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writes:I'm twenty three and in my First sexual relaltionship with my bf :) we had more sex than we normally have one off the times my bf went soft. I know he went soft and he was embassied I hugged him after he went ans took the condom off x and told him I love him x I then said it was properly due to the fact we was doing to much off a good think it just wasn't working x we then tried again this morning and it went find but am wondering if my bf ever goes soft again how can I make it happen so he doesn't because we gave up when he did this time that was though my choice well a joint desions :) I love my bf and I feel in a way it was due to me even thought I reassured him it didn't matter because to me it didn't I just felt it was me and he just wasn't turned out he didn't come he just went soft
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): Normal, normal, normal, normal.
But many guys are embarrassed when it happens. Many women feel bad about themselves when it happens (it has nothing to do with you).
If it didn't happen, guys would never get any work done.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (19 December 2011):
 That is an extremely common thing, and I think you hit it on the head -- he did it so much that he just wore out! Even the best need a recharge! It absolutely wasn't you at all! The spirit was willing, but the flesh was tired out from marathon sex!
Don't worry, don't make a big deal about it (trust me, he was embarrassed because he thought it was HIS manhood failing him!), and I'm sure with a bit of rest, reload, and fuel, he'll be back to his rock hard prowess in no time! Going soft doesn't automatically mean fading desire.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): It wasn't your fault and it wasn't his fault, it just happens sometimes. It could be too much of a good thing, and his muscles just relaxed from over-stimulation.
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