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writes:Why should I stay with a guy whose mom doesn't like me? I'm getting so fed up with everything, if I been with her son for 2 yrs why does she still sit there and acts like a bitch with me ? I never cheated on him or anything. Okay yes we have our arugements but everyone has their arguements and its not like I'm always the one that provokes them. And if we don't argue she still talking about the times that we did so how is anything ever going to get better bringing up the past ? She tells him I'm crazy that I'm a bad girl that she don't like anything about the way I am that I'm the type to get him locked up so many crazy stuff I hate her she shouldn't even be talking because she is a gold digger and actually got my boyfriend's father locked up before and none of my boyfriend father side of the family likes her. Now she has a rule that when she's in her house I can't be there and if I am she be giving me these dirty looks I be feeling so bad it makes me want to cry. I'm not a bad person at all I was the one who helped her son graduate from high school I take him out I spend money on him I do everything for him I even used to babysit her kids for her clean her house like what else do she want ? And my boyfriend doesn't even say anything to her like come on I been here for 2 yrs he's never been with a girl for that long. What should I do ? What is the problem man ?
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 When my mother got with my farther his mother hated her, for no reason what so ever! She would blame everything on my mum say that the reason my dad always ended up in prison was because of her, even when my mother was pregnant with me at the age of 17 his mother would accuse my mum of cheating.
Unfortunely you get mums like these they always think that they know whats best for there sons and she probably looks down at you and thinks her presious baby boy deserves better.
From expeirence i can tell you that moms like these normanally never wake up or change there opinions and always stay wrapped up in there own shallow thoughts. It sounds like you have done alot for her but she is just being ungrateful and malicious.
If she is going to act like that then let her get on with it you don't deserve to be treated like dirt and if she ever makes any comments to you then simpley make one back show her that you not afraid of her and you are gonna bite back.
Also tell your boyfriend it would be nice if once in a while he could stick up for you tell him your sick of being treated like dirt and you have had enough of her always putting you down and just being horrible.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 October 2011):
 How old is your boyfriend?
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reader, lovesick111 +, writes (24 October 2011):
 If you love him, don't brake up with him cause of his mother. Set her down and talk to her and figure out why she doesn't like you.
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reader, projectwatever +, writes (24 October 2011):
first of all if he doesn't stick up for you.. SHE is gonna keep on talking and running his life because he let's her. I had and have that problem as of right now but my boyfriend has told his mother and stuck up for me various times and in order for her to respect you...HE needs to put a stop to her and say hey if you don't like the person i'm with well then i'm sorry its my life at the end of the day the only one who is gonna live it is me. If i make mistakes and i need the help i want you to be here and that's it. he needs to tell her that and that to stop giving her opinion unless he specifically asks for it. As for you. You need to put your foot down wtih him because if he's not supporting you now through tough times then he never will and that means you need to move on to someone who will know how to treat you like the queen that you are. Can you imagine yourself waking up to your monster-in-law in your ear every mornign. You'll never be able to live in peace...let alone rest so put your foot down in both of their lives and asert yourself okay. As for her she will never like you. accept it. she doens't even like herself and if she did that to her husband then she is irresponsible for leaving her son without a father. Plus you need to see yoruself above all this and respect yourself be3cause imagine how much time you have wasted waiting for him to man up and talk up to him mommy to respect you if he likes you then he needs to show it and if not then hey he's not the only piece of ass. Remember there is better tail everywhere you go. So put some effort into yourself you deserve it for all the hard work you've done. ^_^ good luck and tell me how it goes
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