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Was he that good? Is this normal? I'm horny and if he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from touching myself

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Question - (23 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

First off, my age group is misleading, I'm a few days to 18.

Anyways, about a month or so ago, me an my bf got intimate, not sex, but he did finger me. Ever since then, when I'm horny and he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from touching myself.

Is that normal? Was he just THAT good that nothing else is the same? lol, should I be excited for sex after marriage?

(that last question is more of a joke)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011):

Yes, that's normal.

I'm in the same situation. I cannot pleasure myself like my boyfriend does - saying that, I've never got pleasure from touching myself.

I've just put it down to my boyfriend having bigger, longer fingers that can reach places my tiny fingers can't.

Don't worry, you're normal :)

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (23 October 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntSomeone else touching you is always a bit more erotic that yourself. Experiment a bit more when you are masturbating and learn a bit more about what feels good.

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