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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We have a baby but I've found out she kissed another boy when we had been together for a month!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

2 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 22 and she's 19 we have a baby now and were doing just fine being together,we've also been together for more than a year.i loved her without a doubt before she kissed a guy when we were about a month together she said that it was a dare they were drinking with a group of ... (289 words)

My ex will not allow his children to see me and I know how much it is hurting them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi... Just a question I wanted to ask as I am so so angry and need clarity! I have broke up with my fella of 2 years, he took me for granted, used me as a money bank etc etc. I was unhappy for months and told him but he never tried... He has 2 kids from a previous r... (233 words)

Am I just supposed to drop our friendship because her girlfriend doesn't like it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone. i'm a 29 year old lesbian and my best friend was a 32 year old lesbian. we had been friends for years. just friends. she was the single most important friend i'd ever had. she got into a relationship about 8 months ago with a woman who decided she was uncomfor... (567 words)

Can separation be good for a marriage? I am moving out but we both still want it to work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been asking for a lot of help lately, I certainly need it... I'm going through a separation right now. I'm moving out tomorrow after my marriage has seemed to have fallen apart. I'm devastated. I'm angry. I'm sad. I'm all over the place. One minute I think we could s... (359 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me in April, now she is messaging me a lot with smiley faces. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all! My problem is my ex girlfriend she dumped me at the end of April after a year together but something kicked off on facebook over a status she realized it was nothing about her and apologized.During this argument it caused me to delete her which she disproved of. We ... (206 words)

I asked my girlfriend to move in but she wants me to tell her what I plan for the future. I'm not sure what I want yet, what do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

2 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and I recently asked my girlfriend of 4 years to move in with me. She is 28. She told me she needed to think about it for a few days, but when she came back she told me she couldn't decide until she knew for certain whether I want marriage and kids in the future. She ... (156 words)

My guy friend, who I have something going on with, got overly worried for me one night. What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy So basically I just wanted to know what you guys think this means. I told one of my guy friends (who we got a bit of a thing going on) that I was going out drinking with a friend and he was like why you going out? Where you going and who with? I am just worried ... (333 words)

Should I tell my friend's ex that she lied and caused the break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an issue with something a friend of mine did to her now-ex boyfriend, and I don't know if I should tell him or not. They were together for around 4 years, and during that time she was always complaining about the way he treated her. He put his friends first, didn't make ... (278 words)

What's more wrong? Checking your boyfriend's phone or your boyfriend betraying you?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - What is more wrong? Checking on your boyfriends phone or finding out he has betrayed you? Seemingly he said I would never of got hurt and I shouldn't have gone looking... (31 words)

Can you fall in love with someone without having ever talked?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you fall in love with someone without ever having talked to them? I am in this date site. But I am not a gold member. So I can't talk to anyone, just when gold member contact me if I like their profile I can answer. I can get over hundreds email in a week just to be onlin... (732 words)

Do I tell him that now that I'm not interested or do I go on a couple of more dates to see if feelings develop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently went on a date with someone I've been talking to for a while. We got on well, could talk for hours about anything but I'm not sure I'm feeling anything more than friendship for him. Do I tell him that now or go on a couple more dates to see if feelings develop? He ... (102 words)

I feel such an enormous amount of guilt every time I so much as think of my ex that it overwhelms me entirely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'll try not to make this too lengthy - I have asked a number of questions when throughout my almost four years of a relationship that ended this April. My ex left to the other side of the world, and for the first time since moving in together years back I realized... (514 words)

Is there a "polite" way to find and pursue casual sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

2 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what this community thinks of "casual sex", but let me start by clarifying about myself. I'm a 28 year old guy, never had sex, never had a girlfriend, never gotten anywhere with a woman. What I always REALLY want(ed) was to find a "proper" relationship, but I no ... (260 words)

What can a guy do to sexually attract a woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

2 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - What can a guy do to SEXUALLY attract a woman, be it a friend, girlfriend or spouse? I mean what can he do to get a sexual spark in her, to get her mind thinking or wanting, even subconsciously, to do something sexual with him? It's easy for women: wear something showin... (201 words)

My husband has been asking me to wear very revealing clothes in public because it turns him on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately my husband has been asking me to wear very revealing clothes in public. I have tried to accomodate, even though doing so Made me very nervous and self conscious at first. It still makes me feel that way, though less so the more I do it. To give some examples, he lik... (318 words)

Fed up with broken promises. How do you break up with someone who's financially dependent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've lived with my boyfriend for six years. Our relationship has been rocky for the most part, but I've always felt close to him and considered him a good friend. The main reason I want to break up with him is that he continually makes empty promises to marry me. I have... (756 words)

When I go away on holiday, I come back feeling very blue and not sure what I want from life! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I needed some advice as I am really worried about what I want from life. I have recently discovered that whenever I go away on holiday and return back I always feel really blue and not sure what I want from life. i have discovered that when I am away I love the ... (207 words)

Girls, how long do you want your guys to last in bed?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

2 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - How long do you want your guys to last in bed, girls? How long have your guys lasted? What's the record? Tell us about it. How long is too long and how short is too short during sex??? ... (38 words)

The ex-factor: should I feel stupid for breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im here because I broke up with my bf of 2 years a week ago.. I was quite successful I had an apt a job finishing school..and since he had always said he wanted to move in together I was always bringing it up.. He never did..he would always just promise..and I'd go above ... (207 words)

Am I a bad person for breaking up with my boyfriend because of his out-of-control ADHD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with the guy I was dating with because of his ADHD. We were together for 2yrs but over the time it got progressively worst. For instance, he constantly breaks things at my place because he is not paying attention to what he is doing, constantly makes... (612 words)

Why is this woman at work so nasty to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are the women I work with so nasty? Urgh? I recently got a new job and this woman who I work with she's been there for a while. She's never liked me or spoken to me and when I ask her a question she makes a very rude face (as if to say why are you talking to me) s... (235 words)

Friends say I should break up with him because he doesn't love me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4160 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - this has been aggravating me so bad lately. my boyfriend and i just got back together friday. were taking things so. since we rushed into things when we first started dating. when hes with his friends he doesnt text me but when hes with me he's texting his friends. i dont rea... (184 words)

Like me? Or playing games? Mixed signals do not help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (?) age 26-29 - He is very difficult to read. I am not the only one just saying that. He does smile though and he does laugh. So THAT’S normal. He was gone for a year and couldn’t contact anyone for that matter until early March. I don’t think I ever really had a crush before. I have ALWAYS ... (968 words)

Could he still be in love with his ex g/f?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating my boyfriend on, off for almost a year. I have a problem with his ex who he is very best friends with. I looked at messages on his phone and he tries to horny chat with her, he even told her he was just with me to pass the time, even though she is trying to ... (107 words)

My family picks on me and it never stops!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age - my problem is that my family picks on me and it doesnt matter how many years go by or miles are between us they seem to pick up where they left off, one sister says i always have a attitude and makes the remark i hope you dont treat people that way. and just recently i planned ... (135 words)

When you are the only one who doesn't "connect" with yr boss socially at work? help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boss,in her 30s, has been away doing another job for nearly a year, and will be back in 8 weeks. I work in a hospital, a very people cented workplace. very different to an offfice or a store etc etc!! She is super assertive, super confident, pushy, type "A" perso... (563 words)

Any advice for first time sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4154 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi me and my boyfriend (who I have been seeing for afew months now and before that was a very close friend of mine) have decided to have sex for the first time. We've planned to go out for a meal with friends and then stop a hotel for the night (to avoid a long journey home) ... (191 words)

I found out my LDR b/f is in jail. Should I ask about or continue like I don't know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4160 days ago

2 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I hope yall can help me im really feeling confused right now, I've been dating this man for 8 yrs long distant... I love this man, he was my first he is 45 yrs old, im 33 yrs old...we drifted away for a year, now he started writing me letters which I'm happy to ... (137 words)

Threesomes/ group sex after an adulterous like history, Good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

2 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - in the past me and my gf broke up for two weeks and got back together. where she was with other men while we were not together. i was not with anyone, we came back and tried a mutually exclusive friends with benefits thing. and that's when i caved in to this other older woman's ... (304 words)