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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

22 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it? I have a girlfriend and work with a woman who is married but gives herself away all the time - she clearly has a little thing for me. For a while now our friendship has blossomed but ... (140 words)

Could you suggest anything to make myself feel better, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im in such a bad place at the moment i fell out with one of the girls due to this all the girls arent talking to me, i am single so now have no one day in day out in stick in my house doing nothing, theres no clubs or anything around my area and i only work two days... (97 words)

I want to find him again, we had the most amazing kiss chemistry ever, am I being silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. this is going to seem a rather dumb post but its something i feel i need to get off my chest. from the ages of 12 - 18, i was a member of a karate club. i made a lot of friends there and was very close to a few members, including a boy i'd met. he ... (310 words)

She doesn't want to be friends but won't block/delete my number. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Question for the group here thanks for any reply: A girl blocked my number previously twice and unblocked it... shes telling me to leave her alone for a few weeks, doesnt want to be friends, yet refuses to delete my number or block it again. Why?... (47 words)

What does it mean when your husband doesn't get hard anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a married woman, mother of 2 and 1 on the way. My husband and I just recently relocated for a better life for the family. We don't know anyone here so we just rely on each other to get to know the area more. So as most parents know, its hard to get alone time with your ... (236 words)

Ex boyfriend has sexual photos/videos of me that I'm afraid he'll use. How do I get him to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I broke up for good with my ex in February. We had a rocky 6 year long relationship. There was a lot of chemistry between us, but there were also trust issues. It all began with him finding out about my past. He reacted so badly that I feared being honest, which created a ... (366 words)

It took me a long time to climax during first-time sex and I'm wondering if there's anything I can do to speed things up a little bit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

22 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a girl who is not a virgin for about six months now and just last week we decided to have sex when I was a virgin. She's same age as I am. Body wise, she's got a body that turns me on and she's great at making out...probably a lil better than me but we have ... (245 words)

I've been involved with a guy from work who also has a girlfriend. Things were great but I feel like he's backing off. How can I keep him interested?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy from work for a while, i started there in April and I've had so much fun working with him and flirting away. We get on great! The flirting increased about two months ago and we started sending dirty texts and pics, which again was great and there was no... (395 words)

My ex moved to another town and is trying to befriend my friends. Is he trying to make me jealous and get under my skin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up three months ago and he moved immediately afterwards to another town where my best friend lives with her boyfriend and all their friends. In three months I have noticed on his facebook that the only people he has added as friends are her and her ... (316 words)

Does anyone have any insight into the communication (or lack of) in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age - I met a man through my brother in law. My father recently died and this man is selling the house I inherited. We started communicating through facebook for a week. Last week , he drove three hours to meet me. We had a pleasant time. The weather was gorgeous ,we talked a lot. He ... (199 words)

Do guys ever change their minds after rejecting a woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Do guys ever change their mind after rejecting a woman, especially if they realise they've almost completely 'read her wrong' first time around? ... (23 words)

Would it be alright to date a former teacher that I now work with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just recently become a teacher and one of my ex teachers is working at the same school I am and he is older then me and taught me for a year. However we have become friends and are getting to know each other but I was thinking would it be okay if we went further with our ... (60 words)

How can I go swimming when I'm having my period and can't use tampons?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Please help. My friends mum is taking me, her and her 8 year old sister on holiday tomorrow we'll be going swimming in a really cool pool too but I started my period 2 days ago I can't cancel as she already paid. I can't use tampons. I tried but it wouldn't go in. We NEVER ... (65 words)

After 15 years ex who had amnesia contacts, do I respond and help with memories or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, thankyou for taking the time to read this. A bit of background before I get to the question. If you had an ex who ended up having a rare form of progressive amnesia, and was then tormented by former schoolmates to the point that they were being pushed beyond the brink ... (191 words)

He broke up with me but keeps changing the reason why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - dear cupid, I have been dating this boy for about two months, I really liked him and I thought he really liked me too. but last night he broke up with me, his original reason was that I was too smart for him and he was too dumb for me. I am pretty sure he is dyslexic and that... (178 words)

Is it possible for a person with depression to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Is it possible that someone suffering with depression would call it off with one person who she can only see at weekends then later start seeing a friend close by because it's easier to cope with with their illness?... (41 words)

How do I start my journey with my kids and end contact with this awful man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am devastated, as I have been used and abused for 7 years with a man I loved and sacrificed alot for. Last year I gave birth to our second baby and he started mistreating me terribly. He would sleep out 3 nights every week, and bit me up. The last time I wanted to call... (478 words)

I once let a guy film us having sex, which he then showed to his friends. I'm dating someone new and I'm not sure whether I should tell him about this incident.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Once in my past, I let a guy that I trusted briefly film us having sex. He then showed it to a few of his friends, and for some reason I didn't stop him. I told him no, that I didn't want him to, but he did anyways and I just didn't know what to do or say at that point when he ... (249 words)

Should I wear lingerie under my dress to surprise him even more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so my 10 month relationship has been a little rusty for the last 3 months. We really care for eachother and love eachother but We haven't had sex for about 5 month, not because we don't want to, we really want to, but timing, destiny, karma and other factors always ***** ... (222 words)

I get jealous of his virtual game girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've returned once again with a new relationship and I'm extremely happy with him. I met him the same way I met my last boyfriend on an online game, but we live in the same state so we can go out. However now on the game we met on he's in a relation... (145 words)

Someone needs to tell him he's hurting people!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So... Two and a half months ago my ex dumped me out of the blue no clear warning signs no nothing, just the explaination of I don't see it lasting! We'd been together btw prior to this ten months and he'd promised me basically the world telling me time would prove he'd stay ... (210 words)

I think she's losing interest! What do I say to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - It's been a while since i had a new girl friend and we have recently gone out like last month but things are giving me bad feelings about this. I have a feeling that she doesnt like like as she used to, well before going out we would be friends but kiss and make out and have ... (140 words)

I feel a bit badly for dumping my FWB for a new boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Ok so I would love some guys points of views here as I have NO idea what to think. Ive been in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy for about 2 years now, its been great really, we are great friends and its not all just physical, I mean we can go out for a dri... (441 words)

I'm not sure if he prefers me or her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

22 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I like a guy at my high school, and I know he likes me or at least likes flirting with me. We flirt often because we play the same sports, but don't have any classes together. One of my friends thought he liked me, too, which helps because I know I'm not completely off in ... (326 words)