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Archived questions from: 15 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm struggling to fit into my boyfriend's group of friends and he doesn't do much to improve the situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I struggle to integrate into my boyfriends social circles. He is always included in mine. he does invite me when he can, but the few times I have met his friends (mostly females) ive always felt pushed out, left out, like im in a group of selfish obnoxious people... (493 words)

After six months I know something isn't right

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age - hi i have a boyfriend who moved in with me three months ago we even got engaged. the thing is for the last two weeks i feel like he is having second thoughts. he still has boxes upstairs and when i suggest to unpack them he just shrugs as if i am asking too much. he used to be ... (214 words)

Can a man who is willing to cheat on his wife ever be faithful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me. I have been married for 12 years. I love my husband like a dear friend, but I have never been in love with him. We have been to counseling and I have even told him that when we married I was in a bad place and I am not sure I married him for the right ... (276 words)

Heard my mother in law say she preferred my husband's ex to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of years ago before I married my husband we were at his parents house for a family garden party, we all had a couple to drink and I think it loosened tongues a bit!. I went up to use the bathroom and when I tried to get back outside to the party I heard a conversation ... (256 words)

I don't want us to be a sexless couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriend of one year (30 years) seems to have lost interest in sex. I think it could be down to stress as we are going away in one week and he keeps saying he really needs this holiday for a break from work. Also his eating habits are a little inconsistent at the ... (281 words)

Is there anything I can do to save this relationship? Or is it completely over and I have no chance in hell of being with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

15 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently broke up with my girlfriend. It happened yesterday to be exact. We've been together for a couple of months and I'm really in love with her. She told me that she loved me too and that she was in love with me but yesterday she said that she no longer sees me i... (296 words)

Cougar needs advice - does he like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am a 32 year old mother of 2 children. But I am stuck in a loveless marriage with an uncaring husband. However I have recently fallen for another man who is intelligent, has many of the same qualities as me, and ohh so gorgeous looking. Problem is, he is 6 years ... (560 words)

He is out of my league. What does he want from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I'm dating a guy whom I'm sure is out of my league. I just turned 26. I was born in Hong Kong and educated in England. I'd say I'm curvy but short. I have fair skin and big eyes which are considered good-looking by Asian standard. But I must admit they ... (336 words)

I'm freaked out by my boyfriend telling me he loves me after one week together. Should I take a break from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - ok I have recently acquired a new boyfriend, he's really sweet and nerdy like me but we have only been going out a week and have only actually met up about five times. and then today he told me he loved me! I didn't respond I just said "see you later" but I have m.e plus ... (157 words)

I've lost sight of myself in this relationship and don't even like my boyfriend, who treats me with didrespect. How do I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to leave my boyfriend. We've been a couple for 2 and a half years and the relationship has been going nowhere for most of that time. We argue a lot and when we don't argue, we hardly talk to one another. We had a lot of problems at the beginning of the relati... (526 words)

How do you know if you're really over someone and not just trying to replace them with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, my boyfriend broke up with me one month ago, leaving me here to spend the whole summer alone or - even worse - with my parents. Now, here's the situation: this October I'm gonna start university, and - as many friends of mine told me - I am hopefully gonna ... (203 words)

The girl I love is very goodlooking and she constantly posts pictures of herself online which other guys comment on. Why is she doing this and how can I show her how much I like her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Too make a long story short. Theres this girl whos really hot and from 1 to 10 shes a outstanding 10, i met her at my school and she was taken at the time, so time went by and she ended up becoming single and me and her became closer. i would ditch a class just to go be with ... (310 words)

My boyfriend spends a lot of time chatting online, including to a younger girl. He hasn't changed his relationship status for many of his accounts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together since 6 months. Hes a computer guy and spends all day on his computer at work. I'm concerned how much time he spends not working, but chatting or doing something else. He has so many accounts on so many different portals. On some of the ... (137 words)

Why am I so jealous all of a sudden?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am loved a lot by the man I am with. He would never cheat or hit me. We love each other to death and have been together for a long time now. Knowing that he won't cheat I always get so scared and jealous when he is around other girls, some of his friends are ... (162 words)

It bothers me that my girlfriend thinks I'm too innocent to talk dirty

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

15 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have done some light petting and have decided to try oral next time we hang out. She's gone that far with other guys where I have not. We were talking about how we didn't dirty talk over text and she said it was because I was so sweet and she felt like I ... (117 words)

Where can I find girls interested in a serious relationship? I mean places other than online or bars.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - hi dear aunts, I recently broke up with my LDR because I couldn't stand the distance anymore. I'm sorry. I'm not just cut out for it. I have been having a hard time getting dates lately. I'm not into the bar/club scene anymore, I don't want to date young girls anymore, I'... (141 words)

I have very strong feelings for her and want to ask her to homecoming dance in a memorable way. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - The homecoming dance is coming up in a few weeks and there is one girl that I can't imagine going without. We dated less than a year ago but we broke up and I think she still has some feelings for me. The only time I get to see her this year is at lunch and if we hang out. I ... (130 words)

Interested, or just a nice guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy during an orientation camp. He's not exactly the tall dark handsome type. But I am extremely drawn to his personality. We're similar in many ways (our likes and dislikes etc). We've been texting constantly since camp ended and he always texts me good night and ... (113 words)

We've been friends for years, but I haven't heard from him since we slept together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there is this guy we have been friends for about 8 years, he has always seemed to like me, then all of a sudden i started to have feelings for him, so we started talking more ect he said he liked me and i told him the same, then we slept together and since then he has not ... (97 words)

The girl I like fancies someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl I really like at work we are friendly and slightly flirty but she's completely besotted with this other guy. I hate it because this guy sits right in front I have to see her going up to him talking to him with him for ages and continuously emailing and texting ... (228 words)

Not heartbroken or desperate, just confused. I'd appreciate your advice or opinion, thanks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

15 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just so some people don't call me desperate I just wanna make it clear that I'm asking for advice on this issue because I'm super confused. I'm not in love with this guy or am I heart broken, just plain old confused by it. Anyway, I met this guy through people at work months ... (198 words)