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30-35,
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writes:A few things my girlfriend doesn't like for me to ask"can I have a kiss?" We used to kiss all the time but now she says it is just getting annoying."what are you doing?"She hates this question now before she would always let me know what's been going on in her life now it's feels like I've been shut out of her life even after me losing trust in her and a very big fight because she had cheated on me and it was sometime but I forgave her but now everytime I ask that question she gets extremely mad and the thing is she hangs out with her cousin a lot and the time she cheated on me was while she was with her and she tells me all the time that the only reason was because we haven't had sex in a month and this guy was pressuring her into sex and as being sarcastic she said yes only to run off and leave but she told me she saw his penis and gotten aroused and stayed and had sex with him"I love you"She now hates whenever I asked this and before the cheating she hated it she says it always got annoying and I would only say it once or twice in a day or two. I like to be very affectionate and she used to love it but still way before she cheated she says it gets annoying. Now she hates it when I hold her or when we try to make out"let's go out"She hates this now because we see eachother everyday at college and now everytime I ask her if we can go on a date she says no or will give an excuse that she's too tired. Yet she loves to go out with friends who she sees everyday as well.Now here are somethings she always does and says TeasingShe always loves to sexually tease me and the more mad I get the more she finds it amusing which brings me to the next one Loves to make me angryShe says she absolutely enjoys when I get angry and always tries to find new ways to make me mad. She tells me that she can never take me serious when I'm mad and that there is just something about me when I'm mad that is just halrious. Everyone wants herWhen I say that I mean EVERYONE friends family and random people always want her she is constantly getting checked out by guys and even straight girls turn lesbian for her and her cousin has a crush on her and me and him used to be friends now that I'm with my girlfriend he hates me and always tries to be better than me in front of her. Also everyone wants to spend time with her and she is a nice person and doesn't like making people feel bad except for me she would rather party and drink till she blacks out than do the same with me she never wants to go anywhere with me because we see eachother everyday at college and we saw eachother everyday thought out high school and still went places. She says I'm boringThis one bothers me a lot because we always had fun always we'd always be telling jokes and making fun of any situation we were in now she says that I'm just getting annoying and boring. She has ADHD/ADD don't know if that has anything to do with it but just there for better info for y'all. She even says sex is boring and we have great sex me and her always orgasm multiple times with a lot of creative foreplay and even some role play and I know she enjoys it but she says the only thing that's is fun is when I preform oral and that's it. Her cousin and auntNow they hate me for no real reason her cousin and I knew eachother before because we used to talk through online gaming now yes I was mean and an asshole only because it would be amusing to her brother which was because we were friends at the time way before I met my girlfriend and I have grown up and matured but her cousin still believes I'm mean and is always trying to find a way to convince my girlfriend to get rid of me even trying to get her to talk to the guy she cheated on me with. But she hates him I know because he had called bothering her only for sex and she pretty much told him off and said she hated him that what happened never meant to happen and she never enjoyed it ( she told me all she felt was pain and he didn't stop) and he only cares about himself. And she also said that she hopes I find him so I can kick his ass and he gets scared thinking that she'll protect him from me. He had asked her "you will protect me from your boyfriend right, you won't tell him anything" and she said "too bad he knows and he'll kill you if he could" and me and my girlfriend make fun of him for being a wuss because when I first found out about him he had told her that he'll kick my ass and he says he is in a gang and stuff so I know if we got into a fight he'll pull dirty tricks and fight unfair but no he is scared and also because he is shorter than my girlfriend who is 5'4" and I'm 6'2" and 220lbs but I'm more of a gentle giant but when I get angry I get ANGRY. My sister has gotten me that mad before and I punched solid concrete and my girlfriend swears she felt and saw the wall shook and she told him that now he's scared of me but still thinks he can have sex with my girlfriend whenever he wantsShe absolutely believes I cheated on herNow long story short I created a google voice account which gave me a different phone number as well as my girlfriend. Her number was 916 as the area code and I used to talk to a friend and we were only friends her area code was 416 now you see where this is going. Well I had already told my girlfriend about her and she knew for a while that she was just a friend but she thought she'll try to take me away from her and asked me to cut off all contact with her so I did but I had forgotten about the google voice number that was saved under my girlfriend's name under my contact list and the number was her google voice number well she looked through my phone found this number deleted it freaked out and talked to my friends found out the girl who I talked to number and saw 916 as 416 and flipped out on me and told me after months of trying to prove my innocence that the only way I could get her back was to tell her the truth and the truth to her is I cheated. She constantly thinks I'm looking at other girls when I'm not Well it's pretty self explanatory She always thinks she's ugly and fatThis annoys me because I always tell her she's beautiful and it is true she is hot. She never believes me even though her friends always tell her that as well and guys are always checking her out and that in itself is annoying. It almost got me into a fight because a guy made a comment about her breasts ( she has 38DD for a 19 year old:D) and she is thin but she sees her self and fat and ugly and it makes me mad because it's not true Other than all that bad stuff she is an amazing and wonderful girl she is nice and caring and even though at times I may not feel like she is she is always looking out for me and loves me and I love her too. But these problems have been going on for far to long and I really want to make this relationship work and grow stronger and any advice on that and suggestions on what we can do will be very much appreciated so anything people of Dear Cupid?
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reader, somebodyloved18 +, writes (24 October 2011):
Maybe you and your girlfriend just need some time apart. if she loves you and you love her just give each other some space. test the relationship a little bit and tell her you need a break and maybe want to see other people and see how she feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): Sorry but I am going to be honest with you. As I see it, your girlfriend has no respect for you. She loves attention and loves to have you grovel at her feet. Don't be anyone's doormat please. Demand respect if she can't then for your own sanity and happiness break up with her and move on, you are still young don't waste your youth in this drama. There is a girl out there that will be glad to love and respect you in the right way.
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