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Archived questions from: 18 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's with me only because she wouldn't take him back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'd love some advice please as I'm heartbroken and confused right now. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. After a year together, he broke up with me because he said he wanted to be single and go travelling. I was devastated but tried to get on with things. Aft... (299 words)

Is this girl a little too friendly with other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This is maybe a silly question.. but basically me and this girl have been talkin off an on for a bit.. we first went out for a date which was fun. After she went off for a bit, still txtin but not meeting any way .. then she asked to meet up I said ok.. planned for the sat . ... (245 words)

Is it wrong to persue this divorced woman? Is my friend jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (M)

age - I have friends, but not at all close friends who divorced. I saw her now and then where she works and she's always been very friendly. We grew up together in the same small town, but never hung out or were ever really friends, we ran in different circles. Last week she asked me ... (365 words)

Could my daughter's cheating cause a family feud to develop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Thank you for your help with my question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-daughter-was-cheating-on-her-fiance-with.html - I appreciate it. However, the thing I was most worried about was a family feud developing between the two families - especially as my daughter's be... (254 words)

Where do I stand with her and where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

18 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I posted another question below "She wants space, how should I approach this?" if you want to read that for more info. So I've been keeping to myself and working on self improvement. She requested space so I've given it to her, I had sent her an email apologizing and ... (310 words)

He said he needs space because of all these problems! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear agony aunt i have a problem with my current boyfriend. We started dating 1 month ago. Everything was a sea of roses in the begining however one day he told me we had to talk and he told me about recent problems that had all showed up at the same time including his grandma ... (192 words)

Suggestions on how to decoy him for a few minutes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I need some suggestions... I want to do something special for my boyfriend for his birthday we are going out of town on vacation and will be at a nice hotel and resort. I want to decorate the room really romantic for him but i need an excuse to get him away from the ro... (100 words)

He says he wants to see me and then backs out every time! What is with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy a few months ago. He started texting me me a short while after. Our texts became pretty steamy. But he seems to go hot and cold. He says he wants to meet up. Three attempts have been made and he chickens out. Late Friday night he texted me telling me he wanted t... (404 words)

Should I act upon my feelings that she might be interested? Or wait until I return from a trip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I want to thank you all so much in advance for reading and responding. I'm having problems deciding whether to act on my intuition and would like to have some advice on how to proceed, as I have a bit of a 'deadline'. I've been having a crush on a girl I met som... (379 words)

Career struggle after college

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, This is a question on career options. But I am posting a career question here as my experience with this site has been good so far and I get the most sensible answers here. This is slightly long. So please bear with me. So I graduated with a Masters degree ... (675 words)

Should I keep him in my life in any form or just cut my losses and forget about him completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and a guy at work have been attracted to one another for several years now. We both came out of serious but painful relationships around the same time. Mine was a longer relationship so it took longer to get over. We both have one child each, mine grown up. He is nearl... (1078 words)

My husband has roving eyes and has become quite "touchy-feely" with younger attractive women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - What to do to a husband that has a roving eyes, sometimes likes to ogles and lately his new thing is the European style of kissing and hugging when being introduce. At first I have no problem with it but then it's becoming a hobby but the problem is he pick and choose whom ... (615 words)

She poured her heart out in an email to me then started dating someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, Has any girl reading this settled for 2nd best? Shortly after meeting someone and going on a few dates I had to move 120 miles away. She sent me a very lengthy email explaining all the things she liked about me but she finds it so hard and impossible to do a LDR. ... (154 words)

He almost got married during the time we were broken up and sometimes when I'm feeling really low it bothers me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I got back with my ex for more than half a year after being apart for 1.5 years, and are currently quite stable. The reasons for him breaking up with me then are considered resolved, and we are prepared to make it work this time round. My only issue is, he had another rela... (341 words)

I'm in a lot of pain after breaking up with my boyfriend, who was also my best friend. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my best friend in early September and it was great. He was the sweetest guy I knew, he always wanted to hang out, he was always there when I needed him. That all changed about a month ago. Him and I would get into the biggest fights over nothing till one of us ... (83 words)

He can't hold off masturbating for one day during the week but can go two days without doing anything sexual with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question to all the guys who have been in a relationship for at least a year. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2. He's 33, I am 28. We do not live together yet but are working on it. Every weekend Friday to Monday morning we spend time. I tell him during ... (377 words)

It kills me to hear her talking about him. How can I ask her to stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3747 days ago

18 August 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is a girl that I could swear I am in love with. We talk so much and we both trust each other a lot. Recently she has been telling me about some guy who she is obsessed with. He is some 6 foot 4 "super hot" soccer player. I could not possibly hold a candle to that guy. It ... (151 words)

Am I doing the right thing for my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I got pregnant with my son at 18 by a guy who told me I was a whore and the baby wasn't his. He was my first. He didn't talk to me for four months after that. Then he decided to contact me at which point he basically used me for money and rides when he needed one. His family ... (408 words)

My crush, my soulmate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

18 August 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend 4 months ago, and I've finally forgotten him, recently, (2 months ago) I started taking yoga classes to help me getting relaxed and to get to know me better, and it's really helping me, but the problem is that I have a huge crush on my yoga ... (260 words)

I thought our relationship was my business! Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for a while now. I love him very much and thought he felt the same way. we use to share everything. He is the only guy friend I felt I needed. I don't talk to other guys on the phone or internet. I recently found out that this man had been married 3 ... (229 words)

My coworker says that he might be interested but I think that he might just enjoy my company. What do you guys think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am massively attracted to my superior at work. I am 20 and he is 32. We both work at a hospital, he is a general surgery resident and I am a research student. Are these signs that he is attracted to me as well? He: Always takes me with him to do rounds instead of ... (222 words)

I accidentally said something I shouldn't have at work, now my younger colleague may think I'm weird!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with many younger colleagues, 95% my workplace younger, which is fine, I have NO issue with my younger boss or working with 22-34 yr old colleagues, half are under 28, some are managers which is fine,they are good at it, im just an average worker, not a boss. Im ... (646 words)