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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Mixed expressions from him, I'm not sure if he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Please help me. I'm down with insomnia because of this . There is this guy who I like and also kind of new friend to me . I'm not sure whether this guy likes me. He shows mixed expressions . One day he asked me to come along with him for a drive for his personal wor... (143 words)

I feel like if my ex and I become FWB he might want to get back together with me like he did in the past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for over two years. In that time we had broke up and became friends with benefits for about 3 months after which he asked me back out and we dated for over a year and a half. He recently broke up with me, and would want to be friends with benefits. I ... (95 words)

My friend wasn't there for me. We've since made up but now I find out he is planning to spend my birthday on the other side of the country. Do I bother with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there Cupids So basically an old friend and I have just started talking again after 2 months. To cut a long story short, I was going through some hard stuff and he was not there as a friend. He got in contact with me and wanted us to start again, and we did. So after a ... (334 words)

Any ideas about cooking a romantic meal for my boyfriend, including cooking in the nude?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years . I need some help. I’m planning on cooking a romantic meal for my boyfriend Any ideas on what to cook for my boyfriend? Have any of you cooked in the nude? Any ideas about that? I want to have a special, romantic dinn... (74 words)

At what point is it OK to buy lingerie for your girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

3 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my gf have been seeing for a year and a half now . I’m thinking I would like to get a special gift. I’m thinking about lingerie. when is it ok to lingerie for your girlfriend? Any advice about getting lingerie for a girlfriend? Is that something we should buy together ... (58 words)

My boyfriend is so shy when it comes to sex that I feel like he doesn't want me. How can I get him to open up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is so shy in areas of sex and foreplay that it makes me feel like he doesn't want me. Whenever I say this to him he gets annoyed and angry with me. He says that he wants me, but he never expresses it and it's very hurtful for me. I've been trying to get him out of ... (102 words)

Dear Cupid is very much appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, forgive me that this is not a question but I would really like to say that I used this site approx one year ago and with the many opinions and advice from you people my life has now turned around. Looking back I can see clearly that the advice I was given was spot on,... (114 words)

My ex wants another chance. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello dearest cupids! Need some opinions... My ex and I broke up 6 months ago. We've both gone through the motions. He has now finally admitted that he seemingly lack of commitment was due to insecurities that he has. He says he realizes he's mistakes now and wants to be with... (87 words)

I can't get into a relationship because of past porn issues. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - To make a long Story Short, I use to have a habit of watching porn at night and during the time that i would watch porn I would pleasure myself, this would happen every night. I loved the feeling it gave me but this happened at the beginning of this summer I have had alot of ... (300 words)

How can I get to know new people when I can't even tell them what job I do?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My job is highly confidential so I can not really discuss it with people. Nothing illegal dont worry! But when you meet ppl it is the first thing you get asked! I dont know what to say as I dont like lying. I may say I freelance to which they may say doing what. Or may say I do ... (87 words)

One white lie and my boyfriend ended the relationship. How can I fix this mistake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently I told my boyfriend a white lie, take in mind we've been together over a year and this is honestly the first lie I've ever told him, we've usually been open books with each other. It was something so stupid on my part and I take full responsibility for ruining ... (208 words)

Serious HELP! How do I keep a player interested in me?!!!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Met this guy who is very very wealthy, handsome and well connected yesterday. We swapped numbers and he has texted me asking me out. But he is saying stuff about how he wants me and wants me to go to his house etc. Obv he is a player and takes diff hot girls home every night. ... (291 words)

Are tiny causal communications with an ex a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so the situation is... I've been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months and I promise I'm completely committed to him. I've never thought of leaving him for another and I generally consider myself to be very respectful of his feelings in that I don't flirt with other boys ... (470 words)

Should I swallow? I always feel kind of sick afterwards

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - When my boyfriend comes, I always swallow it. Is that bad for me? Is it unhealthy to ingest and can it make me sick? This only happens once or twice a week. Sometimes my stomach feels upset, but I'm not sure if swallowing is really upsetting my stomach or if I am just psyching ... (56 words)

I'm married and don't want to be in love with another man but I am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I have a huge dilemma and I desperately need help. I'm a 38-year old woman, my husband is 45 and we have been married for 10 years. My hubby is a wonderful man and we've been very happy together. A couple of years ago we began talking about getting a summer h... (1006 words)

Facebook Relationship Status?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I just got back together after a short break up. Before the break, we had been dating for five years. We both established that we would like to be back together and are officially a couple. Before the break up, we were an extremely public couple and our profiles were ... (291 words)

Is he still mulling things over or are things done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi cupids, i previously wrote a post about being badly treated in the past by men, cheated, used , abused and how its affecting my relationships now. well there is a new guy in my life, or so i thought. My insecurities got in the way and i think i scared him off big time. I... (130 words)