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writes:I was away for two weeks in September, while I was gone, apparently my boyfriend and best friend were doing alot of talking. It caused a huge argument and I stopped talking to my friend for a few months. Recently, I started talking to her again. I have had nothing but bad feelings since. One morning I woke up and thought to myself.. something is wrong. My usually very sexual man, was not waking me in the mornings like he usually did, no matter how many times I had asked him not to. My friend who normally called around 6am, had begun not calling until later. There were other small things, like things that they said that really bothered me. When I started questioning my boyfriend, he quit answering her calls if she called for me and asked me to stop hanging around with her. This seemed to really upset my friend, who continually would say things like ` he doesnt have to tell me he loves you everytime that I see him, I know that he does and just weird things that made no sense and just confused me. He had made a few comments about her sleeping around with guys that she ws running around with and when she questioned him in front of me, he got in my face, denying it. she then asked him if he wanted her to back off talking to ME and when he answered yes, she seemed much more emotional than she should be. I dont know if I am plain flipping out or there is/was something going on between them. He insist that he never cheated on me, but I have this nagging feeling that he is not telling the truth. It is making me miserable and ruining any chance at a happy relationship. I am pregnant and I cut ties with her and told her that he admitted to cheating (even though he hadnt). I dont know what is going on!!! Please help
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (9 February 2012):
 I'm with person12345. How did your friend respond when you told her your husband had confessed to cheating with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): I find it very suspicious he doesn't want you and your friend talking. It definitely sounds like he is the one who wants to control the information. The most obvious reason he wants to do that is because he doesn't want the truth to come out.
I would make amends with your former friend because it will give the chance for the truth to come out and for both of you to realize how manipulated you both were by him. I suspect he has been sleeping with both of you.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (9 February 2012):
 Ask him why he isn't being sexual. The obvious reason being you are becoming parents and he needs a big mental adjustment. Tell him you still desire his sex. Ask him why your friend has to back off talking to you. Focus on what you want right now rather than panicking about what could be wrong. You are in a hormonal stage. What you need is a supportive partner. He may not know what you need if you don't tell him. You need to feel desired and cherished. Besides suspecting that your boyfriend has cheated, what else made you think he doesn't love you anymore? What can he do right now to show you he still loves you/
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 February 2012):
 What did she say when you told her he admitted cheating?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012):
It could be he cheated with her and now she is threatening to tell you, or they're having an affair. Try tracking his cellphone and computer to find out for sure.
Good luck.
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