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writes:I aways thought I needed to add inches to my member. I started in 2003 and worked at the penal excersizes for years. It took for ever the natural way,but worked. I am 8 1/2 in length and 7 1/4 in cir WidthFlaccid I don't change that much, I'm 6" in length and 6" in girth. My partner and I enjoyed sex many times a week, but she seems to shy away from the larger me and does not enjoy sex as much. Did I make a mistake wanting a bigger member? (signed)Well hung Canadian
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 my boyfriend is of average size and whenever he talks of 'getting bigger" I beg him not to. too large HURTS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2011): I want to thank you all for the advice. YES! it does help.I want my partner, gf, to be at ease and do not want to hurt her in anyway. We do have a lot of fun to-gether and love to dance and enjoy our time together. I certainly intend to go slow with our intimate love making. Just being close to her brings on a big bonner and sometimes in public makes me uneasy, especially at the beach. Maybe our cold Canadian winters will help with the erection. Just a pun!I thank you ALL Your comments are very much appreciated. I intend to work on it and with my partner at side.Well hung
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): To be honest, to most girls thats too big. Every guy always thinks that long penises are better, but average ones are much more comfortable and enjoyable. Some even prefer guys who are a tad smaller, not al whole lot, but just smaller. I mean 7 and 1/4 inches around? Just because we give birth, doesn't mean its enjoyable. You should always talk to your partner before having that done. It doesn'f mean that she will never be able to have enjoyable sex with you ever again, but you will have to work for it, try new positions, and i reccomend alot of lube.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Right, this advice is going to be a little bit graphic.
My boyfriend is 6 foot 7 and...um "well preportioned". He's a very healthy 8 and a half to 9 inches. I, on the other hand, am a size 8/10 and about 5ft 5, so I'm a bit on the diddy side. When we started having sex I had to be very clear about what was comfortable and what wasn't. Lots of positions that woman usually enjoy (such as doggy etc.) I found I couldn't because he was just simply too big! This may be the case. You jumped from "average" to "large" and positions that she enjoyed before may have become uncomfortable and maybe even painful. Ask her about it, try new things and all that jazz. It might be helpful if she goes on top, then you can get a feel of how much she like's inside her (starting to feel cringy at my own words here). Or, more simply, it might be that she's used to you one way and this "new you" may take a bit of getting used to, especialy as it's such an intimate area. Hope I've been a bit helpful :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): I'm the partner and enjoy sex very much with my mate.
My problem is after lengthy forplay when he enters me I cum immediately yet I can't seem to satisfy his needs. He can go on forever. I just can't keep up with him. I love this big hunk very much and don't want to loose him.
The Partner
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Have you asked your partner how she feels about your size adjustment? She would have the answer you are looking for. And if she doesn't like your size, there is most likely a woman out there who will.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (23 October 2011):
 Well it seems as though you've appreciated your size "Well-hung Canadian". And I do believe choosing to work on your size is a matter of personal choice- kind of like getting any other enhancement... or even Botox. But your increase in size may've not been a popular decision with your girlfriend. She seemed to have preferred the "before" you. What I believe you should do is put more focus into making HER more satisfied when you two are intimate.Engage in more foreplay, make sure she's well lubricated, and carefully choose the right positions. For example, if you're in the sitting missionary or doggystyle position, you could control how much to put in her- and make adjustments on how fast or slow to depending on her vocal or facial reaction. So be very aware of her body language, communicate with her, and she may enjoy the sex better. Best!
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