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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cheated on my boyfriend and told him, when I suggested splitting up he cried and begged me to stay, but the thing is I am much more attracted to the other guy than to my boyfriend

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys, I need help, I think I'm going mad. I've been in this relationship now for around 9 years. We love each other, but many a time during the first few years I slipped and cheated on my excellent boyfriend. I told him and we managed to work it out somehow. Afte... (276 words)

I really want to help women gain some body confidence but I'm not sure how I can make a difference

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really interested in helping women with body issues, but I don't know where to start. We've all heard of the negative messages that are out there telling women that small breasted women are automatically less attractive than large breasted women, and that small breasts ... (543 words)

Curious to hear from women who have been with men who felt inadequate

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

7 August 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Curious to know if any women have had relationships with men obsessed with being inadequate (esp too small) in bed and what the outcome was--relationship ended because of it, satisfactory resolution achieved and how, etc. Thanks!... (36 words)

My mother-in-law always expects me to accept her offers to help and makes me feel guilty when I don't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother in law will offer help and then expect me to say yes... if not her feelings will get so hurt and blame me for being a bad daughter in law and not allowing her to see her son. Me and my husband and 2 kids have been moving around due this his job and everytim... (430 words)

I called my partner out on his lies, he promised to stop but doesn't show me as much affection anymore.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my partner a year ago. It was wonderful to begin with, then I discovered his lies. Started with hiding porn, then he was mailing women behind my back when I was at work, then one evening on his phone he had signed up to a swingers website arranging threesomes and all ... (96 words)

My fiancé admits she still has feeling for her first love and wants him to be a part of her life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancé dated a guy who was 6 years older than her when she was 14, he was her first love but she cheated on him with me and we ended up being together. We're the same age, we started going out when we were 16 up to now. She told me she loves me very much but still has feel... (179 words)

Bisexual boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been dating this wonderful man for the past 2 years. We are almost official, getting married in 2 years. Just when I thought everything was perfect, I stumbled upon his char conversations that was saved in his mail. He had been chatting before we started dating a... (239 words)

My husband is too good to divorce but we live in a 100% non sexual marriage

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age - My husband never hugs me, or looks at me. I don't understand him, because he says ,he loves me. He is completely non sexual with me. I feel totally deprived, and neglected. He is a nice man, he is working hard, and supportive with money.. He gradually shut down, and become ... (282 words)

Is he a player? A cheater? What is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4150 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Is he being friendly? is he playing? does he like me? what the heck is he doing? About three days ago I was just standing in the auditorium looking for someone to talk to that I knew. Then someone came up behind me and this person just blows in my ear or my side of the face... (224 words)

Its been 4 months and I'm still not comfortable with my boyfriend's past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been 4 months yet I'm not comfortable with my boyfriend's past..he doesn't have a shady past or anything he's always been very honest to be about his ex gf's.. My boyfriend always told me that his ex was a mistake,he broke up with her and she did everything she could to... (87 words)

I need advice on how to finish with him, how do I break up without him harming himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. Well I’ve been with my boyfriend coming up for three years and I am no longer in love with him. I’m guessing my question is how should I finish with him? I've been putting it off for months now, tryng to find the right time, but we've both had other family ... (253 words)

Cheated on my boyfriend last night and feel so guilty! Should I tell him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out last night and got really drunk. A guy grabbed me and started kissing me and feeling me up and without thinking I started kissing him back. Then he said he would help to get me home safely but he got out the taxi too and we ended up sleeping together. The sex was ... (118 words)

A female in denial of her feelings. Anyone dealt with that?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Im curious. Has anyone ever dealt with a female who was in denial of her feelings? And if so, what did it take for her to get over it and come around?... (32 words)

Why does nothing work for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - After two days, we will have Eid in Pakistan after one month of Ramadan fasting. Eid is like Christmas for us in which we buy new cloths and shoes. It has been almost 10 years since I bought new cloths on Eid. My friends have gone miles in their life but life seems to have ... (139 words)

Whose not telling the truth about the mysterious life insurance policy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F) age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,okay I went to the source of finding out about if my mom has insurance on herself come to find out yes she does but the company claim that the policy premium was never paid for to start coverage back in 1999.So the woman said she would send me paper work to ... (116 words)

Should I contact this girl or continue no contact?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice on whether or not I should contact this girl who I really like but who I closed off all contact after admitting she doesn't want to go further with me after our first date. I met her over a month ago on a dating site and I quickly established a strong connectio... (511 words)

Will sex always feel like something too big is going in you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I think it is normal for our first time feel like fitting some thing big into a our vagina which is too small. Will this feeling appear in the 2nd time also? ... (32 words)

My brother's wife cheated and doesn't know who the father of her baby is!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my sister in law cheated on my brother for two years and now she's pregnant but doesn't know who the baby's dad is. Great! I'm so mad at her I could hit her and mind you i'm not a violent person at all. I've never hit anyone out of anger in my entire life. Idk how to feel ... (127 words)

First time advice for 2 virgins?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

7 August 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have decided we are ready to go beyond kissing. We are both virgins though she did have oral with a previous boyfriend. It doesn't bother me, but perhaps adds to my anxiety a little. Any first time tips? How should I initiate it? I may not have been her ... (71 words)

Neighbor confessed her love to my husband

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out my next door neighbor declared her love to my husband. She called him to make the confession. A few weeks ago I noticed they exchanged a "look" and when I stared at her, she felt uncomfortable. There have been many signs and now I an just shocked, angered and ... (97 words)

Should I take my best friends virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I was hanging out with a childhood guy that i used to date way back in elementary school yesterday. We have been close friends after the break up long ago and he asked me over for a movie night last night. Which i thought nothing of, but when i got there he was super flirty and ... (110 words)

I love my brother's best friend but apparently he has "too much respect" for my brother to date me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

7 August 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in love with my older brothers best friend for quite some time now. He will be a senior and i will be a sophmore. He's been a little flirty lately but not enough to say that he feels the same way I do about him. My brother won't give me a clear answer about if it ... (164 words)