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Archived questions from: 29 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Went on a group date and I'm afraid it blew my chance with the girl I'm interested in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't understand my date.My date last night keep sending me messages 3 times in a row after the date. From morning, lunch and just now. I am not attracted to her the way she is into me. I can easily tell she is too much attracted to me. I want her to stop contacti... (147 words)

After I quit my job because my boss was furious, I have lost interest in my career choice! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys!! So this really isn't a relationship question, but i don't have anyone else to turn too, so i'm just gonna ask you guys! Last july I passed my last year in college (studying culinary arts) with flying colours, and will be graduating next december. As soon as i finished... (278 words)

Now that school has started that spark is gone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I started talking at the end of last school year (3-4 months ago.) over the summer we didn't get to see each other a lot because of our schedules but we texted constantly and when we hung out there was definitely that connection there. Now that school has ... (210 words)

She forgot that I'd booked a trip for us and made other plans

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - In March I booked a weekend away for me and my girlfriend, as a gift for her birthday. Now, she knew about it when I booked and apparently wrote it in her diary, the weekend away is next weekend...she's just told me she is now going out that weekend with her friends for the ... (86 words)

He couldn't wait for me to get back, then he wants to be alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for three long years! We were absolutely crazy about each other and have so many memories and were each other's firsts for so much! However, a year ago I had to move a few states away to go to a school my family and I could afford for the time being. It was ... (386 words)

Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing everything together - going... (522 words)

Why do people assume it's just for a green card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is that a foreign guy leaves his family , his country , where he has spend his childhood, his friends and everything for American wife and relocate to US but still he will get this taunt of getting married for green card? Why American girls don't appreciate this sacrifice ... (67 words)

I think I'm dating an alcoholic. What can I do to help him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I believe I'm dating an alcoholic. Is there any hope? He's so great when he's sober. We both like to dance and have a few drinks, so for the last 6 months I've been in a bit of denial I guess. Where as I can stop at 3 drinks all night at a night club, he will have 6 and ... (276 words)

Am I overreacting or being unrealistic? Am I wrong to distrust her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This will be a long question, thanks to anybody who reads it and tries to help me! I have been dating my girlfriend for about two and half years. We're both strong-willed people but I guess she's probably a little more hard-headed than I am. We both lied a lot in our marri... (1091 words)

This guy wreaks havoc on my emotions, but I can't avoid him. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I'm kinda-sorta friends with and I don't know if I like him anymore or not. We used to be closer a couple of years ago, and I had the most horrible, humiliating crush on him. Long story short, he gave me mixed signals for a long time, finally rejected me, and ... (186 words)

Why does my boyfriend "like" girls on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, my bf and I are together more than 2 years. We love each other very much (at least I think so), but what bugs me that he "likes" strange girls on facebook from time to time, the pages like Pretty girls etc. I don´t know why he does that, it humiliates me. And I think ... (164 words)

He is begging for us to get counselling but I think he's lying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost two years and we have had our share of ups and downs. Lately, we have been fighting because he cannot understand the concept of me telling him no when it comes to the bedroom activities. I don't say no all the time. It's just those moments ... (176 words)

My husband is choosing a caregiver over me?? I think he's lost his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age - I don't know what to make of my life sometime. My husband's mom is in an assisted living facility. She had a particular care giver who tried to get my husband to hire her under the table. So I go to visit his mom because he asked me to check this woman out and this caregiver ... (389 words)

Holiday with ex-girlfriend in attendance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently been asked if I would like to go to Florida next year with a group of friends and my god children. The only problem is that my ex-girlfriend will be in attendance as she is god mother to the same children. My ex's attitude towards me is what's putting me off. ... (149 words)

My girlfriend has body-image issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 months now and everything is great i couldn't be happier. now two things id like advice on number one when im not with her for a few days which has been regular as I go to my mums who lives an hour away for a few d... (376 words)

I love him but I'm feeling suffocated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 6 months! I've not been happy for about a month as we work together and spend all out free time together, it's getting a bit full on, I haven't seen the girls for ages and he makes me feel bad when I say I want to go out w... (236 words)

I regret recommending my friend for a job at my workplace

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is not a relationship question but it's something that is really weighing on my mind. I recently met this girl around my age. We got on well and my first impression of her was good. My boss has been looking for someone to fill a position at work and I recommended her, ... (222 words)

Am I right in thinking I should be cautious about marrying him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have just found out my boyfriend has court judgements. (Not sure of the term) for unpaid bills. He says his ex wife named him as liable as the expenses were for his child, and he says he never received the bills until it ended up as a legal matter. Now he has to pay a ... (85 words)

Is there something wrong with my family? Why can't they be happy for my result?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - HI! A year ago a started the toughest job selection on the planet dreaming I would get my dream job. The firm said they would hire 12 people: 6 in Sept 12 and 6 in Sept 14. The competition was ruthless- I had to undergo 3 super selective exams and a very hard intervie... (292 words)

I'm a 22 year old virgin, trying to understand and deal with it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin. To be honest, it doesn't bother me. It is what it is. I don't believe in sleeping around or getting to know someone for the purpose of sex like most people my age seem to do. I mean, sure there are people who do that and it's fine. Bu... (225 words)

I don't understand my ex. Does my ex have issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My relationship with my ex ended almost 6 months ago as she had been raped 12 months ago. She was able to tell me just a couple details to start with but admitted she had an orgasm. she said she couldn't get it out of her mind or understand how it happened but felt guilt, ... (171 words)

Creepy Guy: Ignore or Confront?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Almost all of my friends are males. Most of them also work in my department at work. Usually this has never, ever been a problem. However one of my male friends just... can't take a hint. I'm not interested! A few months back he told me that he was very attracted to me.... (390 words)

Battle of the exes! What do I do about this proposal from my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, I'm at a major crossroads.. I was seeing a guy for 10 years..We broke up and remained friends..Great friends..No bad feelings.. I adore him and our friendship. He was an emotional boyfriend-always saying he loved me etc,still makes me laugh out loud and we both... (356 words)

My boyfriend is pushing me to have a baby with him, but I don't feel for him.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for a little under 3 years (I'm 25 and he's 28) and things haven't been too good of late. I say of late, probably about a year..! From the moment we met he made it clear to me that settling down and starting a family in time was im... (842 words)

I like my friend but she has a boyfriend. Want to end this friendship but don't want to regret it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

29 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, so kind of a long question here. So a while ago I ended up telling one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and that I had very strong feelings for her. Anyway she was super cool about it but said that she only saw me as a friend. So in the time between when ... (316 words)