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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend has stopped calling me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - For sometime now my bf has not called me,i've been the one calling,the last time i did we agreed to see each other when i come to campus but we didn't cos he didn't call to know if i have arrived so we could see and i didn't call him either cos i was too busy and i left on ... (103 words)

I connected with a guy through the internet, he cancelled our first meeting and 2 years have passed since. I'm feeling really down and wonder if I should tell him how I feel.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Close to two years ago, i met a guy online. I took the initiative to send him a message on youtube when i saw his videos about depression, loneliness and anxiety (which i was going through at the time) and when i saw that he lived in the same country and city as me. He was my ... (618 words)

I'm finding it very hard to cope with my marriage ending and need advice from others who had to start over following a divorce

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm starting over at the age of 25. I had everything. A husband, a house, planning for children. We are getting a divorce after only a year and a half of marriage. I feel embarrassed it was so short. I feel terrified of starting over. I feel old even though logically I know I'm ... (214 words)

My boyfriend's phone CONSTANTLY beeps and his friends won't take him off the group message. It's driving me insane!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a great guy who treats me well. The only issue I have is he recently got an iphone and his group of friends (3 girls and 4 guys) have him on a group message. Now, precious to his getting an iphone he wasn't on any similar group text (I don't know if his phone ... (285 words)

I'd like to date again but I am in remission from cancer and worry every day that the cancer will return. How soon should I tell someone I'm dating about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 33 year old man who has been single for 2 years but I feel I am ready to get back out in the dating game again and see how it goes. However I am a little hesitant because of a possible terminal cancer diagnosis. Last year I was diagnosed with Hodgkins Lymphma stage 2.... (216 words)

I'm dating my best friend but she is the only female I'm attracted to. Am I gay, bi or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Sorry, lengthy. Recently, my best friend came out to me, and told me that she liked me. Now, that's great and all, but I've never seen myself being with another girl. This lead to me being very confused about who I was, and what I wanted, because I felt that little conne... (213 words)

I've just borken up with my girlfriend but I regretted it instantly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have just broken up with my girlfriend of 4 years. Properly upsetting for both of us. It was me who took the steps to breaking cause in the last few months we couldn't stop arguing. And we could only see each other at certain times cause we lived 60 miles apart parts of the ... (101 words)

My girlfriend is making a big issue about the amount of time I spend at the gym

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My question is fairly straight forward. Is my gym time too much and can it hinder the relationship I am in? I have been in a relationship for one year with a great girlfriend. We do lots of things together on a weekly basis and really enjoy each others company. I'm a v... (333 words)

Feeling sexually amped -- except with my wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 5 years with two kids. Lately I've had little sexual attraction to my wife but I still watch porn and stuff. Lately, I've been getting hit on by female coworkers, one in particular (gorgeous). Lately, I've felt particularly aggressive and amped sexually. I ... (90 words)

Should I wear a bra because my boyfriend think it's too sexual otherwise?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal that my boyfriend constantly goes on about the fact that I should wear a bra? We've been having a very hot summer so far and I started leaving the house wearing tops but without a bra underneath. He says that it's obscene and it's increasingly becoming a poi... (78 words)

Why did he let me go if I was so good for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a few days ago in regards to my boyfriend not sure if he saw me in his future. I'm 23, and he is as well. He told me he wasn't sure he saw me completely and he was completely confused. The day before yesterday, he came over to talk. Basically, he said he isn't sure ... (356 words)

Is it normal for women not to have enjoyed sex when they were teenagers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This is something that really shouldn't mean anything I guess but I'm just curious about. My ex wife had slept with a guy 7 times as a teenager. She said she never enjoyed it and didn't want to do it.My current wife had slept with 2 guys as a teenager. She didn't enjoy it and ... (127 words)

Others admire my achievements but I just feel empty inside

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - It all started in 2009 when I didn't make it to get into the career that I had always dreamed of.instead I found myself studying something else that I had thought of.I was very depressed,I felt I wasn't good enough.I had a great childhood,I was very intelligent at school,I was ... (381 words)

My male friend has been ignoring his female friends since getting back from deployment

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been friends with this guy ever since High School. Me and my sister both had a crush on him in past but he just want to be friends. I got more friends back then that we talked that still keeps in contact with him but after he came back from deployment he changed. I ... (247 words)

Am I overreacting by being upset that my boyfriend didn't come to see me when I was ill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm just looking for some advice on whether I'm overreacting about this or not. I was taken into hospital yesterday with suspected appendicitis. I text my boyfriend of 4 years on the way there to let him know what was happening. When I got there I was told it was ... (201 words)

It's been 5 months and I just can't get over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex split up with me nearly 5months ago why am I still not over him! I want him back but he doesn't want to get back with me. I don't know what to do as I am still not over him. I think about him everyday and I am just so tempted to pick up the phone and call him but I know I ... (94 words)

My boyfriend wants to spice things up but I'm worried that things would be weird between us afterwards

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi There, I wanted to get some advise from anyone who might have been in my position. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we have always had a fairly normal and active sex life. We've never been very experimental before, but he's recently suggested trying some new ... (200 words)

Am I getting subconsciously turned on by his jealousy and total devotion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - As I wrote on a separate page on here, a few days ago I was unfaithful to my boyfriend. I cheated on him with colleague after spending the whole night having superamazing sex at his. Now, something incredible happened. I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years and he never gav... (288 words)

I'm afraid of being boring to girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hey there is a problem .... i dont know what to talk with girls........... what shall i talk to them...... i feel i will talking something boring and they will get bored please help me ............ i feel i am suffering inferiority complex ... (43 words)

Is it normal for a person to be so involved in their work that intimacy is lacking in relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Normally you hear about men being obsessed with porn online, but in my case, it's a little bit different. I am 32 and have been with my partner, who's 34, for 4 years now. I am of Anglo-Dutch descent; English mother from Atherton, near Wigan, Greater Manchester, Dutch father. ... (343 words)

Am I boring because I don't want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend almost seven months now. At the moment, I'm still very up and down about sexual things and doing sexual things with my boyfriend. This is the most comfortable I've ever been with a boy before, but I'm just not feeling right in myself at the moment ... (226 words)

We've been dating for 5 months but I'm still worried about his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Ive been seeing a guy for about 5 months now, but I can't seem to get over the thought of him and his ex girlfriend. They were together for ages and are still friends and talk quite a lot. She already doesn't like me and has made it very clear, which makes things awkward ... (119 words)

I think my interfering soon to be mother in law needs to mind her own business!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I have another semi-unfortunate family-in-law issue. It basically revolves around my soon to be mother in law. My fiance and I became engaged after 10 years of great friendship and a year of dating. We now live together and share everything, including the bi... (500 words)

Am I asexual? Or just afraid of having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm really confused and need some advice or reassurance! I've had 4 serious relationships and I'm still a Virgin. Simply because I have always been too scared to have sex. I think it's because I have such low self esteem about my body and I don't feel "sexy" enough to... (369 words)

Can you get that wet just from kissing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Yesterday we were in bed with my boyfriend and we were kissing (we haven't had sex yet) and I got really wet and I got embarrassed and I didn't want him to notice so we didn't go any further. Is ir normal to get that wet from just kissing?... (50 words)

Why would he go through all that trouble just to ignore me at the last minute when he became serious with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so here's my situation. My first boyfriend of 5 years who is now my ex has a girlfriend. Him and I have known each other for 12 years. Our relationship has been an on and off thing because he always told me the same thing (I want to explore my options) and I always felt ... (790 words)

I cant accept the fact that my boyfriend lost his virginity to some other girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 24 years old and I have been with my boyfriend just over a year and he is my first boyfriend. It wasn't because i was raised in a very conservative family. I just couldn't find a guy that likes me back and I also like. I have rejected couple of guys who asked me out because ... (217 words)

Flirty work colleague refuses to acknowledge my marriage.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

8 August 2013 (M) age 41-50 - Dear all, I request your advice on my situation. In a way it is silly. I am married and very happy about family life. I have this female friend at work whom I like very much. she is 10 year younger than me and is at the age to get married. We are good friends and used to talk ... (138 words)

Torn between two men--is it possible to love them both?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I Have Been In Various Relationships Over The Years I Have Been Living With My Boyfriend For Over 15 Years He Is A Good Man But He Doesn't Take Me Anywhere Or Go Out With Me I Am With His Mom More Than Him I met A Man Who Is 15 Years Older Than Me And I Can't Stop Thinking ... (106 words)

I want to initiate our next hangout/date but I'm not sure how to proceed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I proceed? I dated a guy last year I met from my cousin and things were going really well. He has a reputation of being a player and I am anything but that. My cousin told him that if you want to hook up with "me" do what you want you are both consenting adult... (273 words)

My girlfriend freaked out when she found porn on my computer because I lied about it, and it was the second time I had.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

8 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for two years but we have known each other for about 9 years and she is absolutely my soul mate, best friend and the one I want to grow old with. We have bickered about this or that and had some arguments like most relationships so I would say ... (608 words)