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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Single parent and scared. Based on his track record and his baggage: Should I be scared?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I need a bit of clarity about my relationship with my ex and I also want to know if you guys think I have done the right thing, because at the moment I an questioning it..please bear with me as this is quite long! Two years ago I met my male friend X. my male f... (1267 words)

Anyone else ever not been invited to a baby shower? I'm engaged to her father.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in my current relationship for 5 years and we are engaged. I know his children, etc. The daughter is married (27 years old) and is now pregnant for the first time. She is having her baby shower in a couple of months. I only found this out via Facebook by a comment ... (286 words)

How do I make my best friend see things my way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really concerned about my Best Friend We've know eachother since elementary school and we've always been neighbors. Back then it was kind of weird if i didnt see her every week. She's super nice and funny, but she's also a bit impulsive and has absolutely no clue how drop... (474 words)

He's acting like I cheated on him! I did not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. Recently I turned 21, my boyfriend however will not be 21 until June. On my birthday we spent the whole day together and later that night I was going to go out with friends. Since the majority of my friends are ... (472 words)

Do I give this girl another chance? I don't want to waste years of precious history!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive had a girl friend for 7 years and I am still quite in love with her. roughly 4 years ago we broke up as she wanted space and wanted to see someone else for a while Typical “Grass is greener on the other side” situation which I totally agreed on since I knew that we dated fr... (450 words)

Should I buy my boyfriend a few toiletries that he can keep at my place or is it overbearing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 and have been dating my guy for 6 weeks. Over the past few weeks we've gotten pretty close and he's been spending 1-2 weeknights and all weekend at my apartment. He has a toothbrush at my apartment, but no other practical stuff (deodorant, razor, shaving cream, s... (135 words)

Is it a case of falling in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So Iv'e been with my girlfriend for about 2.5 years and was asked over the weekend where our relationship was going? I asked her "why, are you having doubts?" Her response was that she was unhappy. This was a huge shock to me as I thought our relationship had it's "issues" li... (388 words)

My boyfriend keeps making jokes about my 'biological clock' ticking!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been together with the boyf for a year now. We have talked about how many kids we want and names we like and wedding day ideas. It's fun conversation, nothing too deep! However this past couple of weeks, he asked me to remind him whether I was 28 or 29 years, il forgive ... (205 words)

Why do I fall for guys so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont understand why but if any guy gives me any kind of attention i seem to fall at their feet. I'm not the kind of girl that goes for looks, i always prefer personality. And i know this mind sound big headed but i'm not some terrible looking girl who never attracts guys. I'm ... (194 words)

Why do conversations with my friend always wind up being steered towards sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really don't know what's going on with my friend. We're pretty close and I guess he's kind of like a brother to me. He might not see it that way, but I see it. I met him almost a year ago. We've exchanged crushes and personal secrets, and there was even a point where I li... (263 words)

I want to be professional, not petty, about this work situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have a colleague at work who at the moment is putting people's noses out of joint. She is taking the initiative which is good to see, but lately she has been undermining two managing staff, myself and another. She does not refer to us, and sends out emails to everyo... (618 words)

How often do guys un-friend zone girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How often does this happen? My situation is this: my guy friend and I have known each other for 3 years but have never been super close because of his Avoidant Personality Disorder. Yet this summer things changed, we had a bit of a fight and made up. Ever since we've been sup... (425 words)

Ex husband and ex wife still doing drama? Divorced or NOT!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My potential mate has an ex wife. After 5 and a half years, they divorced. They have a 5 year old daughter. He likes me and he wants me to be his girlfriend but I have a few issues with his ex wife. While she was married to him, sought attention from her ex husband's teenage... (679 words)

Is being tan really considered to be more beautiful?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So lately, everyone has been commenting on how pale I am. I mean its the summer time and I work as a lifeguard so you'd think I'd be super tan but nope, I have to wear a lot of sunscreen and when I don't, I get badly burned very easily and the burn eventually fades back into ... (132 words)

I'm married, he's married. Do I tell him that I have a crush?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and I have a crush on a married teacher I met only briefly. Should I tell him? ... (20 words)

Is he playing with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay everyone I am so very beyond confused! So I broke up with my ex last Monday. I didn't miss him wanna talk to him or anything. Then he texted me on Thursday telling me that he misses me and stuff that he would usually never say. He was saying things like I don't want us to ... (373 words)

How can I get a girl who maybe liked me in the past to definitely like me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

20 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - So last year around October I started liking a girl, which developed into a heavy crush. I fell in love with her but I never did any major moves with her. At some point at the beginning of this year things were moving greatly, but for several reasons things just cooled off. We ... (107 words)

I ended up sleeping with my ex only to find out that he has been seeing soomeone new

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So.. I slept with my ex bf over the weekend after 2 months being broken up. He was the one that broke no contact, he called me late sat night saying he wanted to talk and bla bla you know the rest. I found out the next day through mutual friends that he is seeing someone and ... (149 words)

Its been 8 months and my boyfriend won't have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my current boyfriend for over 5 years. We were once very close friends with crushes on one another (however, not your traditional friends with benefits kinda thing) and have been dating for about 8 1/2 months, now. We love each other a heck of a lot, I know this ... (384 words)

any woman who gives me the least bit of attention I already become attached to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4105 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Okay first off, I am a female myself. Lately, especially the last year that is, I've felt a sort of strange attraction towards women that I can't really describe. Not sure if this has much to do with it but I know of myself that I am definitely not straight. It's like, any... (327 words)

Why is my boyfriend still friends with his ex? Does he still have feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, lately I've been worrying about my boyfriend's friendship with his ex girlfriend. They were together for 2 years and she was his first serious relationship and also his first love. She cheated on him and left him for the other guy and lied to him about a lot of stuff... (164 words)