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writes:I split with my girlfriend six months ago and still enjoy hanging out with her. Before the relationship, we were always close, open friends so decided to revert to that. Anyway, I recently had a circumcision and following that were some complications. At times it looked dead irregular and we used to talk about that. Then she suddenly asked me if she could have a look. Embarrased (although I wouldn't have minded doing it), I said no. She said that if she had a problem (down there) she'd show me. I found this is a little surprising, and am wondering if this was a platonic, jokey question, or something more? Would other girls ask that?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 I think it was just sheer curiosity, not sexual.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 October 2011):
 I think this is a case of curiosity gone wild. I don't know of many women who would show their ex "down there" if they had a problem, as usually when two people break up, they split up.
I can't really fault her, because if I had dated an uncircumcised guy who got a circumcision after we broke up, I would be very curious as to what the change looked like. I wouldn't ask though, but I'd be curious. Wouldn't necessarily have anything to do with having feelings for him either.
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