frustrated, or annoyed. He tried to play with himself, and with me to help... It did for ... (176 words)

Should I care for bros or ask for a relationship without hesitation??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 20 yrs old and I need help for relationship. I've never been into a relationship and now facing a problem... I'm confused about my feelings over this girl who is actually my classmate for nearly 3 years, recently. We're just purely normal friends all along. Until re... (321 words)

Pushing me away, pushing me back..what is up with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my story, im a 36M with no kids and she is a 37F with 2 kids. We've meet 1 and half year ago and immediately *clicked*. We've spent hours daily at the phone speaking of everything and nothing. Lack of sleep or 3 to 4 hours sleep tops became normal in my life and he... (1573 words)

My ex was rotten to me so why do I only remember the good times?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F) age 36-40 - So it's been three months since my ex dumped me. He's quick-tempered and abusive and never respected me while we're with his friends. We had no contact after we broke up. But every month he would call or write me messages and asked me to call him back. Then my heart started ... (123 words)

If he really felt the way he says he does then why does he want to do LD another year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a LDR for about 9 months. the relationship itself is quite healthy and we have recently had some great talks about what we both want and are looking for and we seem to be on the same page. We talk most days on skype and SMS/call as well .. and things really are ... (392 words)

Will I held liable for maintenance ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi please help. Does anyone know, if my husband gets retrenched will I be held liable for the maintenance for his child with his ex girlfriend? Thanks.... (27 words)

I would take my ex back if he'd give me an apology!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with him about 5 weeks ago. After about 2 weeks of no contact he started talking to me last week. It was so nice, like when we first met. We spoke twice and sent a few txts. A few times he suggested we should catch up and asked when I'd be in the city next. Last we ... (224 words)

I've tried to move on with other girls but I still love my ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - To make a long story short, I cant seem to clear my head about my ex when we broke up 2 years ago, Shes gorgeous and so attractive but its been my biggest mistake of my life, My problem is that i keep trying to make her my girlfriend again, She totally ignores me for other ... (233 words)

How do I clear my mind of the man who was with my girl before me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm with a girl who I love, just before me she had a 4month fling with her work colleague, fair enough, but in the last 4 months we've been together she's thrown a few things in my face without thinking (videos of him and her friends messing around, pictures of him left on her ... (190 words)

How much does fat matter during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So! I'm going to fool around with a really good guy friend this Friday, problem is he is super skinny and I've got about 30lbs on this guy. We are of the same height. I always wear baggy clothes (I have an eating disorder and I've always been self-conscious). I always say I'm ... (152 words)

How can I believe that he isn't cheating when he's using porn and having phone sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance are together now for almost 8 years we have 2 boys together as far as I know him he is watching porn and keep on denying it, I cought him 4 times already having phonesex with other woman, he keeps on saying he will never cheat on me and will stop doiing all the ... (66 words)

I've been saving for 9 months so that my boyfriend and I could move in together only to find that he has saved NOTHING at all. Is he subconsciously telling m he doesn't want to move to my area?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for coming up to two years and for the past year we've been talking about moving in together. We ruled out me moving to him because it is so much more expensive to live in his area that it is mine and so we wouldn... (439 words)

I have amazing chemistry with this girl but she won't break up with her new boyfriend. Is she just leading me on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl on odd string of events. I went out on the porch of my friends house that i now have taken up residence to chill with him while he smoked. Well i looked across the street to the house directly across and saw this cute girl i had noticed around a few times. I said i ... (619 words)

I've known so many men who don't look at other women, so why have I been unable to find one for myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a curiousity that's been on my mind for awhile now. I've heard it said many times and read on here and other websites all men look at other women even if they are happy with their partners, it's in their genes, they are visual. You name it. I know for a fact this is n... (422 words)

Went against advice and lost my virginity to a FWB and I loved it. Has anyone else done this and not regretted their actions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I have a question concerning my first time. I lost my virginity about a month ago to my fwb. Many people advised me against it seeing as there is no emotional attachment or significance. However i loved it so much. It was such a thrilling and enjoyable night. We spent the ... (119 words)

Do I believe my current guy, who used to be a player, or my ex, who is a compulsve liar?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this guy have been friends for some time but we recently decided to take things a little further. We aren't officially dating or anything but we "talk". Anyway, He has a past of a cheater, but he has been 100% faithful to me. He gives me his passwords, and He tells... (255 words)

My friend rejected me but we ended up having sex. Now he is contacting me. Has he changed his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So a few weeks ago, I confessed to one of my guy friends that I had feelings for him. He seemed stunned and told me that he did not want to jump into anything serious. So after getting rejected, I decided to distance myself from him and see other people. The more I pulled ... (163 words)