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He flirts and texts. But that's it. Do I give up on him? He brings out the best in me.

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Question - (23 October 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I met this guy about a year ago. I started liking him about 5 months ago, still like him. He keeps sending me mixed signals, and Im just really confused. Ive told him I like him, but nothing ever happens.

Yet when we text or I see him, he flirts with me. I'm starting to want to just give up on the guy, willing to accept that nothing will ever happen.

But I really want something to, because I really like him. He brings out the best side of me, and I feel like I can truly be myself with him.

Should I just give up or should I keep trying no matter how hard it is?? and if i should keep trying, what steps should i take to finally get him to like me as much as i like him?

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A male reader, todsucht Japan +, writes (23 October 2011):

todsucht agony aunti would say that you should keep going at it, he will warm up sooner or later. He simply might not be ready yet. turning around because you like him doesn't make sense. not all men will chase girls, especially in modern society. + it shows they don't only want sex.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (23 October 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntAnd if he doesn't take up the opportunity then forget it he's not the man for you and there will be someone better around the corner.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (23 October 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntMake him chase you. He knows you are interested so now you need to get on with living your life and let him "get" you.

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