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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my fiance will often screw with people simply because she finds it funny.. it started out fairly simple like telling me the wrong weather forecast so i would wear summer clothes on a cold day. she does this with everyone however she often will joke about things i find quite offensive like suggesting we have an open relationship or a foursome when we have been offered and other such things. however i cannot tell if she really wants these things or not because she will so often mess with me about a million other things and it probably doesnt help that when it comes to her i am the most gullable man alive.my question is.. does she really want to try out such sexual things or is it just to mess with me even if i find it offensive
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 I think you need to lighten up! It sounds like your fiance is a little prankster and just having fun saying whatever comes to her mind. Is she just a blunt person with no filter attached? Are you more serious and socially sensitive than her?This is what I see: she accepted the ring and promised to marry you. Unless she had a serious discussion with you, or expressed an actual interest in alternate lifestyles, you're looking too deeply into it. You can either lighten up and not be insecure about these sexual jokes, or you can tell her to exclude the sexual jokes from her list as they offend you. If there is nothing concrete to go on, it's just in your insecure mind.
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