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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I started talking at the end of last school year (3-4 months ago.) over the summer we didn't get to see each other a lot because of our schedules but we texted constantly and when we hung out there was definitely that connection there. Now that school has started we see each other a lot but that spark is gone. We both still have feelings for each other and don't plan on breaking up but it's not the same. We don't text all the time anymore and when we do the conversation feels somewhat dull. Last year she would text me in classes but this year she doesn't. I know she still uses her phone and texts her girlfriends and even some other guys in class. That doesn't bother me though. She's never been very sweet and flirty with her words but now it's even less that how she was over the summer. What can I do to get us back to where we were? Is this just a dry spell? I don't know why this would have happened so suddenly. It's not just her that's acting differing either. It doesn't feel the same to me anymore either. I don't have that want/need to text her constantly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2013): It fizzled out. That's what happens a lot in really young relationships. You grow apart, and things change quickly.
You're very young and it's normal.
It won't be the same. It's already different. You can start making new friends, and just see each other when you feel like it.
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