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Archived questions from: 19 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do people lie and make you out to be something your not? I don't understand.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - An element in a typical argument I've never understood. Why do people lie and make you out to be something your not? I don't understand. I won't give you my life story but I had an argument with a friend, well past friend who I fell out with a while ago. I'm not going to say i... (336 words)

Pretty girl on the tube -- how to approach her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - so there's this girl I've seen on the tube a few times recently, and I thinks she's quite pretty. id like to say hi, but not sure of the best way to do so if I see her again? I mean to just approach someone like that in a crowded environment not exactly know for its dating ... (122 words)

It's been years and no matter how hard I try I can't get over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

19 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you move on from a broken heart when you don't even have the desire to find anyone new? It's been 3 and a half years since my last serious relationship ended and even though I've been with more women since then than in the whole rest of my life put together I can't... (373 words)

I have feelings for a man who is out of my reach, how can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for a man but he is out of my reach. I know we can't be together as he is just starting his career as a doctor and I am much younger than him. He will be leaving to another city to continue his residency in seven months and I will be starting my third ... (246 words)

Has porn ruined the rest of my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there, I started watching porn from a young age (11 years old) and stopped when I was thirteen and was wondering now, has porn ruined my life? I feel like it's disturbed me from a young age, I only realised when I was about 12 years old; I knew more about sex than everyone ... (236 words)

Trying to read guys and see what path I should walk down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, Am very confused about guys actions and where I think everythign is going to be in the future (and I mean this time next year not 5 years from now) And just trying to read guys and see what path I should walk down. In my life right now I have 2 ''main guys'' if you want ... (443 words)

I can rarely make my girfriend orgasm, she can do it by herself but doesn't let me share in the experience and it makes me feel hurt, rejected and excluded

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

19 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I am feeling pretty low in the relationship because of an issue which has been bothering me for nearly a year. I can only make her cum at most about 1x a month and we have an active sex life. She masturbates and is multi or... (214 words)

What's the difference between pushing for a date and glorified stalking?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (?) age 36-40 - I'm not the best with women. I'm OK but not great. One thing I just can't seem to do is be persistent in pursuing a girl I really like because I don't want to be seen as a glorified stalker. If I ask a girl out and she says no, I leave it at that and don't take it any ... (135 words)

Five years together and his soulmate, yet his actions bother me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My bf and I have been together for almost 5 years. Because of work we have lived 2 hours away for the past year. He has said he wants to marry me and I am his soulmate. When his dad died a couple of weeks ago, he told me they were not having a funeral, just a family ... (239 words)

Why do some people have so much more pain than others?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age - Wondering what are the major causes of distracted , painful lives? I feel, I have unquestionably more pain im my life than others. I now, pain cant be measured, but I know, my challenges are only happening to low number of people. Like losing a child. But it is not enough, ... (154 words)

I'm in love with him but he won't give me any commitment

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Since March this year I have been in touch with a Korean man online. We met on a penpals website so I was not looking for a relationship. He's based in London on a two year student visa. When we first started talking it was very casual but after a while he started talking about ... (710 words)

My ex and father of my child has disappeared across the world and does not pay any child support at all. How can I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a 2-year-old son and my ex has not paid child support at all. He disappeared into obscurity once the baby was a year old; it makes me depressed that he just fled from his child, he was a good, decent reliable man before we got pregnant (he's 3 yrs older than me). ... (162 words)

My husband has many close female friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'am not the jealous type I'm very laid back and always tried to avoid drama by not hanging out with certain ppl. My husband got a lot of female friends he talked to form day to day I have not met them yet and they called him for advice all the time. One of them was his ... (433 words)

She seems more friendly to me than to others -- could she be interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I sometimes shop at this supermarket and checkout by this girl, who is always very nice to me. She is always very interested in hearing about me and tells me about herself. When I first checked out by her, I asked her where she is from, which she told me and wanted to know ... (105 words)

I really connected with him, but now what? Do I leave the ball in his court?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently a student on placement and began my six month placement at the end of April. I was appointed a supervisor to over see my work. Since i began my placement me and my supervisor have gotten on great. He's been really supportive and really helpful. There's always ... (617 words)

For my own sake, should I tell my ex how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - To try and keep a long story short, I left him because of his temper. He wouldn't yell, but rant on and on often saying spiteful things to me e.g. You're crazy, stuck up, bitch After a few weeks on no contact we started talking. Things were good. One day he was talking o... (276 words)

I was upset all evening, was I overreacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, yesterday I had a meeting in the city with my boyfriend. I was a little late and when I came to the meeting place I saw him talking to his ex gf who he knows I hate very much, because she is psycho bitch. They were laughing and when I was going closer to them they said ... (124 words)

Am I being too polite with the ladies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question. In this day is it better to be more cheeky with the ladys then too polite? I mean I'm oddly old fashioned, and not a major touchy person with girls.. even ones I like.. heck if I meet them I. Might give them a peck on the cheek.. Don't get me wr... (132 words)

I'm on a new dating site but I already have doubts about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I just went on a dating site that has rich,successful, male models. I paid for a month just to try it out and the only way you can reach the staff is through email, they don't have a phone number which I thought was odd. Well anyway, I started browsing and a lot of the guys are ... (280 words)

My curvy LDR gets advice from her friends to lose weight. I like her just the way she is. Should she listen to her friends or me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in LDR with an American girl for two years. We met once in South East Asia and spent two weeks together. I'm 32 and she is 34. She is curvy and always asks me whether, "should I lose weight or not?" Also, if she loses weight, her boobs and butt will become smal... (118 words)

Could this man have deeper feelings for this girl? Known this man a long time but he still only appears to flirt, nothing more? Is he attracted to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, is it just normal (attraction is there but no more than friendship) or there are deeper feelings involved when a man who has been friends with a woman for over more than 7 years acted and done the things listed below? First, let's say he has never verbally... (214 words)

Only my extreme shyness is stopping me from talking to him. How do I get over being shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Ok so, school starts Next Monday and that means I get to see my crush again. Yay! But I'd be happier if I can actually talk to him. I'm extremely shy and find it impossible to talk to him. It's not even funny, whenever my mom always ask me to buy something from a little c... (171 words)

He's 16 and I'm 17. Should I try to talk to him when I see him at choir?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so! Recently I finally got over my ex, it took like 6 months but I am finally over him, we ended up just honestly stay best friends. Anyway now that I have moved on I found this new guy I really kinda like. I always saw him around the school last year and thought he was p... (501 words)

Should a person spend so much time with someone who isn't a bf or gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I see each other every week day for like 1 or 2 hours, we go to the same university and we only see each other between classes. When I go home after class, my bf hangs with a male friend, they spend the whole afternoon together from Monday to Thursday, and from Fri... (248 words)

Are boobs that important to guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! Ok so I am a 17 year old girl, and very small and thin... If any of you know who Ariana Grande is (singer/actress) I basically have the exact body type as her. Short, petite, and thin. Unfortunately that also means I really don't have boobs and lately this has really ... (155 words)

My husband wants a sex change and I am feeling like it is the death of our marriage. How can I cope and help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at a loss and in desperate need of advice. So bare with me for a minute because this is gonna be a bit long... I am married to my husband of almost 3 years. Well the other day he came out to his family and friends about him being bisexual and him wanting a sex change. ... (289 words)

One of them is lying. Who do I believe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i m 18 girl from india. i met a guy when i was in 12 th grade . we are together for 1 year and 3 months . we have all ups and downs as normal couple now the problem is he had created a new fb acc . he dnt share his password. he shared photos with her and nearly proposed ... (167 words)

Should I tell him I had a miscarriage ? Were both 18 I don't want to freak him out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i are both 18 . Last night i had a miscarriage should i tell him? I didn't even know i was pregnant . And i don't want to freak him out . By bringing up a baby and stuff . But should he know ? I was probably around 4 weeks maybe 5 i had no idea but i was ... (139 words)

Is it possible for guys to wishfully hope I fancy them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible for guys to wishfully hope i fancy them?... i wonder because a lot of guys i met always fall under the impression that i fancy them for one reason or an other, i am not touchy feely i am actually quiet reserved, when it comes to personal space, but i do joke a l... (182 words)

We are soulmates but now he's ignoring me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

19 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a whirlwind relationship that I would consider my soulmate. He is recently divorced, a messy divorce, and has kids. I'm longtime divorced with no children. It was love at first sight for both of us and he asked me to marry him recently to which I said yes. He ... (473 words)

How do I tell her I looked into her phone and saw explicit messages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a dilemma and need to find a way to resolve it. I have been dating a lovely lady for 18 months. 10 months into our relationship, work took me away to South East Asia, where my roots are. I was supposed to return after 5 months, however personal family issues me... (272 words)