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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Tells me to be honest, but he gets mad When I am?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend always says that he wants me to be open and honest with him about everything no matter what it is. Especially if it has to do with another guy an he would do the same But the thing is, when Im open and honest with him he gets upset with me and Doesn't speak to... (200 words)

My girlfriend is disabled and does not feel respected by her mom.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well my girlfriend is upset cause her mom doesn't let her take shower without her mom around. She used to have bad seizures. But her seizures are under control with a nerve stimulater. My girlfriend has to wait until her mom is around even though her dad and brothers around And ... (151 words)

Why do men go to men caves unannounced, go no contact, leaving women worrying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I posted an issue on the site a few days ago. The link is provided. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-are-soulmates-but-now-hes-ignoring-me.html If you are unable to access it through the link it is under the archive of August 19th and is titled "We are soulmates but ... (390 words)

Why do guys take girls for granted in dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that when a guy wants to date you,he will do everything possible to get you and when you finally accept to date him,for sometime he will reduce the things he used to do when he was wooing you like not calling more often and not seeing you more often,because when this ... (71 words)

I need both my husband and my lover

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So ive been married for 18 years, we have 4 children all teens. Extremely unhappy since 2007. We always had a sort of toxic relationship. Fighting (just words) , making up, great sex..etc. In 2005 he was involved in a business that required alot of time away from home. Needless ... (332 words)

Boyfriend's adult son moved in, uses my car, doesn't contribute

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend let his 23 year old son move in with us 3 days a week. He has a place with his girlfriend but instead of going to junior college near where they live he picked a college that is 25 miles north of us. We live 70 miles north of them. The problem, he has no car and ... (343 words)

Think he's a got a old crush to keep an eye on! Insecure and need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! I have a great long term BF (4yrs) who treats me right, but I can’t help the fact that he really only makes friends with girls. He says his friendships are plutonic and harmless, but another girl has re-entered the picture who seems to fancy him. He knew her a year ... (496 words)

What is the best way to handle sexual frustration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

27 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This maybe a silly question.. but its not meant to be in a crude way.. but lately I've been finding I'm very sexual frustrated, understanding as I have been without a partner in 3 years.. but lately this year it has been worse, I keep seeing attractive girls in times I can't ... (106 words)

Friend of my ex was put up to break my heart! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, About 2 years ago,I met this guy at my gym we had the same trainer we started talking,hit it off,he asked me out but from the very start I wasn't looking for anything serious,I made it clear to him..he fell in love with me things got messy,I stopped seeing h... (111 words)

I loaned my b/f money and now he's not talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf (of 3 yrs) and myself were having probs lately as i have some financial issues and was struggling and i asked him to lend some moeny and told him ill pay it back in 2 months max. Brief background, i gave my bf money and he still hasnt retruned it back.I n... (135 words)

I think I've lost my g/f and don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So my gf and I have been dating for just over 2 months. We recently moved in together and things have gotten bad. It seems as if everyday I do atleast 1 thing wrong, most days it's several things. It's almost as if she looks for things to complain about! I've felt like a ... (87 words)

I'm afraid I'll move in with boyfriend but end up spending most of my time alone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm looking for some second opinions on my situation if that's ok? So I'm 28 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He is 26. He has just asked me to move in with him but I'm not sure if I want to or not. The main reason for my feelings is that... (415 words)

I'm worried about boyfriend's immaturity and lack of boundaries

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm trying to figure out if my relationship is good for me or not, me and my boyfriend have had a fair few disagreements, we do usually talk it through sensibly and both feel good afterwards. But there has been one topic that keeps coming back, and we got talking ... (451 words)

I really don't know whether to have this baby or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - In need of some advice. Will try and make it as brief as i can. I have had terrible luck Relationship wise all my life. I dont ask for much or expect much. my last relationship i had been in was with a very troubled person for the last 5 years. This last year i have kept a ... (730 words)

I don't want to use my mom just to babysit while I have a baby!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Question for mothers and Fathers. I'm 22 weeks pregnant with my second child who I have been with for 4 years. Me and my partner 'Jay' got into a huge argument last night about the when the time comes for me to have this baby. He obviously want to be at the birth so we ne... (418 words)

Is my boyfriends behavior with 16 year-olds daughter friend appropriate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I am a 35 year old women in a relationship with a 38 year old man. We have a good relationship and have been together for about 7 months. Recently, I was at his daughter sweet 16 birthday party, and noticed that... (721 words)

He wanted a break and a week later says he wants to be with me. Is he just playing games?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I been seeing someone for 8 month everything was good then about a week ago got he say he need a break to sort out what he want but yesterday he said he want to get back together a again he said he want to be with me and that he got sacred that why he want a break. All a need ... (82 words)

My g/f makes me wait hours between texts. I don't like her behavior!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

27 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys. a few nights ago, my girlfriend came home after spending the night with one of her friends. she texted me "heeey" with a smiley face to let me know she was back. and i replied in about 10 seconds or so. then she disappeared for over and a half. she has a habit ... (348 words)

I found a pair of women's sunglasses in his hotel room. Is my b/f cheating on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of four years is staying at a hotel for work for a month and this is the second time I've come to visit him while I can't work (rain). Today I arrived at the hotel and found a pair of womens sunglasses under one of the bedside tables when I dropped my phone behind ... (69 words)

Has he been cheating on me this whole time !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Please more than one person help me out! I need tons of advice ! My ex is a compulsive liar and the guy I'm talking to, ill just call him my bf, is a player. And they're friends Well in the beginning my boyfriend would text me all day long and call me at night and fall as... (532 words)

I'm confused by my partner's behavior during sex with other couple??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

27 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear qupid..... My woman and I started a swinging lifestyle. The first time we got together with a couple we had no problems.... Second time no issues there neither..... Third time was all bad.... We get there and like always starts off... (443 words)

How do I step up my game with guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I've been single for nearly two years, and even though I'm not rushing to be in a relationship again, I can't help but to be a little concerned about how I am seen by men and how I interact with them. Having just graduated from college this year, I am def... (408 words)

What should I do with an old jealous ex I shared 6 years of my life with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my ex for a little over six years before I'd had enough of his pessimism and serious lack of a sex drive (believe me, I tried everything to keep him happy and satisfied). Honestly, there wasn't a lot of give and take involved. Clearly, he was depressed and I was there ... (409 words)

Was she suddenly aloof? If so, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

27 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am an older guy, early 40s, messed up some key choices in life. Am single, have middling job, somewhat shy. Not so much experience with women, though trying to get better. In the beginning of summer, a woman from work called me to tell me she was leaving. I was t... (657 words)

I now have an erection whenever I kiss my gf. How can I stop this awkward reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I were making out and it went a little further. We ended up doing oral. Now I every time we kiss I get an erection. Even just regular "goodbye" kisses. I didn't have a problem with this before. How can I stop it from happening? I know how to hide it but how ... (60 words)

I'm not the funny, entertaining person whom I want to be.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I really want to make the guy I like laugh, but I can't. We're friends and have known each other a while. I'm not sure if he feels the same but if not thats cool I'd like to be good friends. Thing is I've never been a very funny person, I don't think quick enough and I just ... (314 words)

What physical act counts as cheating in a relationship?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

27 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Just wondering what you guys would consider cheating in a relationship? E.g. A kiss? Oral? ... (17 words)