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Should an ex still be attending family functions?

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Question - (8 February 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Is it proper for My Husbands Ex to attend his neices Quinceanera (Sweet 15)? They have a 12 year Son together and he will be in the party? (kinda like a groomsmen) They were only married 1 year and we have been together 13 years (married 9). We have 2 kids of our own. I really dislike her because she if always so nosey she never wanted to cut the cord, enen though she re-married and has 2 more kids.

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (9 February 2012):

Honest Answer agony auntUnless her sole purpose of attending the event is to create havoc in your life, I don't see a problem with it.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (9 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntShe clearly has ties to the family. She divorced HIM not his family... so yes it's proper....

I am still close to my ex MIL and SIL and even my ex step daughter...

Stop being so threatened by this woman

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A male reader, MajorDisplayerOfInternationalPlayerBehavior United States +, writes (9 February 2012):

MajorDisplayerOfInternationalPlayerBehavior agony auntIt is proper because they have a child together and her son will be there.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 February 2012):

Honeypie agony auntSince you are not doing the inviting/hosting (I assume, since it is the nieces) - I would say it's up the the mother & father of the Quinceanera girl in question.

Focus on your own life/marriage and let her be.

I'm also guessing that it's not something new that she is attending family functions? So why is it all of a sudden a problem for you?

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