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Archived questions from: 14 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He treats me like he dislikes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 36 and am in a 7year long relationship with my man. Recently he has been snapping at me when I talk or ask him to do me a favour or pass on a message to his sister or other relatives and when I suggest things he sort of acts as though he doesn't need them because I know ... (135 words)

Is my guy friend too afraid to tell me how he feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4115 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My feelings keep growing for my closest guyfriend. I tried to let him know how I feel about us a few times a year ago..but it seemed he always tried to avoid it..it may be because we have known each other for so long and he is too afraid to say how he feels out loud. Or is that ... (415 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend my last relationship was long distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone so I have been in a relationship for about eight months now. He is my first proper boyfriend and any other boys I have kissed etc he knows about. The thing is I used to be in an LDR with a guy i met online - i never met the guy but we spoke for about a year and... (239 words)

I'm being left out and cannot escape it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I will get straight into my issue. I am a self confessed introvert with social anxiety. Recently my cousins, who are my age have been going out and meeting up without inviting me. They're all pretty loud and extroverts and enjoy clubbing, which im not into. But even when theyve ... (245 words)

How do I learn to live in the moment and stop worrying about something in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend back in mid January of 2013. We were casually going out and 2 weeks in, something bad happened. Though still informal, I had asked if he was seeing anyone else and what we were. He knew I meant it in a lets be honest point of view, rather than a needy girl ... (973 words)

I was such a good girlfriend! Why didnt my boyfriend want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend ended our 3 yr relationship saying we are two different people and it wasn't working. Ouch. I never thought I'd ever find a love like we had. It was like you see in the movies. I never thought I'd be one of those couples who sit on the same side at a booth in a caf... (169 words)

My husband is suddenly sending me hardcore text messages. I'd like just regular texts sometimes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and have been with my husband for ten years. Last month I hit a crazy horny raunchy craze in my sex life, so my husband was happy to oblige and excited to satisfy me : ) Well now, all he text me about is sex. Dirty raunchy explicit sex texts. I do find ... (148 words)

Ex called 3 months after breakup and says he wants to marry me. I don't want him back. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me three months ago. It was a bad breakup. We had no contact since then. Last night he called and said he realized that he still loves me and I'm always the one he wants to marry. He's not going to let go this time. I'm over him and don't want him back. I ... (90 words)

He's cheated in the past and I don't trust my husband fully now. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Married for 12 yrs. im a SAHM( Stay at home mom) with two kids 6 and 2 yr olds. Husband seeked escorts while 2nd pregnancy. Found out 2 yrs late. He says he is clean now no more a cheater but no matter how hard I try I find myself spying on him always asking questions. I ... (197 words)

To apologise for the way I treated her I helped pay for their wedding, but I realize that I love her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

14 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is long and I apologize. But I put myself into this ordeal and I want to know how to get out. I met this great woman when we were 16. We dated the summer after sophomore year (10th grade) but I regret to say that I blew her off most of the summer. When she told me she'... (691 words)

How do I get my children to talk to me again after I left their mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (M)

age - I left my wife just over six months ago. Not for another woman, I still live alone, but we had been arguing for years and years about everything under the sun, and in the end I just got tired of it. I deliberately chose a flat not far from our family home, on the same street in ... (96 words)

I like a guy, thought he liked me but turns out he wants my friend and we all work together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello...i started talking to a guy my friend knew..we used to talk almost daily and i started to like him and i could see he was intrested in me..but then all of a sudden he stopped talking and went silent on me..i texted him once and he never replied so he started texting my ... (153 words)

If a guy misses you, does that mean he has feelings for you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I just have a question. I hope to hear from some men as well. When a man tells you he will miss you (he is going away on a trip for a week)..... is this a good sign that he has feelings for you/has an emotional connection to you? Or is it only because he is... (97 words)

I feel I'm addicted to having this married man with me, even though he proved to be a liar and a cheater. How can I snap myself out of this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 years ago I met a man whom I fell in love with. We started seeing each other until I found out he was actually married with children (his wife read his messages and contacted me). I was devastated and things ended right there. Since we live close to each other, we someti... (283 words)

New to oral -- would he have been put off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - {Two questions combined} this is really embrassing but yesterday i had a boy go down on me for the first time. he wanted to do it and i didnt ask but i was so worried that i would smell as we were at a festival and that my downstairs was really ugly and a bit hairy and this wou... (118 words)

Does anyone have any good tips for a really inexperienced girl for when it comes to enjoyable sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i have recently met this guy who i really like. Although we aren't about to have sex at the present time, i am really worried about it. i am not a virgin but have only have sex twice before when it was really awkward. i didn't know what to do and basically just lay there as ... (121 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend of 3 months...what do I do now? Tell her or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

14 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I did a terrible thing and cheated on my girlfriend of 3 months. I was out with work mates having drinks (a lot) and on the way home I kissed one of the girls. I absolutely regret it. I am in so much guilt that its eating me inside out. I think I love my girlfriend but its ... (162 words)

I got pregnant left the country and am now afraid to return

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i've got pregnant in dubai which is out of marriage. my first baby. i requested an emergency leave in my work and they allowed me to go not informing them the real reason. company is expecting that i will return to the promise date. i was 2months pregnant that time so i still ... (161 words)

My fiance doesn't help out around the house.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fiancé for a couple years now, I really love him and love the time we spend together. My issue is he doesn't help out around the house. What do I say to get him to help out more without starting an argument or make him feel like I'm being a witch?... (55 words)

I'm struggling to leave my husband that I don't love anymore. Is it possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm sorry, I'm back again...I just can't seem to get anywhere so have returned with still hope in my heart . I am still struggling to leave my husband who I don't love anymore. He is a recovering alcoholic with depression. I suffer from phobic anxiety with agoraphobia. My husba... (290 words)

How do I let my boyfriend know that I don't want a ring?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This may be a bit of an odd question, but it's a subject I'd rather not bring up with women I know personally because so many of them are so materialistic. My boyfriend and I are not engaged, but we are getting serious and from comments he has made I think he wants to take th... (245 words)

I'm eight months pregnant with our first baby boy and I'm absolutely, ridiculously terrified!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for seven years. We're as strong as ever and I couldn't live without him. He's my soul mate. Well, I'm eight months pregnant with our first baby boy and I'm absolutely, ridiculously terrified. I thought I was ready to be a mom but holy crap, ... (123 words)

Should I stay in the relationship for a few months to see if I fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Iv been seeing my boyfriend a little over 4 months now and he has been an amazing boyfriend to me and he loves me but I 'like' him I don't love him..4 months as many of you would say is too soon to proclaim love I agree but sometimes you just know it so I guess th... (133 words)

We broke up and I know the problem will always be there. I really loved him so how do I cope with these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) age 36-40 - My ex and i were together for four years. We were very serious and i had his commitment. We were in LDR and he broke up with me a month before we planned to see each other. Ive been miserable for three months. Lately he came back to me saying he misses me and wants to work it ... (131 words)

Did he want to approach me/talk to me? Did I miss an opportunity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my pharmacist was checking me out the other day. I noticed him when he was coming back from his lunch break and I spotted him out of my peripheral. He slowed all the way down and stood there looking me over (like he was waiting on something) but I didn't turn to look at him ... (285 words)

I'm wondering if my friend is gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

14 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I come here again for advice or at least hoping to get answers that will help me understand this whole situation. So I just moved to a new state with a friend of mine we will call him D (who I met online on a business group) we pretty much do the same thing and such so we b... (1027 words)

The weirdest date I've been on. I still can't figure out what happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - The weirdest date ever, what does it mean? I met this guy in Miami, we had some kissing and some sort of almost sex in a car. He was out of town. We kept writing to each other very infrequently on FB. 2 years forward, I have a business trip and it's exactly in his little to... (618 words)

What can we do to celebrate when boyfriend has busted his ankle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my partner plays AFL and he has done damage to his left ankle (AGAIN!). Unfortunely this is bad timing as out one year anniversary is coming up on Monday the 19th and we were planning on swimming with dolphins that afternoon then go back to my place to cook dinner together. ... (163 words)