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*ami
writes:I have a sex question?well like a 2 years ago I had a boyfriend that took my virginity half we tryed having sex but when he was putting it in he only put it halfway in it poped but we didnt do it cause I jumped out I guess it hurt me cause I wasnt wet???uhm?i want somebody to give me some sex tips so it can feel so so so good that im goana love it and enjoy it!?position?ways to get turn on?lube? any tips please!so I can enjoy it with my next boyfriend with no pain but be honest please for those who have expierience?cause I really want it to go all the way in without pain?and had anybody ever been thru what ive been thru cause I feel the only one? and is it normal to hurt for the first time its like a pain like the penus cant go in?so please help please I want to have a best sex life with my boyfriend thank you!?
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reader, yami +, writes (23 October 2011):
yami is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys thank you very much I hope this helps!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): My first time hurt a little, but not too much. My advice would be to take your time, and have plenty of foreplay - you need to be relaxed and comfortable with what's happening.Also, if you feel you're not wet enough, why not get the guy to make you wet with his mouth, or use lube. I'd never have sex without lube these days.As always, make sure you're sorted with birth control, whether it's through condoms or hormonal. And remember - condoms are the only way to protect yourself from STDs!
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reader, frankman +, writes (23 October 2011):
The only advice I think you should be aware of and be careful from is don't get infected with HIV or STDs. Good luck.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 Sex will hurt the first few times, regardless of how wet you are, so be prepared to feel some discomfort. Make sure that your boyfriend takes things really slowly, and wears a condom!
In time, sex will begin to feel good, once your body is used to it, then you can try other things. Missionary is usually the best position for the first few attempts, as you are facing each other, and will know if something is wrong and can communicate easily with each other.
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