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Archived questions from: 11 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My parents gave me up to foster care and it seems no one is on my side

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I want a normal life style but yah right! I'm not a normal kid like everybody else. My parents gave up on me! 7 years ago me and my brothers and sisters got taken away by foster care. I had to grow up fast and see and hear things that a lil one shouldn't. Thats why Im the way I ... (262 words)

My boyfriend didn't contact me all weekend so I ended things. How do I keep from taking him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (now ex) has been missing all weekend. I know for a fact he is ok as pics of him at house parties have been popping up on facebook. Yet he cannot be bothered to contact me or pick up his phone. Im so angry. I never stop him going out, as I like to go out now and ... (234 words)

The people I work with are so horrible they won't even talk to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are the people I work with so horrible? I got a new job a few months ago and the people there are just horrible. I've tried to get to know them but none of them have taken interest in getting to know me. I've given up starting small one sodded conversation where I'... (133 words)

Some of my friends have turned on me. Do I confront them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17 and still at school (at the moment it is the summer holidays). At the end of July i went on holiday, whilst i was away my friendship group met up, which is fine, but while they did this one member of the group starting bitching about me, and then another joined in, and ... (160 words)

Self esteem ruined due to ex and his new play thing. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half months ago. We did start seeing eachother again for a month but we now haven't spoken for around about a month. We broke up due to him being a serial cheat and even though now I have got to the p... (796 words)

Fight with a drunk boyfriend and he didn't even try to contact me after fight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So yesterday I went with my boyfriend and some friends to a mini concert of a band, the thing is that It was 21 or older (we didn't know) and i was the only one with 21 in the group, so I said: "Stay here, I know people that work here, ok". I got in and manage to infiltrate my ... (509 words)

He dates me and then ignores me! He's done this twice and I want it to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met a guy that's 2 years younger than me last year in November, we really got along well and were going on dates till he completely stopped speaking to me at a stage, then eventually he said he couldn't be in a relationship at that time. So my confidence was shattered and ... (167 words)

I've decided to break it off -- what's the best way to tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - well here I am two years later with the same guy that I orginally had "the talk" with, not once but twice! First time it didn't phase our momentum of hooking up, but second time we didn't speak for 4 months and didn't see one another for like 6months. I was sad cause I did ... (356 words)

Friends with benefits or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, wonderful people! I had some sort of friends with benefits situation with a guy who later became my boss. He wanted to be with me sexually after I started working for him, but apart from a couple of relapses, I managed to keep the sex at bay since I was working for him and ... (720 words)

I really like him but next year we won't be in any classes together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - In may i posted: I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science and english. In science i got sat ... (517 words)

Should I have confronted a married man in a restaurant who kept staring at my pretty daughter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (M)

age - My 19 year old daughter is very pretty. She along with my wife and I went to a popular restaurant for dinner last week. As we were being seated I see this middle aged guy sitting with his wife and kids staring at my daughter, he didn't take his eyes off her until he noticed me ... (142 words)

How to deal with my boyfriends parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4150 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - My problem is my boyfriend's parents. I say boyfriend just to make things easier, when he told his parents we were in a relationship they basically told him to split up with me , stay good friends and don't go out with me until he is 18. I was upset but I could see maybe they ... (230 words)

My ex and I were talking again but he hasn't responded to my text. Is he ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with him and after not speaking for about 2 weeks we got back in contact. We met up about a week later and it went really well. We spoke a couple of times after that. Then, it was his birthday so I sent him a text wishing him a good day and saying I'd talk to him ... (153 words)

I asked out a girl at work and she backed out at the last moment. How do I act around her now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

11 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, mine is a simple question but really boggling for me. A girl at work has been real flirty with me for a while now, over two or three months. Finally i asked her out but at the last minute she flaked despite me earlier telling her that if she did such i wouldn't respe... (139 words)

While visiting my LDR boyfriend he talked on the phone to a girl friend and left me in a store alone. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in long distance relationship with my boyfriend.. This time when we were at a store picking things up for the house,he got a call even before we entered the store from a friend who is a girl who happens to be in the same place and she wanted to meet him..he spoke to her f... (127 words)

I slept with my boss who has a girlfriend. Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive had a major crush on my boss at work for a while. A few weeks back when he was drunk he started texting me and said he would like to take me out one time. I didnt agree as wasnt sure whether dating my boss would be a good move. Anyway last night i thought go for it, so i... (235 words)

At 41 I'm still a virgin. What do ladies think of that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

11 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - being a virgin at 41 Hi am a male am 41 and yes still a virgin I have never had a girlfriend never been in love is it cool to be a virgin at that age am shy with girls have no confidence ... (43 words)

Meeting my online girlfriend for the first time. She's becoming more and more nervous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

11 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had an online girlfriend for over a year now, I love her so much. I know many people have doubts about online relationships and i understand the reasons why, but I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me. Things have been wonderful for over a year and finally... (437 words)

The boyfriend, his ex and their child are going to the movies!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey. This site always gives me great advice and I was wondering if you lovely people could give me your opinion. Dating boyfriend 1.5 years. He has a 6 year old daughter with an ex. Bit if history/ Seen as myself and my other half knew each other before dating I found... (389 words)

Why not me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started my new job about a year ago in a large international company. I was relocated to a different country far away from friends and family. My new team is made up of 5 people all local people apart from me.this year 4 of them got promoted apart from me.We are all new ... (94 words)

Do I give up trying? Want to hang out with her. Are there better ways to interest a girl? How should I approach this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4151 days ago

11 August 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is a girl that I really like and have very strong feelings for. We have talked every night and have become very close. We have also hung out numerous times. One night I kissed her and she was completely on board. I like her and she likes me which is great. She doesn't ... (144 words)

Why was she hesitant to give me a kiss? Before that we talked.Any suggestions on how I could have handled it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

11 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I would just appreciate opinions on the following: I was sitting alone in a venue in the early hours, when a girl sat near me and started talking to me. Which is quite unusual for a female to do at 2am. The normal thing they do is stand around giving signals if interest... (177 words)

How should I handle this situation? My parents would never agree to me going out with this senior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - There is a guy who is a senior and I am a freshman. (in high school) He is very sweet and isn't a perv who just wants to take advantage of me. He is very caring. I think he likes me because we have tennis together after school and he is always flirting and interested i... (108 words)

Why do these women want to stay friends after we stop dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

11 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Why do many girls I have dated, and we both like each other a lot, go cold, all stops, but want to stay in touch as friends? ... (31 words)

We dated for 4 years, broke up and now 3 months later he's getting married! Why didn't he marry me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hurt and angry about that my ex is about to marry his new girlfriend! Ex and I dated for 4 years. We had talked about marriage-it was a bit of a rocky relationship. He broke up with me, and less than two weeks later, he is already with someone new! (I don't really know her,... (164 words)

The more successful I become, the more friends I lose! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

11 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like the more I get older and the more successful I become then the more I lose my female friends. Please someone explain how or why? I'm 35 years old and it hurtful and confusing. ... (37 words)