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writes:Hello everyone. I'm a 24 year old virgin. I've never done anything more than kiss heavily. I'm perfectly fine and happy about that. I'm engaged to a wonderful girl who is just like me; needless to say we are insanely eager to get married and have sex we're counting down the days lol). We're always talking about being the first and only ones to share each others bodies and I feel unbelievably lucky to find a girl who was raised and thinks like me about sex. Two weeks ago I accidentally ejaculated on my doctor twice. I felt horrible, ashamed, embarrassed, and guilty. Do I tell my fiance this? How upset will she be? Did I do anything wrong? I know for a fact that she'll be upset because on numerous occasions she's said something along the lines of "I can't wait to taste what you have and I'm so happy I'll be the first." I really don't know to what extent she means that literally and to what extent she's saying that because she assumes that's something I want to hear. Anyways, now my fiance won't be the first to "taste what I have," the doctor is. Although I don't know whether or not she tasted it because I really don't know whether or not any went inside her mouth, but definitely there was some on her lips. Do I tell my fiance?Will this ruin what we have?If there are any females reading this, would this upset you if it happened to your bf, fiance, husband?I told my best friend about this and he said not to worry, it's hilarious and that my fiance would probably just die laughing and wouldn't be upset at all. Is that true?Please help. I love this girl. I've been with her for 2 years and now we can finally afford to get married and move in together. I don't want to ruin this. On the other hand I don't want to hide something if this is indeed "something" to hide.Thanks in advance for any help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2014): I call BS on this one. Come on. You've dreamed that up. Leave the girlfriend maybe, and ask the doctor on a date?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Deep sigh... I sense troll play here but I'll be kind...
first off you are way too young to be given a prostate exam so exactly what was the doctor doing that placed her face within reach of your ejaculate???? and why did it have to happen twice????
What would you tell your fiancee? it's a bodily function and nothing to hide
"honey I went to the doctor for an exam and it was so stimulating I had an orgasm".... for us this would be dinner table conversation and we would get a kick out of it.
are you and your gf not self stimulating (masturbating) on your own?
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reader, Battista  +, writes (24 October 2011):
OP please can you give us a few more details.
I assume this episode with the doctor occurred during a medical check-up or examination. I am at a loss as to how anything would have got on her lips, however. But there we go.
As far as your gf is concerned you're still a virgin. Losing virginity happens through penetrative sex. Personally I don't think she needs to know about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): If you think ejaculating on your doctor by accident means you're not a virgin, you need to take a sex education course! This is really bizarre, what exactly caused this ?
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reader, frankman +, writes (23 October 2011):
hmm what exam possibly made the doctor's face close to your penis? just wondering?I really don't think,any ways, if this really happened that you need to tell her. Its risky! After you both get married you can tell her. Remember that your intention was not to cum on the doctor's face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): What kind of an exam was that??? When you say doctor, you mean a real doctor not a prostitute dressed up as one, right? Just kidding. But I seriously can't imagine how could that happen. Twice! And your sperm got into the doctor's mouth? That is just too bizarre. But that was not a sexual situation so you are still very much a virgin.
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reader, uroboros +, writes (23 October 2011):
no worries, u are a virgin untill u have proper sexuall intercourse, not untill your first ejaculation.
by the way.....what kind of check up was it????
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 That's hilarious! Tad unsure how you managed to ejaculate twice and on your doctors face... must have been one hell of a check up!
Yes you're still a virgin, no you don't have to tell your fiance, though I think she'd more likely than not find it funny... but that depends on her personality.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (23 October 2011):
When you undergo certain types of medical exams, certain reflexes can occur. Ejaculating during the course of a prostate exam is one such reflex. While it may be startling or even embarrassing, it has absolutely nothing to do with losing one's virginity.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 First of all what happens at the doctor is between you and the doctor and no body else's business. You don't need to tell this to your girlfriend.
Second you are still a virgin. Virginty is only lost when you actually penetrate someones vagina and I'm fairly certain that didn't happen at the doctor's.
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