New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in August, 2013, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (24), 2 (29), 3 (17), 4 (31), 5 (25), 6 (22), 7 (23), 8 (31), 9 (27), 10 (26),
11 (27), 12 (30), 13 (23), 14 (29), 15 (22), 16 (16), 17 (23), 18 (22), 19 (31), 20 (21),
21 (23), 22 (24), 23 (20), 24 (31), 25 (16), 26 (23), 27 (27), 28 (19), 29 (25), 30 (21),
31 (16),

Archived questions from: 4 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

(More questions from August, 2013)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do guys come back after they've realized that life isn't that great?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - advice from any guys on here would be great.. my ex boyfriend has been partying non stop since our breakup a little over a month ago.. i've heard through mutual friends and through social media that he has been going away every weekend, going out every night, hanging out with... (151 words)

What can I do to let him see to just let it go when she doesn't want him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, i met a man in 2011 that had been seperated from his wife for two years. They remained friends and she was involved with soneone else. He asked her about divorce 8 months into the relationship and she said no, left her boyfriend, harrased me and he went back to her. She ... (341 words)

My married lover's wife knows about us but he still wants to be in contact with me. Why doesn't she just stop him?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know where to begin, I am asking for an opinion, maybe some advice, no cursing or calling me names please. I am already in a lot of pain as it is. I was having a relationship for 6 yrs with a married man. We spoke everyday, saw each other 2 to 3 times a week, more when ... (834 words)

What are the chances of me finding a man who has never had a one night stand or casual sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the chances of me finding a man who has never had a one night stand or casual sex? No offence to anyone here but I find that kind of behaviour revolting and it makes me see them as a lesser. I'm 26 now and this worries me. I was appalled to see How many men said the... (88 words)

I'm still a virgin and I don't know how to tell this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm about to get into a relationship with a guy i have liked for about 8-9 months. We've known each other for a few years but only started talking properly last year. Things started getting more serious and we both admitted to liking one another in June, the only thing that was ... (137 words)

Did I take advantage of her? Is she having second thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known a girl for about 2 years, we went on a date ages ago and then she got a boyfriend. I really liked her as she was not only pretty but nice and came from a nice family. We went out last week after not seeing her for over a year and ended up kissing. She inv... (306 words)

Should I meet guy who's just got back in touch today?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy i used to speak to and text a couple of months ago got back in touch with me today. He's now asked if i want to meet up with him, but i dont know what to do as we've not spoken for a while and i feel it might be awkward. He told me he liked me when we used to speak, but ... (106 words)

Would you confront your man if you found out...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age - I've been married to my husband for 13 years. We started out with a great sex life. Things mellowed out to a completed halt after dealing with infertility issues. I do love him however, we have had major fights regarding porn. I don't like it and feel he is betraying me. No ... (218 words)

Married couples with a family don't take holidays apart from one another do they?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder if anyone has any advice, or have been in a similar situation. My husband wins lots of trips abroad through work. I'm talking Las Vegas staying in top hotels and Ibiza. While the trip is paid for food and drink etc is not. My problem is that in my opinion marri... (185 words)

My ex and father of my children seems happier away from me. Will he come back when our 2nd child is born?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex broke up 5 months ago at first we were seeing each other and we were thinking about getting back together we have a son (1) yr n one on the way. We used to live together but everytime we argue he would leave the house take his clothes . It's been a month that we ... (116 words)

Do women like man who is in demand and valued by other women ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend would tell me that I'm too much into her, like spending time with her, calling , texting and sending her gifts . So she said that I should socialize with other people as well so that I couldn't not be hanging on her head 24/7. Thought over our entire situation ... (241 words)

Boyfriend wants me to move in with him but he can't see a marriage or family for another 10 years!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, ok so my problem is probably quite common but I still have no idea what to do so I would really appreciate your advice. Basically, I'm 28 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He recently asked me to move in with him, which I thought was a po... (288 words)

How can I have an orgasm without touching the clitoris?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help on how i can achieve an orgasm through squeezing the clit without touching it? I've never managed to make it happen and i need tips on how to.... (30 words)

I'm a nice guy but not getting treated nicely relating to dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've never had a gf in my life (well for a few weeks was the longest one). In my past, my date left me on prom night. I've had issues ever since then. It's nine years later, and I feel miserable at times. I see everybody with dates or getting married. I got rejected a lot ... (167 words)

Two girls are ruining my chances of being able to date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hello everyone. i am new here. i live in mumbai, india........... well i am really nervous...... i will tell you from starting..... when i was 8 grade i started acting really weird because i wanted to be funny and this went till 10th grade and actually many people started ... (228 words)

Will I be able to get past my ex getting engaged? I haven't found anyone I love like I love him! Will I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 25 (turning 26 in a month). When I was 23 I fell completely in love with a man I met at an event – he was my first love. We were both in love and wanted to get married. We were on the verge of getting engaged after around a year and were making plans for our future. ... (407 words)

Do women really enjoy anal sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a fairly normal but boing sex life with my now divorced wife. I met a nice woman and have been dating her for 6 months. We had our first sex about 2 months into the relationship. She is quite adventurous sexually, way more than my x wife who was my only other lover. ... (277 words)

Why am I wanting to have sex so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - For ages now I've been getting really horny, really easily! I mean, i went to see "The World's End" (the ending movie to the Simon Pegg and Nick Frost trilogy thingy) and I got really turned on in the meant to be funny fight scene in the pub (basically all of them really) and I ... (157 words)

Is she trying to get me to make a move or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit confused here, there's this girl whom I've known for a long time, we've both been in and out of relationships. Now I've been interested in her for a while, but up till last night I believed she didn't have any interest in me. I mean she was hitting on other guys every ... (281 words)

The thing is, I do like him. A LOT!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently doing my masters at university and i'm on placement over the summer. My boss had to suddenly leave so a worker was appointed to oversee the work I was doing. Were of similar age and get on great. My placement ends in October but hes due to leave the post at the ... (395 words)

I need to get over my insecurities.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Im not sure where to start. I only had one serious girlfriend before my wife. Sure we had sex, but I was only 19, lived with my parents and she lived with hers. Our sexual activities were mostly in the backseat of my truck, with a few nights in a hotel room. Both of us were ... (324 words)

I know I can never be certain of the future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had really bad muscle soreness after my first day back at the gym doing a legs session! My boyfriend thought my inability to move - sit on toilet - get dressed was hilarious (he knows the pain of DOMs!!). Anyway, I was trying to stretch out my legs and breathing rapidly with ... (226 words)

I'm talking to my ex, but where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is stupid, but I feel conflicted and need some advice. I broke up with my boyfriend as he was starting fights with me too often over pointless things. It was making me very unhappy. I hindsight, we both had a lot of outside stress in the last month we were together, ... (245 words)

I am happy with my boyfriend but my ex haunts my dreams.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm happy in my relationship of a year and 3 months but I'm dreaming of my ex. We went through a lot of shit with his drug problem which eventually split us up although he told me he cheated on me in the past too. I was madly in love with him. He walked past my house the other ... (196 words)

I am terrified to give blowjobs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering if this problem is common or if there is another qoman who has learned a way to deal with it. I am terrified to give blowjobs. Not only is the smell and taste horrendous to me, but i begin panicking, shutting down mentally, and going on a sort of autopilot. I ... (239 words)

Found my LDR Husband had considered playing around and now I can't move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been together for a year, separated by distance for 2 years and got married after and separated again for months now. As I opened his Facebook account because of the game we played thats why I know his password. I unintentionally saw an unread msg to hi... (318 words)

I don't want to have to chose between a sex life and my meds!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need to give you guys some background, so bear with me... I have a type of mental disorder called cyclothymic bipolar disorder. Mostly it means that on a day to day I have emotional swings that are fairly illogical and last anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours. Over... (285 words)

I do not understand why he has to play me like this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am in an annoying situation. I met a guy in March. I am 27 and he is 28. When I first met him, he seemed nice and harmless. I chatted with him on fb but he responded very slowly. I was fed up one day and stopped talking to him About one month after not responding t... (391 words)

My boyfriend gets upset if I have any contact with males without telling him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me... It's a long story but I'll try to make it short, my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years, and he is extremely jealous, he says he wasn't like this before and I destroyed his trust in me and made him a paranoid jealous person. During the firs... (570 words)

How do I move on quicker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys and girls. I've used this site in the past years from time to time and now I'm back at rock bottom I guess. I've been cheated on with my last 2 boyfriends in 2010 and 2011 and turned rather obsessive in the last one. Now I finally decided to try dating again but... (230 words)

He won't let me near his stuff but expects to be allowed to go through mine. Help me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

4 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having problems trusting my boyfriend,but he says im crazy my boyfriend used to be very open with his email,his phone,his friends.He would not care if I was on his laptop and his email was open,and would share all his pics with me He was so open with his stuff witho... (350 words)