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writes: Just curious: my boyfriend and I made "plans" to move to another city together to attend the same college. Lately he's been hinting more and more that he really wants to go through with it. He says things like "i am gonna need a roommate you know (hinting and smiling at me)" and "when we move in" and "if we move in" and "we need to save up as much as possible to get out of here and move in together."We've been together for more than 2 years. These plans are to take place in a little less than a year....during that time, how can I figure out if it's really what I want, and not only because he wants it? Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): If you don't know if it's really what you want, then it isn't really what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did not say I don't want to go. Please don't assume that. I do want to move in with him more than anything, but I am not sure if it's the right thing to do and not just an impulsive thought.
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reader, rivi  +, writes (19 December 2011):
You obviously [ except to yourself ] DON't want it.
Otherwise you would not be asking the question.
So work out some way to let him down gently......the longer you postpone doing so the more you will hurt him [ and he sounds a nice guy ].
Grow up and be honest with him and with yourself.
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