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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I got horrific razor burn and ingrown hairs from shaving my groin. How can I make it go away and avoid it happening again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

21 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend told me she prefers a man that is shaved in the groin. I've always just trimmed fairly short, but I figured I would give shaving a shot if it is what she likes. I've only ever shaved my face so I wasn't too experience with what to do down there. I shaved in the ... (140 words)

My boyfriend forgot my birthday and I'm furious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of eight months forgot my birthday. First of all he knew my birthday was coming up and I had to ask him if we would have plans. He needed time to think about it and suggested that I might have plans with my friends. So I followed up with and he said he had to think ... (197 words)

Why is my wife suddenly so happy to have anal sex? I can't ask her about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

21 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Anal sex with wife. Hi. Been married for 10 years and wife said was virgin. Regular sex was painful with her to start with and she seemed really not to know hot to handle it. However, very recently she started initiating anal sex without even me asking. I... (278 words)

I'm very concerned that my boyfriend is getting a female roommate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and I've always trusted him. I've known him for years and he was never a cheater with girls and was always well behaved. We've done long distance for the last few months and it's still going great. He moved in with... (317 words)

I feel very anxious and uncomfortable when my boyfriend's ex is around and even found myself reading his emails to her. Do I have a right to feel the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my wonderful boyfriend for a little more than a year. We're both 24. He's my first boyfriend, and 99.9% of the time, I couldn't be happier with him. He literally is one of the most kind, considerate, old-fashioned, respectful individuals I have ever met. ... (1555 words)

My roommate says that I smell but I don't know whether she is being mean or honest

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My roommate and I hate each other and she says I have an odor problem when I’m doing what I know is right hygiene-wise. I’m at my wits end. We’re in the military. We live in a 3-man room. She says that “my smell” infects the entire room. I have a poor sense of smell, yes, b... (303 words)

My boyfriend is working abroad and I'm unemployed and struggling with a toddler and another on the way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23, I have a 3 year old and am currently 23 weeks pregnant. I've been with my boyfriend 5 years and he is abroad finishing a job and will be home in November. Me and my son have just come back home to live with my parents and to look for a house to buy. My boyfriend should ... (275 words)

If a girl at work or serving at a shop that I frequent tells me "I am so bored", would you think that is a signal of interest?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - If a girl at work or serving at a shop that I frequent tells me "I am so bored", would you think that is a signal of interest? I have had one or two telling me they are bored, and we should get together, to take away the boredom. I realise the latter is almost sure aski... (75 words)

Ex initiated contact. I thought I'm over him, but now I can't stick to my guns.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) age 36-40 - This is my last post. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-still-feel-sad-miss-him.html So the last time I talked to my ex, he said he will marry me if I fly to him tomorrow. He said he's not over me. I asked why he didn't wish me happy birthday after we broke ... (145 words)

I want to know how I can ask him out without making a fool of myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on one of the chefs at my job. Ive known him for about six months and in that time the only time he notices me in when the chefs need dishes. Im 17 and he is 23. I want to know how can i ask him out without making a fool of myself or how can I get him to ask me ... (67 words)

I gave a guy my phone number but I'm not really interested in him. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out on Monday night with some friends and their friends (whom I had never met). One of the guys whom I didn't know asked me for my phone number before I left. He knows I don't have a boyfriend. I gave it to him but I'm not interested at all romantically, al... (130 words)

Is he trying to make me jealous using facebook? Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is really really Weird. This guy I have a major crush on tagged me in a picture on Facebook. The picture was of him, his friend and two girls! None of these people were tagged in the picture,he only said "just having fun right now" and tagged my name. Then he started ... (326 words)

How do I fix this LDR? He's great in person but horrible at other forms of communication!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a girlfriend of this guy who is amazing in person, but he is so horrible at talking to me over text, phone, and Xbox chat. Voice chatting is better than text, but nothing beats him being awesome in person. In person, he shows me attention, affection, spends time with me, ... (628 words)

Ex acts like he wants me back, but says he wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I left my boyfriend because he had a temper. He said some hurtful things and never seemed remorseful to me. After two weeks of no contact, he started talking to me again and things were going pretty good. We decided to organise a second meet up, but before the end of the ... (340 words)

My Bf, while still a child, suffered sexual abuse by a male pedophile. Can this affect the relationship between my Bf and I, long term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently told me that he was sexually abused by his male coach when he was 8. I am the only woman he has ever had sex with and he says loves making love to me. He says he feels very loved and complete afterwards. He said that he doesn't want anything between us t... (116 words)

Did the fortune tellers mess with my mind or do I truly want to change careers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys,you've always given me great advice on love so now I need some career advice. Before I start, I want to say that I have some form of ocd called pure o, where I over analyze thoughts to the point where I have become mentally ill and anxious. Basically, I am an elementary ... (725 words)

Am I overthinking or I'm just clueless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 years old and she's 32, we both live in Asia but since we're both Americanized I put America as the location; we met on a dating site and have gone on many casual, friendly dates before. Upon our first meet we've been very open and upfront, declaring that we're not out ... (599 words)

Boyfriend's lie about my birthday present makes me wonder if things can ever work between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf of almost 2 years lied to me. it was about my birthday present. he said he had ordered something off amazon for me and told me what it was and told me to look out for packages and everything. to make a long story short, i found out he never ordered it. when i confronted ... (412 words)

He dated my best friend, should I try again ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I was dating this guy for a year and a half and we broke up. I couldn't remember the reason why we did because it was a few years ago but I know that it didn't end well. After being broken up for a little bit, my ex started dating my friend. She's done this to me before but... (222 words)

I want a new guy in my life to fill the emptiness I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I currently live in an apartment complex where some of the people are disabled and elderly. Sometimes it can get a little depressing because some of them are not around my age. I am in my late forties and I like to be around younger people. I befriended a older lady ... (316 words)

Tips for meeting lesbians in the real world not virtual internet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it my over thinking or are people really only looking for hookups on online dating? I'm lesbian and I rely on online dating to reach lesbian chics to the masses. My problem is chics just wanna f*ck. Now I love sex, but I'm only into sex with a partner I love n the ... (186 words)

Does my wife's behavior mean she is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

21 August 2013 (M)

age - In the last year,my wife has talked sexier and much more than in the pastwhile having sex,started to exercise,swallowed several times giving me oral sex a couple times in one week when she. Has only did that twice before in 20yrs and became interested in aquiring sex toys which ... (138 words)

Brother is running around with an older man and lied to me. I found out by snooping. Do I confront him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey-My brother went away on a trip and had me come and feed the fish at his place while he was gone. I'll admit I did a bit of snooping and found his password to his email...What I found shocked me! He has been having sex with another guy quite regularily, whats worse is this ... (218 words)