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writes:Okay so my ex and I broke up about 8 months ago since then he got a new girlfriend and they have been dating for 8 months now she 17 and he's 21. Everytime I see her all she does is brag about him infront of me and try's gives me attitude and supposedly they are getting married her parents are letting them since they knew each other since they were little. But the the thing is he is in jail and he recently called me from there saying that he misses me and can't wait to see me and get back to the old days also to remember what we once had. So I'm just wondering if their getting married why in the he'll is he calling me saying all this stuff ? Is she Lieing or is he just trying to cheat on her with me ? I feel bad for her because she sees him as a god and they only been dating for 10 months and while he's lock up she cheating on him too do you think he's just talking her up cause he locked up or is he just marrying her because if he doesn't get out she can go there and do stuff with him ?
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 He's keeping his options open because, obviously, he is not madly in love with this girl. She's a young, cute thing he can have fun with.
I'm not sure how long his sentense is but he may be preparing a nest for when he gets out, a place he can rely on regular sex, a home cooked meal, his clothes washed and a woman to dote on him, while he galavants about town. Marriage clearly doesn't mean the same thing to him it does to everyone else.
As Cindy says, I really don't know why you care enough to ask this question. The two of them, and this situation are really very vulgar and boring.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 May I ask ,and why do you even care ? Maybe I am not being politically correct, but : with so many free guys around ( free both in the sense of single and in the sense of not locked up ), why do waste your time with someone who's in jail AND soon to be married ? I can't believe you are so desperate ! Be smart and leave your ex and his gf to enjoy their behind the bars romance - while you step firmly out of the picture.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): "So I'm just wondering if their getting married why in the he'll is he calling me saying all this stuff ?"
Because he's a scumbag and she's an idiot and he thinks you're just as dumb as she is. Don't prove him right.
"I feel bad for her because she sees him as a god and they only been dating for 10 months and while he's lock up she cheating on him too."
Very charitable of you to be sympathetic considering the way she treats you, you're a far better (and smarter) person than she is but she's going to have to learn for herself what a scumbag he really is, if she ever does. If you encounter her and she gives you attitude, just smile and nod your head and walk away. It will piss her off even more than you can imagine.
"do you think he's just talking her up cause he locked up or is he just marrying her because if he doesn't get out she can go there and do stuff with him ?"
Probably both, which only proves he's a scumbag and you should stay far far far away from him when/if he ever gets out. He and she deserve each other.
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