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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and we make out alot. but what is the next step? Reply to this Question
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reader, katiekate +, writes (23 October 2011):
 I'd say that since you two have been together for almost a year, that you two need to see what happens. I'm looking at your age as 18-21, and if you're dating a guy for that long, I'm assuming that you're the one holding up the next step. Take a look at yourself. Do you trust this guy? Would you like to move to the next step? Something tells me that in today's society, you know what the next step is, you just don't want to go forward with it for reasons unknown. Ask yourself, do you want to have sex with your mate? That being said, if you do want to move things forward and you're just not sure what to do, here's what I recommend:Wear sexy panties so you feel confident. While making out, slide his hand down, letting him know that you're willing to take things to the next level. Trust me...he will get the picture. Let him use his fingers to touch you down there, and by then, you two will probably be well into the moment and things will continue to progress naturally. Let him make the first "move", but definitely show him that you want him to!And of course, only do what you feel comfortable with. You two have been dating for quite awhile, so as long as you are in a monogomous relationship, I see nothing wrong with doing as much as you want...as long as it feels right.When having sex, the most important thing is to be confident. And don't force anything...let things happen naturally.
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (23 October 2011):
 Well, in terms of the bases, the next step is "feel" , meaning, i guess, feeling eachother up.But it's really all about what you two feel is the next step. And your guyses comfortability.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 October 2011):
It's not really about us telling you what the next step is. It should more be about your and your boyfriend discussing what you think should come next between you. Some on here might say sex comes next. Others might say you should move in. Others might say you should wait until you get married. Others might say you should have moved more quickly. You'll get a lot of answers on here that won't really make anything clearer for you, because everyone is different. So, I'd suggest that you and your boyfriend sit down and discuss what you both believe should come next. The important thing is that you both agree and that you're both comfortable.
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