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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Borderline personality disorder is affecting my relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry, this is going to be long, but I do really appreciate your help! Here is my full story, for those of you who read/answered my last post. First things first, I am a female who has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. If you do not know, this is a mood d... (377 words)

Fair enough that they hate each other, but couldn't we get a photo for my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4136 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Right. My parents had a rocky relationship, they never should have been togeher. Both messed up people who just added to the problems by getting together. They had me and stuck together for about 3 years for the "child's sake". I have no issue with my parents apart. T... (683 words)

Worth trying? Or pointless? Do you think I can contact her and have coffee and try for the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Thank you Aunts for your time reading my agony...My boyfriend of 2.5 years had a ' friend' that he met up with at her house unbeknownst to me over a year ago, i caught him there, he said they were just friends and were talking about a guy she was seeing. They played on a team ... (816 words)

She hasn't invited me to her friends' wedding?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

23 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has been invited to one of her friend's wedding next month (an ex, but they're still friends, which is totally fine with me by the way). It's in the middle of a week we both have off on holiday. Anyway, she told me that it didn't come with a +1. I thought, sure I ... (399 words)

How long after losing your virginity will sex start to feel good for a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have a question. I have had sex for the first time recently. I lost my virginity on August 1st. Since then we have had sex once or twice a week. He can fit inside me and we have sex no problem. But it still feels a little uncomfortable for me when h... (197 words)

Family/relationship not completely out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My whole family loves me and they love my girlfriend. She currently lives with me and my mom. They have even adopted her into the family but they don't know we are lesbians. About 1/3 of my family knows about us but the rest we are reluctant to tell because they are from older ... (103 words)

I need some French Kissing pointers

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend are a little bit new to making out (we're both each other's firsts). We've tried kissing before but I found it a bit awkward ... I understand that when you're french kissing your tongues are supposed to interact, but what do your lips do while that ... (93 words)

How should I act around the man who rejected me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a crush on a man, who was out of my reach. It was inappropriate. But I told him I had a crush on him and he pretty much rejected me, with no answers after a lot of flirting, when we'd see each other, smiling, waving, winking etc. he didn't have any empathy for how ... (272 words)

My boyfriend blames me for his recent sexual problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My Baby's father got a problem. he lost his sex drive. No erectoin and ejaculate very quikly. he's in mid 40's pls help me. Now accusing me of missing my ex. he saw msg on my phone. Of one of my friends. Pls help!!!... (52 words)

A guy I was messaging online wanted me to do things I wasn't prepared to do and in the end he stopped contacting me. Now I see he's viewed my profile again. What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I have been on and off a dating site for about 5 months and have made a few pen pals. In the first few months there was a guy, he is 29 years old and he wanted a friends with benefits situation. In the beginning he was sort of nice complimenting me on my looks and I was taken ... (370 words)

Why is this old flame from the past still playing on my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for a over a year and a half, we're happy together and we're planning a future together now. So why can't I get my ex boyfriend out of my head? I had a few relationships in the past and don't give any of my other exes a second thought. I stayed in ... (384 words)

Wny advice for speed dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, need some quick tips please. I'm a 36 and recently single after a 15 year old marriage that I put to an end. I've never dated before and have signed up for a speed dating event this week. Any tips, dos and donts? I've also relocated and have few friends for now, and from ... (91 words)

We discussed a FWB relationship but now he's running hot and cold!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a coworker who's been hot and cold with me for about a year now. The past month, he's come on strong, being very physical and sexual. I would like to have a friends with benefits situation with him. I'm single, and not interested in a relationship, but some action may ... (203 words)

My friend doesn't approve of one night stands and now she won't speak to me because I told her that I had one!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So a few months ago I went home with one of my friend's roommates after a party (I was a freshman in college) and we ended up sleeping together. I don't regret a thing, but my best friend from high school doesn't really like how college has changed me. She got over my drinking, ... (191 words)

Why does my b/f get soft and hard when we have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are both 18. We had sex twice now,safely with the pill and condoms. Arousal isn't a problem but he softens and hardens throughout the whole time. I can feel the difference but I'm not sure if it's because he's overexcited or if there is a problem with me. ... (52 words)

My ex said can't give me false hope??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex bf and i have hung out quite few times since the break up and yes we have "hooked up" but told me he cant give me false hope that we are getting back together..what does that mean? will he change his mind?... (44 words)

Any advice for swinging? I feel jealous of the rapport between my b/f and the female

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

23 August 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have had a few "swinging" encounters and we want to continue in the lifestyle. I enjoy being with other women without a doubt. Once I am in the heat of the moment I also enjoy being with other men. The problem is that the last time we were with another couple ... (217 words)

Wife had bad day at work, crying but won't tell me what happened!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some insight into the female mind...no easy task I know. My wife comes home crying. She started a new job about 2 weeks ago. She said she had a horrible day. So I hug her and she cries. I ask whats wrong but she said she didnt want to talk about it. So we left it at th... (541 words)

The girl I've had a crush on for years is moving away! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

23 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl ive had a crush on since seconded grade is moving to florida this new year what do i do. should i tell her how i feel or forever be quiet and give up on her. if you have any better ideas please tell me. 8/22/13 ... (53 words)

I have a girlfriend and a friend with benefits. What am I going to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

23 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with 2 girls. I have a girlfriend but lately I've been getting close with a friend of mines. Myself and my friend are what you could call friends with benefits. She doesn't know that i have a girlfriend though, and I'm starting to fall for her. I don't love ... (92 words)