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30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why have I not heard from him? is he just not that into me?There's this guy that I really like. I rang him earlier he was on his way to work and he said we should go see a movie tonight after work.Half 6 is now 10 minutes to 7pm and I've not heard from him. Should I just take it that he's not that into me? He said he'll text me after work but I've not heard from him.If he wanted to go movies with me would've rang me right? He's always working so maybe he's tired?What should I do? Am not ready or anything I was just waiting to hear from him. Is a bit late to go now cos he has work really early in the morning.Thanks..x
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reader, lovesick111  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 He probably forgot to call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): First things first. Make NO assumptions. Any number of things might have happened. He might have broken his phone, or fallen asleep after work or been eaten by a bear (unlikely, but it could happen!). He might have a genuine reason for not getting in contact with you, so try not to get yourself worked up.
Secondly, don't sit around waiting for him! Time goes slower when your sitting around waiting, and it's bound to make you worry more and wonder whats going on. Plus guys find women more attractive when they know theyv'e got their own things going on. If he doesn't contact you tonight give him a text tomorrow or something just saying I thought we were going to catch a film or whatever, and if he ends up being a time waster you know not to bother with him again! You obviously know the guy better than I do, so your a better judge of weather he's going to be genuine or not.
I hope this helps, and try not to get yourself worked up! :)
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (23 October 2011):
 Well there could be a number of reasons he has yet to call. I wouldn't say he's not interested in you just yet.
But whenever you do speak to him again, just find out the reason he didn't call you after work- and just try to set up another date. If he flakes out on you again, then it may be a problem.
Best of luck to you!
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