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anonymous
writes:Hey everyone :\ i am really upset and need some advice with my relationship...Me and my gorgeous boyfriend have been together for over ten and a half months now, at the beginning of our relationship things were amazing. We always spend a lot of time together but recently things have been going down hill a bit, my boyfriend doesnt seem to want to see me. He hqs ben having family problems and u have tried to be there as much as i can to help him through it. Everytime we plan to meet he will always cancel at the last min, it never was he fault he said but he would blame it on everyone else (his parents, anything etc). The last time i saw him was about a week ago and again tonight something came up so we didnt meet, i am so upset because i feel that he doesnt want to spend any time with me anymore :(My questions are:How can i find out if he still wants to be with me ??How can i get the spark back into my relationship??What is my relationship missing if anything??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): Sorry, but it sounds like he is easing his way out of this relationship. You have realised he isn't making the effort he used to and know somethings wrong,so listen to your gut feelings.
I don't think you will be able to get this back on track so it's up to you how you tackle it. Either end it or wait until he does. You can try and sit him down to talk but do you think it would help? You can walk away,self esteem intact,before it gets worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): "How can i find out if he still wants to be with me ??"
Plan to meet him several times; if he cancels at the last minute every time for dubious reasons that are always somebody else's fault, then he doesn't want to be with you.
"How can i get the spark back into my relationship??"
You can't if he doesn't want to be with you.
"What is my relationship missing if anything??"
Respect and honesty.
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