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writes:I have recently been asked if I would like to go to Florida next year with a group of friends and my god children. The only problem is that my ex-girlfriend will be in attendance as she is god mother to the same children. My ex's attitude towards me is what's putting me off. Whenever she is with a certain group of her friends and she sees me she will try her best to ignore me. If she is on her own and sees me, or whenever we are at our god children's birthday parties she always waves or speaks to me. To be honest, I am finding it increasingly difficult to stand her two faced-ness and I'm not sure whether or not I can be civil enough and put on a false attitude on a 2 week holiday. What would you do?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 August 2013):
 I would go- unless I still were quite hung up on that ex. Otherwise, who cares if the ex waves, does not wave, blows kisses or salutes military-style ?- an ex is an EX ! As long as the ex can stay a bare minimum civil, and abstain from lunging at me with a knife, I would go and just enjoy my holiday, my friends and my godchildren.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2013): I would go- We all HATE seeing exes, but not the other side of that challenge, you get to go to a completely new, cool place, with your friends and get to know your godchildren, who knows what'll be round the corner? Maybe an alligator! :D haha
I think go with your gut. If they were good friends of mine and I really wanted to go I would just think stick the ex. I think it would be a great opportunity to just find interest in new things and bonds with others, and you'll realise how insignificant she really is.
I would say go, unless you really don't want to or just can't afford or whatever. You make your experiences :) sorry if that sounds patronising btw!
Lol :) x
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (29 August 2013):
 I would not want to go on a holiday in the same company as an ex, who`s attitude still holds importance. That`s just me though.
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