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Archived questions from: 6 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do you (men) feel for a woman after you've masturbated to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a female, in a 3 year relationship, and masturbate on the regular. 90% of the time I fantasize about my boyfriend, the other 10 I'm watching porn or thinking of something I saw in one. I feel nothing afterwards, there's no emotional bond to anything/anyone I've masturbated ... (208 words)

He's slept with me but he's been hurt before and witholds himself from me - outside perspectives please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have had a "friendship" for six months. I know the guy has been hurt and takes weed and he knows I want more - he has slept with me and withholds himself (it feels like he is deliberately blocking his feelings but I am not sure if that is wishful thinking on my part or go... (147 words)

She says she's ready for oral sex. I've never done it before and it bothers me a bit that she has.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

6 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this girl for awhile. She basically told me that she is ready to have oral if I make the first move. I have never done anything except kiss, but she has gone as far as oral multiple times. One of the times was with a guy whom she had been going on dates with ... (90 words)

I've been feeling really low lately and my partner's jokes are really getting to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I don't really know where to start. I don't know whats the matter with me. I know none of you are probs doctors but advise is what i need i think. I'm feeling really low. i feel sick a lot of the time so i've not eaten properly since Saturday. (i'm not pregnant) I've ... (236 words)

What would be good to wear/bring for a beach date followed by a movie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am going on a beach date. the beach we are planning on going to is within walking distance of my house, so we would come back there and watch a movie later. what should i bring? what should i wear ? is there anything else that you think would help me out would be great a... (66 words)

Should I have sex with someone 16 years my senior again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm an 18 year old female, and on a course in France last week I had sex with a 34 year old course leader who I met that week...we were both very drunk and although I don't regret it I haven't told anyone because I can see why people would think he'd taken advantage of me or ... (106 words)

I want to be excited to see him and have butterflies but I don't really get that with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone... really need some input from anyone who is feeling unsure about what it is that they want... about three months ago I reconnected with an old friend who I used to very close with 2 years ago... he has a huge crush on me and I thought he was nice too so we tried ... (295 words)

My boyfriend wants more pictures of my friends topless in return for theme park tickets

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend last summer had a bet that if I could get a friend to flash me he would pay for a ticket to the theme park close to us. Well I pulled it off I got a friend to text me a picture of her topless and success I win! Well he took it a bit far, wanted me to send the p... (316 words)

Twin Flames...A real or imagined concept?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you believe in the concept of twin flames / soul mates? Do you think you've met yours? What does it feel like? Examples of movies that depict this kind of love are: The English Patient The End of The Affair Dangerous Beauty Brokeback Mountain Real life love sto... (179 words)

Success stories about people finding love again please!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've split up from my boyfriend of 2 years. We loved each other a lot and were inseparable. We spent so much time together and talked a lot about our future (i.e. kids, moving in etc). We were one of those typical love-bubble type of couples. We promised we'd love each ... (391 words)

Should I text my friend on his birthday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends is having a birthday soon. He doesn't generally tell people his birthday but he told me once and I have a good memory for birthdays. I sent him a happy birthday text last year, too. Thing is, this guy is kind of a self-absorbed ass. I'm not sure if the titl... (194 words)

Any tips for coping with feelings of jealousy and insecurity over ex-husband's new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Any tips for coping with feelings of jealousy and insecurity over ex-husband's new girlfriend? I know it shouldn't bug me, and I don't want my ex back, he was a very bad husband (putting it mildly). I think my ex is dating now and the woman I think he is seeing is very a... (144 words)

I don't want to be the "good enough for now girl" and be wasting my time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, and my boyfriend is as well. We have been together for two years, and do not live together. Recently, I've been beginning to feel like our relationship is kind of at a stand still, like my boyfriend keeps putting the breaks on. He's a good boyfriend for the most part ... (253 words)

What is the meaning behind her calling me sweetie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently, I met an American lady on a dating site. She is 50, im 30. We exchanged few messages and she started her last message by calling me "Sweetie". I know Sweetie can be used for someone that you love as lover or consider someone as your son lol. I'm wondering which ... (79 words)

I want to cut my family out of my life. They are never there for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to cut my family out of my life. Ive said it before in the past, but this time I want to do it for good. My dad is an emotionally abusive paranoid hypocrite who does not support me in anything I do. My mother is the same she abused me as child phsically and emotionally. ... (367 words)

I can't find the spark I had with my ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Right if you could please help, about 3 yrs ago now I split up with an ex. We were together for four years.. it ended a lot because I had drawn myself away from her and didn't spend time with her.. basically I always thought it would end as I felt lucky to have her.. ended ... (244 words)

Hooked up with my best friend, does everything seem fine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My REALLY good friend and I decided a week in advance that we would fool around at this party. I'm 23, he's 21. We've known each other for 3 years and because he has social anxiety it has taken this long to get him to open up to me. I'm his second oldest friend, and we talk ... (854 words)

Why can't I cum when having sex with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

6 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. This is about not being able to cum inside a girl. Well I'm a 26 year old male who has had sex with about 4 different girls. None of then have never got me to cum and its frustrating to both of us usually. One girl cried because I couldn't. I know I want kids someday and ... (154 words)

Is it me or is it him who causes the drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - If I have bad habits, I want to know so that I don't screw things up next time. My ex and I started talking again. It was just supposed to be a catch up thing. But he ended up calling me almost every night. Before we knew it, we were expressing that we still had feelings. No... (1086 words)

She knows I am married, so why be like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

6 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am struggling with temptation right now. A good female friend of mine back from High School who moved back into town has started to become flirtatious towards me like we used to back then....I have been married for 4 years and don't have any real desire to cheat on my wife. ... (205 words)

Confused about my sexual orientation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - lately i've been thinking about my sexual oriantion. i don't see guys like i use too. like 1d, i think none of them are hot, and justin biber gross. when a "cute" guy hits on me i throw up (not literally) i have a bf, but its not the same. it really all started 1 yr ago when i ... (100 words)

It's like he'd prefer to masturbate to porn than be with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4155 days ago

6 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were mucking about recently watching just some tv. Anyway my boyfriend had a question which I didn't know the answer to 3 minutes later he's figured it out. He has a habit of trying to look things up on his phone and then act like he's just remembered the ... (458 words)