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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 14 year old daughter gets attention from older guys

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a 14 year old daughter and if you looked at her (the way she dresses her makeup and how she acts) you would think she's at least 16. This doesn't worry me, she's very mature and beautiful and most people can't believe she's just 14. She's never had a boyfriend and ... (215 words)

Boyfriend's brother is getting me down

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - im 24 and my boyfriend is 28 and we have been together almost 4 years. he lives in a one bedroom apartment and i still live with my parents as its closer for me to get to work. i visit and stay with him from a friday until a monday, sometimes until a wednesday, all d... (756 words)

Why do I miss my ex-bf when I'm better off without him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - We broke up a few months ago and there are times where i can't stop thinking about him. This guy was everything to me, we were together for 4 years but obviously things weren't working out. - I was the bread winner and mostly taking care of him financially, making sure ... (375 words)

At what point does a sales representive go from being a sales person to being interested in you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is for the guys and girls . . . At what point does a sales representive go from being a sales person to being interested in you? It started off normal, seeing each other through work now and then. As times moved on, the visits are more frequent, probably ten times more ... (409 words)

Was it wrong of me to ask my b/f if he and a female friend had hooked up in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I are in somewhat of a LDR as we only see each other on weekends. We've been doing this for 2 years. He recently relocated to another area for school but he's still as far away as before, just in another direction. Last week he told me he wouldn't be able to call me ... (197 words)

This man just really nice, or a big creep?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So people of DearCupid, please help! Is this guy grnuinely nice, or just creepy?! I work at Walmart. My manager is just a year older than me. When I met him 2 1/2 months ago, all we did was jokingly insulteach other. "ugly", "scrawny", etc, just playig around all the time. ... (473 words)

Do I stay with my LDR friend? She's now dating but I had always hoped we'd get together again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a bit stuck and need some advice. I'm 34 and met a girl who's 30 twelve months go. It was instant, very strong, attraction. Butterflies, the works for both of us. After more dates we found we liked each other very much and both thought we had founf 'the one'.... (305 words)

How do I let her know I like her and can't wait for the next date but not come across as an annoying idiot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I just met this girl, she is much younger than me, but this isn't the first time I've hung out with a younger girl so I am aware of any potential pitfalls. She was very nervous about meeting me and backed out once, but the second attempt it worked out fine. She ended up... (295 words)

How can I shut him out my crush on my boss while I'm working so he doesn't distract me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started a new job a week ago, and I've run into a problem. Let me first say my job is very fast paced, and requires a good amount of physical strength. This normally isn't a problem for me at all. I've worked a job like this before, and didn't have a problem. ... (496 words)

I want my boyfriend's much older brother. Does that make me a bad person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a wonderful boyfriend. Who's loving, caring, funny and perfect! He makes my life complete and without him I'm nothing. Just since we have had a few large problems.. He finds away of escaping from reality. What has lead me to socialize with his brother more (who we are ... (145 words)

Is my girlfriend jealous or is she mad at me for not being jealous at her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have trust issues because of my past, I'm in a ldr with a wonderful girl and I try to do things all right this time. my councellor suggested me to stop asking about her whereabouts and whit whom is she hanging out with. she also suggested to have a lufe of my own, yo go out ... (182 words)

How can I learn to be more caring and trusting of my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

- My inability to trust my boyfriend and my own insecurity is beginning to cause relationship problems. I love him, I really do so very much. He has been there for me whenever he can through the rough year I've just had. But for some reason I still cannot fully trust him. I ... (339 words)

Boyfriend is careless and thoughtless when it comes to our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as though my boyfriend is thoughtless, conceited, forgetful, and more importantly careless when it comes to our relationship. To make a long story short, he forgot about me last Christmas and my birthday this year. He promised me several times that he wouldn't forget, ... (143 words)

How can I make myself happy and blind to the way that I look?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (?) age 26-29 - hey, so i have some major problems when it comes to my body i hate every inch of it from my vainy feet , past my chucky cellulite thighs to my dry hair, i have good days were i am happy and can stand to look in the mirror , but then i have bad days i feel desgusting my body rep... (139 words)

Why don't I want to live with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4153 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and we have had a rocky relationship to say the least. Our main issues revolved around the fact he always put his friends first and I was expected to fit in around that. It was always the same cycle - I'd get upset, h... (382 words)

Should I fight with ex over settlement? Or just sign it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I just sign our settlement, or fight him? Ex and I are finalizing our divorce settlement. I was mostly ok with everything, but did think I was getting shaft a little bit. Anyway, the other day I had to go the ER because I was covered in hives head to toe and my hear... (269 words)

How do I deal when my boyfriend stares at women in front of me and his boss and his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is a high ranking executive with a juvenile behavior towards women I am finding out. We have dated for a couple of years. A couple times a year he has to go to a conference with the director of the board and his wife. They are elderly people in their early 8... (500 words)

My fiance in arranged marriage is so cold to me. How do I make her feel what I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I am engaged for more than a month. This is an arranged marriage. The problem is that my fiancee has been cold towards me since day one. We have discussed about this and she said she would like to be friends with me first before she can think about the next step in... (421 words)

She said I need to date someone my age. What does she mean really?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age - Dear Savants of Dear Cupid, You all have given me sage advise the numerous times I've ventured forth. You've saved me from wrecking my ship against the rocks, for which I thank you. A question: "What does this mean?" The tennis player contacted me again, after months,... (197 words)

Back to ack devastation in relationships. I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I dated a girl for 16 months in what was an extremely rocky relationship. In our best times together (which was about 20% of the time), she was the perfect girl I always dreamed of. Great personality, similar interests, funny, gorgeous, caring, loving and absolutely ... (671 words)

I need to break up with my boyfriend but I love him so much. How do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I REALLY need advice how to break up with someone, me and my LDR boyfriend have a great relationship and we have lots of laughs and fun, but right now I am going through problems in my life right now and cannot hold a relationship. I had to leave the house I liv... (401 words)

Almost 29 year old guy.... never ever had a girlfriend. Hard luck loser?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3294 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. Lots of thoughts/rants in relation to this topic. I'm turning 29 in a couple of months and have finished university, currently working in IT. Never had a girlfriend in my entire life, no woman has ever been interested in me and have come up empty all the ti... (476 words)

Was he right to compare my body to a woman in a porn movie

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dieting and lost 12 lbs thus far. I was doing this mainly to lose some tummy fat that settled as I have grown a little older. This seems to be the hardest area for me to lose it. My boyfriend, we are talking about marriage, and have seen each other for 4 year... (251 words)

He says he'll leave his girlfriend for me when she comes back. Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone so I'm 16 and I need help! I became bestfriends with a guy(also 16) from my school when I moved near him as I didn't know anyone he was really nice and we went to work in the same place we'd walk to work together. I knew we were just friends as he had a girlfriend. ... (261 words)

My step daughter texts her mom's b/f frequently and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My stepdaughter Isabel who is 17 has been texting her mom's boyfriend a lot... I ask her what the heck they talk about - he says that he teases her a lot. They text pretty much every day, sometimes pretty late at night. I asked her if he's ever said anything inappropiate, she ... (153 words)

I feel jealous when I see my b/f and friend together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, ok well, I wanted some advice. I have two best friends, a girl and a boy and the boy is my boyfriend, we are all very close. But whenever I see my friend hanging out with my boyfriend I get jealous, and I know it's stupid and I know that nothing will happen, ... (120 words)

I have put my trust in certain people who I'm am sadly finding out are hypocrites.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age - I am in need of your advice on how to handle a situation that has come about...I am disillusioned and having a hard time dealing with the fact that I have put my trust in certain people who I'm am sadly finding out are hypocrites. I have written to this forum several ti... (794 words)

He stares at my lips while speaking. Does this mean anything?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is an older man.. about 10 years older, I am 21... He is my superior at work. He's really smart and I find myself really attracted to him. Every time he is explaining something to me he looks at my lips while he speaks. And when he is talking to me we make ey... (90 words)

Lost my virginity recently and having difficulty maintaining erection

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I recently started having sex and have a problem. I was a virgin just until a few days ago. I started a relationship for the first time in my life. I am able to have an erection at the start of sex but lose it when I start having intercourse. I do not use a condom (... (113 words)

Nearly two years after breaking up and I'm still not over her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

12 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Why do I still cry now and again over a break up that happened 20 months ago? We were together 5 years then she ended it saying she wanted to be on her own. Within a month she had someone else. Only after the break up did I discover she had been taking drugs and sleeping aro... (122 words)