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*113yx8
writes:Ok, so me and this guy have been talking for about two months now. We talk on the phone every night, text throughout the day and go out on dates (lunch, dinner, movies ect.) In the beginning he led on to the fact that he was looking for a actual relationship so I let myself see the potential and really started to like him. He also made it clear he liked me too. Then, suddenly out of no where he informs me that he is unsure of his feelings and he doesnt want to date me (atleast not right now) and I told him that I don't want to right now either. The next day, he tells me how I'd be such a good girlfriend for him and everything about me is perfect to him. So basically every few days he has been switching back from being distant to acting like he really likes me. I'm so confused. Two days ago we had breakfast and after he told me he'd talk to me later, which he never did. So now we haven't talked in two days when normally we talk everynight. I kind of felt like it was his job to talk to me first this time.. However, I texted him this morning and he hasn't replied yet... any idea on what this guy may be thinking?? Thanks for ANY help!!
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reader, a113yx8 +, writes (24 October 2011):
a113yx8 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, i actually am beginning to wonder if they is someone else that he is interested in. Also, thanks, iamheretohelpyou, for making me smile by adding the humor into the answer :)
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (23 October 2011):
 Probably something is going on with another girl. Maybe he likes someone else and she gives him mixed signals to him and he is confused so this would explain his attitude change. Try to play a little hard to get, be a little challenge to him. Be kind but make yourself a little unavailable. Best wishes!
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