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Archived questions from: 24 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is this crazy attraction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've got a question that's been bugging me for a while and wondering if any of you have had the same thoughts or experience or on the same wavelength. I have fancied this guy ever since I 1st saw him one year ago. But I say 'fancy him' I feel so drawn to him and his sexy way... (395 words)

The house will be "ours" but he is making the rules!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age - Both in our 50's and only been married 10. months. We lived together happily for a year before but now bicker all the time. He feels that he has fitted into my lifestyle whilst at my house and we are now moving to his. I never wanted this but cannot argue with the logistics ... (177 words)

I fear I am being used and lied to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know if my boyfriend is lying and using me. The thing is my boyfriend used my computer to go on to Facebook and forgot to log out. I noticed this and automatically went to do so when I saw my name in a concerning way so I read it. I felt terrible but I had to know ... (673 words)

My girlfriend won't allow me any space, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of my first year at university I split with a long term girlfriend who I had been dating since I was 14. We reasoned that it would be difficult to maintain a relationship over long distances especially in what would be a trying and stressful year of our lives. ... (1000 words)

Her parents don't know we are married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really don’t know where to start.. I met a beautiful lady (24) that is now my wife accidentally through social media whilst I was part of a high profile event which we both were using such public platform to talk about. Cut a long story short, 3 months later... (848 words)

Thankyou all for your help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!! This is not a question, I just wanted to say thanks, I have a lot of problems in my relationship right now, I'm posting questions here on a weekly basis, and all of your answers have really helped me. Thank you very much, you are wonderful persons, thank you for all your... (62 words)

I asked him a question and he can't give me an answer. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupid members, there is a guy friend of mine that I recently asked the questions of whether or not he sees us more than friends and if we could ever be more. His response was a plain 'i don't know' and we never finished the conversation to my questions. Time ... (271 words)

How can I reconcile my idea of love with reality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey folks, this post might be a bit long and unorganized so stick with me please. I'm 23 year old male virgin currently studying philosophy. As you can easily guess, my problem lies with women. I never really had any intimate contact with women, no kissing/sex etc. This resu... (1118 words)

How can I break up if I still have some love left for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 weeks ago my jealous boyfriend and I had a fight, I was in college and I just finished classes so I decided to go home, but I ran into a female friend of mine and her male friend and we started talking, I texted my boyfriend this because I had already said goodbye to him in ... (244 words)

So how can I find motivation when deep down I think I'm gonna get no where in life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - If any could give advice it would be appreciated.. right I have come to a stage in my life where I realised I'm going no where fast.. and I'm unhappy and want to do something about. I've been smoking cannabis for 10 years and want to stop, I also am still with parents and... (275 words)

Should I worry about others hearing my girlfriend's moans during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - During intercourse last night in bed my girlfriend started moaning for the very first time since we started having full sex regularly from being virgins a couple of months ago. I was pleased to hear her because I'd been thinking the condom was stopping her pleasure.She said no ... (99 words)

How to tell your boyfriend he's starting to look unattractive?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My long term boyfriend (29) has really changed his appearance. He used to have gorgeous hair, wear good clothes and look his age. Recently however, he's started to look older and older! He now cuts his hair so short he's nearly bald looking and says this is just easier to ... (204 words)

How do I get my friend to stop liking me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear aunts and uncles :) I go to college and I have a best guy friend there, we understand each other really well, he's nice and one of the best friends in general I've ever had. I suspected he might be into me and recently he confirmed he liked me. The problem is,... (172 words)

How could she move on so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I had a six week break before we got back together and got married. She was 19 at the time. During that time she was living with a family member who had a male roommate who was the same age as her father. She had a sexual relationship with him. Is it unreasonable ... (105 words)

My wife doesn't do any work at home and then complains that I should help her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is a stay at home mom, while I work 10-12 hours a day. My wife doesn't do anything at home, I always come home to a mess. She always complains that I should help with the house work. She doesn't do laundry until it absolutely needs to be done, then she'll "forget" ... (187 words)

Do I keep boyfriend? Or stop dating him because I'm falling for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm feeling really confused now and advice would really mean a lot to me. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year but I might be falling for someone else. Let's call him B. B knows that I'm attached. But we text all the time, to the point of good morning ... (198 words)

Should I write a letter to my crush expressing my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I have a big crush for someone. He's a Police Inspector and he helps me in my work. Well, I'm not in the police sector but my work consists of prosecuting environmental offences. I never intended it and never wanted it, it just happened. At first, I did not feel... (217 words)

Fallen For My Best Friend Who Has Now Come Out. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm after a bit of a help now on a rather confusing situation to say the least. I'll start from the beginning as there are too many bits and bobs adding to the confusion! I'm a 20 year old girl, who did the classic and fell for her best friend, lets call him Ja... (988 words)

We've been through so much and I'm just not sure that the affection is there anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted on here a couple of months ago about my awful relationship. My boyfriend putting beer weed and telly before me, and making me me worthless and pointless. Problems have been going on for ages. My boyfriend has some problems in that he cannot cope with stress v... (540 words)

My boyfriend is trying to stir up drama when all I want to do is talk to him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is on a lads holiday at the moment and last night he dropped me a message that he had to be honest and on his first night he had kissed another girl but it didn't mean anything. I told him I was glad he told me but I wasn't going to pretend I'm not upset and he ... (235 words)

We aren't dating but she always asks about my love life. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I was seeing someone for a couple of months but they had to end it. She was having problems in her life and trying to start a relationship on top of it all put too much pressure on her. So we just kept in touch. Now she is seeing someone else, but she texts me a lot now ... (87 words)

Do I have the right to feel jealous if my on-and off bf sleep with another girl?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, So technically my boyfriend broke up with me a year and half ago (in Jan 2012) but he still keeps me around. He said long distance isn't for him but I still love him and have a hard time letting him go. So, every break when I get a chance, I would go back and visit h... (503 words)

Guys are attracted but never want to date me or have a relationship. Could this guy be different?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

24 August 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I just recently got a text from a guy who I use to chat with online. We use to talk all the time. One of our conversations led to phone sex and he told me that we would look good together. One day I noticed that he had closed his account. So I called him and he seemed really ... (296 words)

Is it rude to masturbate in front of your boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, So my boyfriend and I had been on-and-of together for more than 2 years but I was never able to reach an orgasm. Not sure if it is because some women are just hard to get one or it is my problem. We don't see each other as often as we want since I moved away for s... (198 words)

He is pushing me away and here I am, crying my eyes out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. My boyfriend has basically been neglecting me. He's always been the initiator in the relationship when it comes to texting/contact and anymore he doesn't even try. We don't live together at the moment and he lives ... (486 words)

I don't want to get married even though I am engaged!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles. I really dont know how to word this, so bare with me. Im 24, my fiance is 26. Weve been together 5 years and have two children ages 2 and 3. We are engaged to be married in april, 2015. We are paying for the wedding ourselves, which is why the date is so ... (221 words)

What could he be thinking and where do I stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - The situation: we're both in our mid-20s and studying to be teachers. We're not friends but are friendly- have done some group assignments together and sometimes talk before class. He's a quiet guy- generally keeps to himself. I'm not the most out-going person either.. I'm not ... (376 words)

I want to go no contact but I keep looking at her facebook pages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am trying to do the NC for 30 days. It's been hard 'cause eventhough I removed my ex- from my FB newsfeed; I still look into her profile and it affects me. I have never been a FB fan; but I did posted pictures of us when we were together. Now, I am seeing pictures of my ex ... (186 words)

My boyfriend is either the eternal batchelor or has cold feet!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

24 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How soon is too soon to have a conversation about moving in, or the next step? (marriage) My boyfriend and I have known each other for 3 years and been dating for 9 months. We are both in our late 30s. I have to move (lease is up) - so I mentioned how I have to look for... (132 words)

The only thing that would make me happy is to have a girlfriend where love is big and realy mutual.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4138 days ago

24 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Please give me some advice. I know this is quite something to read, but it could make me very happy. I've had a dream about my ex last night. It was like, she was being really sweet to me, while playing hard to get and we just flirted and had fun with each other. My ex is ... (610 words)