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writes:Ok so I'm just going to have to give some details and then explain myself.I met this guy "matt" a little over 2 weeks ago when my friend "Ann" invited me to matt's house. She was casually dating matt's roommate "tom". I wasn't even looking to meet someone, but as soon as matt and I started talking we hit it off. It was surreal how similar we seemed. So the past two weeks+ we've hung out numerous times and I've spent the night (no sex as neither one of us just casually sleeps with people). Well, I don't want to go into a relationship too fast, but I'm pretty sure I'm starting to really like him. I asked him about a day ago whether he thought of me as just another girl who was a friend or if there might be potential to continue dating and see where it went. He just kind of laughed it off.His perception, I think, is that if he's hang out with or dating a girl it obviously means he likes her at least a little, which is totally understandable. But how do I go about discussing this with him and also letting him know that I'm just curious and not ready to make a full commitment. I guess I'd just like to know where I stand with him. And to be honest I don't want to waste his time and I certainly don't want him wasting my time. I want to take things slow, but not at a glacial pace.Also, he's incredibly sarcastic, which means it's doubly hard to get a real straight answer out of him. Any help with figuring those type of people out and talking to them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): i dont know how to answer all of this but i think if hes sarcastic and you dont know what he means by something u should definitly ask him for a direct answer and make sure you always get one, you clearly deserve that. and if you hit it off then i wish you good luck, hopefully he isnt just trying to lead you on, but just bear in mind he could be and dont let yourself get hurt
good luck x
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