A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I saw my boyfriends contact list on the chat platform we both use the other day (the friends lists can be public if you accept friend requests a certain way) and he has two female friends with a website name in their chat profiles. Their names sounded odd somehow, almost fake, so I went to the two different sites.They both led to the same site which was for sex, camshows, meeting people, etc. I am now wodering if they are sex bots to chat with? They still seem like fake accounts, but I am left feeling extremely uneasy with a bad gut feeling. If he has them on his list, I assume he is talking to them.The confusing part is, my boyfriend cares about me a lot, and is very good to me. But I am thinking he accidentally friended these in public somehow? How do I proceed from here? Do I search further and see if they are real women? How do I mention it to him?Thankyou for your advice. Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (23 October 2011):
You just take a deep breath and calmly bring it up. He didn't friend them by accident. He may not know that you think web camming with women is cheating/may not have thought it was a big deal. If that's the case you need to make sure he knows that you think it's cheating.
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