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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know if I should fight for this, or just drop it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I bother fighting him on letting me meet his girlfriend before he introduces her to our son? Getting divorced. I want Ex and I to both agree that we will not introduce anyone to our son and we will introduce that person to each other prior to our son meeting them if ... (219 words)

I'm falling in love with my second cousin but our families are forbidding it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - One day I was on FB and this girl had the same last name as me so I added her. We started talking and found out that we cousins but I didn't want to believe so I ignorant the fact that we was . So I starting talking about my brother and she said she had a brother to and she ... (266 words)

I'm being supported by my family while in college and I feel like a failure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a relationship question, but more of a personal struggle I'm trying to cope with. I graduated with my AA in Spring of 2012. I decided to go with a psychology degree though I had intended on going to medical school so it didn't really matter what I majored in. I ... (226 words)

Sore throat after oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyone ever experienced a sore throat after giving oral sex? Lately I've been waking up with an extremely dry throat and the last time my partner and I had engaged in this was about 2 days ago. Just curious. ... (43 words)

Male friend not getting the fact that I'm now in a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - As of only a month, I've been in a relationship with a guy who I've been good friends with for 5 years. Just now we are taking it to the next level and if we keep going at this rate, things might turn out very well. However, I have another male friend who doesn't seem to ... (249 words)

I don't want him to fix it, I want him to listen

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been arguing a lot with my bf lately mostly because every time I talk about things that are happening to me at work or outside of work, he wants to fix everything. He ends up telling me what I should do and want to control me when I'm not even asking for help. It makes me ... (97 words)

He's been seeing a male prostitute for friendship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 36, and my husband's 40, we have a 15-year-old daughter. He admitted last night that he'd been going to a male prostitutes to "talk" and have a few beers, and even gave me his mobile number! My husband also said no sex was involved and that he had issues he couldn't disc... (299 words)

I like him, but am I just staying with him until I find someone that I like better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound horrible..but I might as well just go ahead and say exactly what I feel.. I'm dating my boyfriend for 4 months now, he's crazy about me, would do anything for me.. I like him too, I like spending time with him, I care about him! But I don't fancy him that... (105 words)

What is wrong with me? Why have I never been asked out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 and have never been asked out. I'm smart, go to uni and actively participate in student organisations as well as take part in social work. I love having good discussions and always take genuine interest in listening to the person I'm talking to. I'm petite and I con... (353 words)

Is she still entitled to her privacy after she has had a clear disrespect for our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me start by saying, I have posted here several times regarding this subject. I asked if it was normal that my girlfriend was occasionally speaking to her exes and kept me a secret to her family. Recently she told her family about me - after we have lived together for 7 m... (596 words)

I don't get enough attention from him and he'll go days without texting or calling!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a few months. We're two different people, with different interests, but somehow we love each other. I've always had problems with him not giving me enough attention, we could go for days without talking, he doesn't ... (245 words)

Why does he keep bringing up his ex? I feel like I'm competing with a cheater.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be angry? Me and my husband talked about our past and he told me that if I weren't in the picture he was going to steal back one of his ex (his first love) from the guy she dated at the time. This girl tried to get back with him too many times before but he ignored ... (467 words)

We have something good, but he's married and his wife refuses to divorce him! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy a 5 months ago. We get along well and are still getting to know each other. We have something good. Our previous relationships were painful for both of us and the things they he went through in the relationship were horrendous, physical, verbal and menta... (442 words)

I need some threesome advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my one of my bfs mates seemed to be coming on to me and when I was at the point of telling him to back off we ended up on the discussion of threesomes, my bf told him we had been looking for someone to do it with but had, had no luck. His mate then just says well I'm cool ... (303 words)

My anxiety is really affecting my life. I want my old self back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) I know this doesn't generally relate to relationships but it is having a knock-on effect on mine and I would like to deal with it sooner rather than later. I think that I might have anxiety, or become prone to anxiety attacks lately (or the online explanations of the ... (445 words)

Am I cheating if its just in my thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't know whether it is right or wrong to be in the situation which I am in right now. I am in a very fulfilling relationship with an amazing person. He loves me so much and ofcourse I love him back so much. And I am looking forward to spending the rest of my life with ... (108 words)

Am I desperate for something to happen since I haven't been in a relationship for awhile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It has been 10 months since I have had a relationship. And my last relationship wasn't the most amazing. I did start seeing a guy a few months ago, around June time. We didn't sleep with each other, but we have fore play. (We didn't have sex as we didn't have any protect... (241 words)

I feel unwanted and it's like having sex with a stranger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together just shy of 2 1/2 years. He's been under a lot of stress lately because we are starting college and because of his job, but stress from school and his job have never been a problem with our sex life until now. We only have sex when he wants ... (217 words)

Can I leave him or am I trapped forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have lived with my husband for six years. I believe that I have always relied on men in the past and have had several abusive relationships. I suffer from deep seated fears/phobias from my childhood and agoraphobia (mild now). My husband has clinical depression and is a rec... (451 words)

Am I asking for trouble by dating my ex's uncle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating my kids daddy's Uncle! and he doesn't want hie Family to know yet he say's! Am I being played / because sometimes I hear from him and sometimes I don't!... (33 words)

My GF seem to want her mom-daughter see us have sex!. Why would this be?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend seems to be setting things up so that her daughter or her mother see us making love. Is this a more common desire for women than I realized? My girlfriend and I are sort of engaged to be engaged. she surrently lives with her mom and her 16 year old daughter. ... (217 words)

He gave me the reasons to go and snoop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is very close friends with his ex, he says she has been very good to him when he had problems, although she has since married, then divorced with a kid she is trying to make things work with her husband and is visiting him in the states, my boyfriend said she is ... (481 words)

Has anyone had an ex that has reached out after realizing he made a "mistake" and wanted to work things out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - It has been 2 months since my ex boyfriend and I have had "no contact". He broke things off. I miss him so much I haven't reached out at all, no calls, no texts, or emails, nothing. I keep wishing he'll miss me and realize he wants me back. I am having a very hard time with the ... (121 words)

I took photos of her and the next day she had one of them on her facebook. Does she like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well the other day I took some, pictures of this beautiful girl non nude. In we hit it of great had a fun time doing it. And it's kind of funny, I never had a girl wan't me to take picture's of her. So could she maybe be into me. Because we had a great time doing it and she ... (131 words)

I'm devastated to discover my crush wants to marry by the end of the year and obviously not to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm crying over and over and over :( I m in love with a guy and he also showed many signs that he likes me and I thought he'll ask me out one day.) But When I was talking with him today I realized something . He was talking about his marriage plans and was planning to get ... (119 words)

Why would someone cancel a first date? Male perspective.?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had met this person twice. The first time we met I was sort of almost judged too soon and we didn't end up speaking that much. The second time we met was by total coincidence at an event. We got to chatting, by that time I had gotten over what had happened the first time. He ... (175 words)

Is there any way to love someone less?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

9 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I love deeply my girlfriend of a year and a half, but I feel she does not love as much as I do. I know she loves me, just not as deeply as I woukd like. has anyone experienced the same thing? is there any way, method so I can love her less and be even? its kinda painful.... (59 words)